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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: anjubala

Thanks for this lovely post but I differ on the point regarding "He does not admit his mistakes."

I think he is the person in Sood house who readily admits his mistakes. Like when he did not send contract to the client, he came up to DS and said sorry and agreed that he made a mistake and he wants to learn from it. And then he told the truth to his family that he is the culprit.. whatever be the circumstances or reasons, he does not shy away from admitting his mistakes...

welcome dear, instead of mistakes lets say weaknesses. he is not able to confess his inabilities like in kite scene and Viren was shaking when giving book to DS bcos he cant admit mistakes/inability/weakness as he dont realize them. he told truth that he is culprit bcos he no more could hide it as nivi caught him red handed. he told truth to family bcos DS praised nivi n labeled viren as nalayak so he blurted out the truth. he also told truth bcos he wanted to prove their labels to b correct. to seek attention n for revenge he told truth. anyways thanks for liking this post
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: zehra-pisces

welcome dear, instead of mistakes lets say weaknesses. he is not able to confess his inabilities like in kite scene and Viren was shaking when giving book to DS bcos he cant admit mistakes/inability/weakness as he dont realize them. he told truth that he is culprit bcos he no more could hide it as nivi caught him red handed. he told truth to family bcos DS praised nivi n labeled viren as nalayak so he blurted out the truth. he also told truth bcos he wanted to prove their labels to b correct. to seek attention n for revenge he told truth. anyways thanks for liking this post

I think you have pointed out that we should label it as "weaknesses". Yes, he is finding it difficult to handle his weaknesses and the way he was treated has made him feel that he cannot do anything correct. And that is a very big let down as far as his confidence is related. He is a victim of low-esteem and low confidence. He only believes that he is bad and cannot do anything what Sid can do. This comparison has led him to this condition. Yes he blurted out truth and truth is that he made grave mistakes...That was not weakness but mistakes and he admitted them.
Your case study is really good and makes lot of sense. I did psycology too in Master's so I know what you are saying...Thanks
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: anjubala

I think you have pointed out that we should label it as "weaknesses". Yes, he is finding it difficult to handle his weaknesses and the way he was treated has made him feel that he cannot do anything correct. And that is a very big let down as far as his confidence is related. He is a victim of low-esteem and low confidence. He only believes that he is bad and cannot do anything what Sid can do. This comparison has led him to this condition. Yes he blurted out truth and truth is that he made grave mistakes...That was not weakness but mistakes and he admitted them.
Your case study is really good and makes lot of sense. I did psycology too in Master's so I know what you are saying...Thanks

thanks a lot dear for understanding my points of view n things which i tried to explain. u shud watch edward de bono's 6 thinking hats method. the videos are available at youtube. that method helped me to understand viren. i studied this method in creativity n idea development
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Awesome post...and thanks a lot for sharing ur thoughts abt viren's character with us....it is really insightful and helpul for us to understand him more.......
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Posted: 14 years ago
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You know what Pyaar ki yeh ek Kahaani is the only serial i watch... I even have a Blog on which I write daily episode updates.

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