Originally posted by: gmann2010
I agree with you and Milee both, I don't get mad at VD either, I really like the way she make Viren and Nivi feel loved when others are ignoring them. And she would have been totally different person if Bhuvan is still alive. But when I saw her giving promise to NT dadi, I thought she will be stronger for Nivi and protect her. I was mistaken, she still tries with CC, but YD she can't go over her, and I think this is more because of respect rather than fear. But again I was expecting that VD consider Nivi as her own daughter, as mother you do everything to protect your own kid, no respect or fear can hold you back. I think I was just expecting more that VD can do.
Random question... di, how do you post a YouTube link on this site and have it show in the little box? I keep trying with [YOUTUBE] -link- [/YOUTUBE] but that doesn't work for me. Do you know how I am supposed to do it?
As for Vandhana, well she tries her best and I have to give her that. She always makes Nivi and Viren feel loved and she is a great Taiya Ji to my jaanu Viren. When the others were ignoring him today, she said in such a loving manner that since what he is saying is from the heart and the others aren't receiving it, that's their fault and not his. I don't think Vandhana's personality would be different is Bhuvan were still alive. She's still be loving and caring but if he were alive, she's be stronger. That's be the only difference. She would be able to fight for what she thought and believed and would be able to better stand by Nivi. But what you said about her thinking about Nivi like her daughter is right. If she really took Nivi as her daughter then she wouldn't just stand back and watch such injustice happen to Nivi. I mean seriously, this shows there is a major difference between saying something versus reality. She can say all she wants that Nivi is like her own daughter and holds the same stance as Sid in her life but that'll never be true. Yes, she tried with Chancal and tries to explain to Yashondra but if something were happening to Sid like Nivi, she'd forget all about respect and fear and everything and just stand up for him.