Siddharth should go ahead and Marry Divya

I know that this statement of mine is going to make all Niviarth Fans to want to throw stones at me, but as a Relationship Expert my Opinion is that Siddharth should forget Nivi and move on with life. My Opinion is based on some strong reasoning I am sure you would agree too.

• Siddharth broke Nivedita's trust and did not stand by her (more than once) when she needed him the most. Because of him her father almost committed suicide and also left the home leaving her to work to support the family. How can Nivi forgive him for the way Siddharth treated her and broken her heart? It is true that she forgive him for what he did to her because she is good at heart, but would the love and trust she had in her heart for him ever be the same again? I don't think so. So it is better to leave Nivedita alone and move on with life.
• Secondly, It is Siddharth's decision to get Married to Divya even if it is for dadaji's sake. He cannot back out after going through all those ceremonies with Divya and then say that he cannot marry her. Think for what would happen to Divya and her family in such a case. So Siddharth should do the honorable deed of marrying Divya and also give her all the rights as a wife.
• If Siddharth ever loved Nivi, he should do what makes her happy. And Nivedita's happiness is in seeing Siddharth and Divya married. Mistakes can happen in life, but some mistakes are not reversible and can ruin our entire life. But we can try to
• Be Careful when we speak. Words once spoken cannot be taken back.
• Take responsibility for our Actions and make Amends. May be we may not be able to repair the damage fully but at least we can get rid of the guilt in mind and have a satisfaction that we tried to make things right at least.
  

very well stated.......i completely agree.......

sid marries divya n nivi marries viren, theres nothing left in CCBM excpet saas bahu

shelly_nair

Originally posted by: shelly_nair

i totally disagree with you. i'm watching this show from the very first episode. i have seen much chemistry between SID n PUTUL than VIREN n NIVI. now that ur saying SID should backout b'coz he was not with NIVI when she was in need. aree. these things can happen in any relation. SID knows he has made a mistake and he has tried to tell this to his PUTUL. even he has told this to PUTUL's daadi. u are saying that SID must marry DIVYA b'coz he was not with NIVI. now what if tomorrow VIREN does the same? NIVI should marry another guy? aree aisa hai to yeh to chalta hi rahega.. PUTUL knows that SID LOVES ONLY HIS PUTUL. PUTUL n SID love each other. we all are hoping that the team CCBM will bring back these couple again.

A Relationship once broken can never be the same again, it would be disaster. Nivedita has lost a lot because of Siddharth and she also moved on when she has taken the decision to back out from the relationship. If you have noticed, despite of knowing the truth of Keshav Siddharth has not apologized to Nivi or accepted that he did wrong. Also I am not telling that Siddharth should marry Divya because he was not with Nivi when she needed him (though that matters when you look into the pov of Nivi for her decision) but I am saying that he cannot back out from marrying Divya because if he is a real man he would honor his promise of marrying Divya. Moreover, Customs and rituals are not garbage.... they do have a meaning and significance. After going through the rituals with Divya he cannot just say that he can't marry her! Think of the Society and Girls family also. What would happen to a Girl who is rejected by the would be Groom because he fancies another girl? Even if the Guy is at fault, stones are mostly thrown at the Girl and her family.

I totally agree with you Anamika....I am not saying this becoz I am a Nivren fan, but becoz Sid is not the person for Nivi. Like Dadi said, even if it was for his Dada Sahib's sake or so, he agreed to marry Divya. Someone said that these things happen in relationships...yes, they do and those relationships are never back to how they were earlier. Nivi lost a lot becoz of Sid's behaviour when she needed him the most. The base of a relationship is not just love, but trust and support to the one you love. He did not have that. Like I mentioned earlier, even after knowing the truth, other than giving her sorry looks, he has not even once tried to clarify things to Nivi. He is busy feeling sorry for himself. Even at the hospital when he saw her there, he was busy yelling at her rather than asking why she was there. When he came to know the truth, he just expected her to go back to how it was before? SHe has forgiven him, like she told Viren, but she has not forgotten what her family went through.

Originally posted by: shelly_nair

i totally disagree with you. i'm watching this show from the very first episode. i have seen much chemistry between SID n PUTUL than VIREN n NIVI. now that ur saying SID should backout b'coz he was not with NIVI when she was in need. aree. these things can happen in any relation. SID knows he has made a mistake and he has tried to tell this to his PUTUL. even he has told this to PUTUL's daadi. u are saying that SID must marry DIVYA b'coz he was not with NIVI. now what if tomorrow VIREN does the same? NIVI should marry another guy? aree aisa hai to yeh to chalta hi rahega.. PUTUL knows that SID LOVES ONLY HIS PUTUL. PUTUL n SID love each other. we all are hoping that the team CCBM will bring back these couple again.