Originally posted by: sinchan
OMG !!! NavZ!!! you have really put all my doubts to rest!!! but i dont know whether to feel sad or glad!!!
All these thoughts have been lingering inmy mind too! off late i have had serious doubts about Nivi really being in love!!
I feel she has never been very sure of their love or may be she felt it was too good to be true!! one thing is for sure She has never put her Love first!!!Be it for Divya or for her dad she was ready to give it up at the drop of a hat!! may be all she did was be in love with the idea of being in love!! coz Sid made it sooo rosy and soo romanitic for her that it was very easy to think that she is in love!!
She was in awe with him!! her handsome childhood friend who found her beautiful!!! made her feel so special!! Thats what all girls crave for!! But a womans heart is much more difficult to please!! this whole painful incidents have made her growup ver early and this womans heart will know that it was not the love she thought it was!! And she is yet to discover true love!!!
And SIddharth is such a mass of cofusion!! I remember one scene where he tell his mom"i want a wife who is just like you!! "what he means is awoman who is very subdued ,who doesnt have the courage to stand up for her own rights!! vandana might bea very good person and morally strong but she has never raised her voice against injustice!!And sid was and is in love wil that Putul who didnt have a voice at all!!
He will be in for abig Shock if he expects Nivi to forgive him and come running back to him!!He has to fall in love with Niveditha all over again!! only then he will stand some chance!!!
More than anything he was angry that she raised her voice in front of elders!! he did not even think that she was just standing up for her beliefs!!
He has to do alot of growing up to do!! He was also in love with the idea of love!! being in love with an innocent ,bashful girl who loved nature!! he found her mysterious and that is what pulled him to her!! He did not even expect her to admit her love coz he was so sure that she loves him!! sort of always taken her love for him granted!!!And he loves damsels in distress!! we have seen enough examples of this!!
so as u rightly said this love was not enough!! it couldnt prove strong enoughto hold them to gether!!
either their love has to grow up and undergo definite changes now or we have to assume that NivArth was never meant to be!!
\i would like to discuss further but its dinner time here so i will see u tomorrow!!!
Thanks for the lovely post!!