Siddharth should go ahead and Marry Divya - Page 2

Originally posted by: Anamika1570

I know that this statement of mine is going to make all Niviarth Fans to want to throw stones at me, but as a Relationship Expert my Opinion is that Siddharth should forget Nivi and move on with life. My Opinion is based on some strong reasoning I am sure you would agree too.

Siddharth broke Nivedita's trust and did not stand by her (more than once) when she needed him the most. Because of him her father almost committed suicide and also left the home leaving her to work to support the family. How can Nivi forgive him for the way Siddharth treated her and broken her heart? It is true that she forgive him for what he did to her because she is good at heart, but would the love and trust she had in her heart for him ever be the same again? I don't think so. So it is better to leave Nivedita alone and move on with life. Secondly, It is Siddharth's decision to get Married to Divya even if it is for dadaji's sake. He cannot back out after going through all those ceremonies with Divya and then say that he cannot marry her. Think for what would happen to Divya and her family in such a case. So Siddharth should do the honorable deed of marrying Divya and also give her all the rights as a wife. If Siddharth ever loved Nivi, he should do what makes her happy. And Nivedita's happiness is in seeing Siddharth and Divya married. Mistakes can happen in life, but some mistakes are not reversible and can ruin our entire life. But we can try to Be Careful when we speak. Words once spoken cannot be taken back. Take responsibility for our Actions and make Amends. May be we may not be able to repair the damage fully but at least we can get rid of the guilt in mind and have a satisfaction that we tried to make things right at least.
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Originally posted by: pesi11

i agree with u for most of them..but not one thing....

i am surprised y ppl always think that they should do anything for making their loved one's happy... yes ofcourse...everyone wants do anything for their beloved..but nobody can leave their loved one's for their happiness of seeing with others...it happens in reel..not real..we can do anything for loved one's but not the thing for leaving them and going with another..

Originally posted by: pesi11

i am not saying sid and nivi r not sacrificing...if u r ready to give up ur love for ur family it means u love ur family more than ur spouse... that is wat i am trying to say...if u really loves someone u cann't just leave the person for ur familie's sake... it vl be very tough.. i have seen ppl sacrificing their loves for their families ...few ppl afraid of their parents and few of their attachment with family... thr is no point of selfishness in love...is loving somebody against ur parents is selfish??? no way..the person doens't even deserves the love if he/she wants to leave their love for their family...... if u r ready to leave ur love for ur family wat's the point of making it..? betr not to love... or else get permission frm ur family before u love ..so that opp person doesn't feel dumped....