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Originally posted by: Cutie-NivRen
Hey Millie loved your analysis and agree with you NivRen confession was beautiful and unique in it's own way and I loved the greh pravesh of Nivedita.
But don't get angry I am still doubtful at Sid's part if DS can show his resentment from Viren and got in an accident for YD dadi to show her love, if Nivi can get angry and Viren literally had got beaten up or bear the pain to woo a girl like Nivi who forgive others so easily, how come Sid forgave Viren so easily don't get me wrong but Sid can't be saint without showing any anger or resentment he can't forgive Viren. Call me Anti Sid or what but till the time CCBM is running I am not going to believe Sid forget everything so easily and is so cool about it.
Hey Rachu my sweetie, hope you are doing fine? its been a while I spoke with you. and thanks for your lovely comments.
And coming back to Sid, I always said its your opinion and I will never get mad at you and think you are anti Sid dear, its your opinion and I honor it, not always our opinions match right?
As far as I understood Sid and don't think I am supporting him, you know how I felt when he did mistakes so I am not going to say he is saint, he is perfect and at the same time I am not going to say he is black guard villain, he is a mere human who have his own weaknesses and he does make mistakes and saying that I will also say that he is a good person with good heart and he always wants everyone's happiness and his family to be always together. He said the same to Nivi when she was leaving the Sood house.
And coming to Sid-Viren how come he is not mad at him or did not show his anger, Viren never ever directly hurt Sid, I think you will agree with me here. Yes, once or twice he wanted to put the blame on Sid but that too indirectly and he made Sid accept it, he put Sid in a situation where he had to accept it.
Coming to Sid showing his anger, he did show his anger not once but 3-4 times on Viren. He wanted to talk to Viren sweetly and make him understand he is with him always after the dining table incident where Viren asks dadaji that will he send him away again if he makes mistakes.
But on 50th anniversary day he came to know Viren was behind the stalking incidents but before confronting Viren he went to Nivi because for him it was necessary to protect Nivi and tell her to be careful as he was thinking that Viren was trying to harm her, he did not know the real motive of Viren but if you remember the same day when NivRen came into the hall to tell dadaji that they won't go for remarriage, Sid was so fuming with anger he was about to throttle Viren he came forward with anger (remember) but dadaji said what's going on Sid.
And then he was watching over Viren that he might do something with Nivi that is the reason he kept his vigilence and when Viren was going out he made him come inside party time. then the whole incident happened and Nivi came to know the truth, and if you remember again when Sid saw those items on the porch andthen ran towards Nivi first thing he asked was if she was ok, did Viren hurt her. Even at that time he was thinking Viren motive is to harm Nivi, he never ever thought that Viren's hatred is towards the family. then Nivi tells him everything and then he understood his brothers pain and want to go find his brother but Nivi went alone, when she came back alone he goes to talk to her and she tells him all the details which made Sid think again and he says he never meant to hurt Viren, he always loved him and wanted to protect him.
And then comes the confrontation infront of family, here if you remember Sid again lost his temper with anger because Viren put Nivi as center inthis plot when he said ask her and Sid knows how CC is she won't rest until she starts taunting Nivi, his protective instincts for Nivi kicked in and he shouts at Viren to tell them the truth, Sid lost his cool there and then Viren lost his cool when Sid shouted and we allknow what happened.
And then Sid showed his anger again on Viren when he gave away the money to charity. Sid did not get angry for giving away the money but humiliating dadaji was the next strike that is the reason he got angry on Viren and said the same that if he is mad at him hurt him but not the family.
Next time Sid showed anger was on the day of Divorce fiasco, remember he shouted on Viren saying you cannot do as you please.
But the same Sid was the first one to understand that Viren was changing, because he understood his brothers pain and at the same time being a man himself he understood it will be difficult for Viren to come out that soon out of his guilt. Remeber when he tells Nivi that Viren is changing but give him time he will come back.
So Sid did show anger towards Viren for doing wrong things but he also showed compassion and patience towards him as it was needed. Sid wants his family to be together and happy, and him being elder brother maybe by mere months or days but he feels protective towards Viren and we saw that from childhood and we saw that recently too when Bhaiyaji's gang came to the residence he was worried and called Viren remember.
These are my thoughts and I am not imposing on you but just wanted to share. hopefully I made some sense here.
Udne Ki Aasha
Kumkum Bhagya
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