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Posted: 13 years ago
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ok this is fine
going on in the show humilating krish
my friend her husband didnot told her tha he has harnia and had been operated 2 time before her marriage and little bit stuttering problem too which she found on first night in that he stutter
because before marriage he came and see the girl without talking to her everybody think he is nice guy
i have seen another story one guy married 5 time with having 2 kids from first marriage and paying childsupport.
last women he married was police officer daughter in India.he was lieing and getting married when
pick up your news paper and read news how many news are there. he was marring for money so marriage is business for him.
as a young people you guys are living in dream world like everybody think like that like when i was young i also dream like perfect husband like fairytale and in movies they show and my freind too
according to you guys me and my friend should be doing same thing (krish is doing with rajini) kicking our husband out of house or humilating our husbands so that our lifes messed up so much then one day we should go for divorce
or krish is boy he can do anything we are ladies and we cannot do anything.
Is this solution to the problem?
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Posted: 13 years ago
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I m nt against her bcx of her hiding the truth...i hate her careless attitude towards krish ...she never respect his feelings ...he is human and in love with her how can she be so careless...
Second if she cant tell him the trutb the she dun have right to lie with him...
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: amarjeet73

I donot understand why everybody against rajini namita is correct choti si mistake ke liya sare use bahu mane se inkar kar rahi hai

I am with rajini sare world mein sab log dokhe se shadi karte hai
doesnot mean everybody took divorce or left that person alone like they are doing in show
maf karna sabse badi baat hai
I know shaadi se pehale usne nahin bataya to kya sare use paraya kar deange
sab se badi baat krish ke ma ne krishna ke agg mang kar is bahu ko liya tha ab use bahu ke saath khare hona chaiye
70% of people in this world do that too hide past for the sake of kids. and in this she belive her mother told the truth.doesnot matter it is boy or girl
like most of NRI had married before and tell people they never married.even sometime they have kids and paying child support and never told other people whats going on in other country where they are living
like my husband has adopted son I came to know after marriage
they are humilating rajini too much and everybody against her
she is trying her best to get her husband love so whats wrong in that
people who are commenting against rajini they are thinking just krish side not rajni side
if anyone here was in that situation what you would do like rajini is fighting
fight or left the house
krish lovers only here are discussing it
come to reality stop dreaming in dream world
I like this show because it is helping these people to come out of old mentality or old samaj type thinking


agree with you completely ..
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Posted: 13 years ago
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i do not like rajni's character
- initially she looked headstrong, used to the independence her parents had given her of making decisions, personally i didnt like that
- then when she spoke up in a business decision, it made no sense bcos she had no background knowledge
- disliked her even further when they showed all the family converting to her way of thinking by her use of a very stupid example
- then she started lying... that was really bad, even if she thought her mother had told them abt her past why did she have to keep lying??? there she dug herself into a deep deep deep hole
- right now, her attitude in going about her redemption is all wrong, she is not trying to rectify her mistake but win one over krish
- and when she will have convinced krish, they will start bringing up the kid again

but remember this is not against the actress its how the CVs are portraying her character

and i don't care if this happens in real life so we should accept it, it is how they show a person dealing with each situation that matters and rajni's character is not doing it right
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Hello Guys grow up

this is 21st century. don't be narrow minded.

I understand that its Rajnis fault to hiding truth.

but i dont think they have to stretch it too long.

Its not Rajnis fault whatever happened to her. Its like a rape if some girl is rapped what is her fault . why she feel guilt. same thing happened with rajni.

i am totally supporting rajni. she was ready to leave house. Its krish who cannot take decision. thats his problem . and nobody should treat anybody like a shit. the way buva is treating rajni what is she doing to her mayka why dont she go and stay with her husband. why she dont mind her business.




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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: yashpatel

Hello Guys grow up


this is 21st century. don't be narrow minded.

I understand that its Rajnis fault to hiding truth.

but i dont think they have to stretch it too long.

Its not Rajnis fault whatever happened to her. Its like a rape if some girl is rapped what is her fault . why she feel guilt. same thing happened with rajni.

i am totally supporting rajni. she was ready to leave house. Its krish who cannot take decision. thats his problem . and nobody should treat anybody like a shit. the way buva is treating rajni what is she doing to her mayka why dont she go and stay with her husband. why she dont mind her business.


according to people here, every boy that had came to see Rajni before marriage with a marriage proposal, they should off told every one of them that she has a child. only for the prospects to say no, for the marriage and go back and talk crap to others about Rajni. People are not seeing the other side of the coin, Rajni hid from Krissh I didn't like, i agree on that,. but if This is the matter of husband and wife, then how come whole family have wedged the war against her. If surbhi and her husband knew about their child, and family didn't know, i didn't see them misbehaving with surbhi or her husband for hiding the truth from the family.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Why are some people treating Rajo like a saint. She is no saint. And she is not the only woman in the world who cooks good food, cleans home and takes care of in-laws. And works. Majority of the women in the world do that.

All we are asking cv's to do is show Rajo's character showing some remorse and asking for everyone's forgivens instead of being a self centered person. She is behaving like mrs.know it all, and after a while it does get a bit irritating. She should know that she is behaving irrational and being bossy and annoying. She felt hurt when Krish left her at the busy stop but she expected Krish not get angry/hurt when she said she was a surrogate mother due to some scame. Krish is not allowed to get hurt or angry at her, he is suppose to listen to Rajo since she is his master not a wife after all...
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: yashpatel

Hello Guys grow up


this is 21st century.don'tbenarrow minded.

I understand that its Rajnis fault to hiding truth.

but i dont think they have to stretch it too long.

Its not Rajnis fault whatever happened to her. Its like a rape if some girl is rapped what is her fault . why she feel guilt. same thing happened with rajni.

i am totally supporting rajni. she was ready to leave house. Its krish who cannot take decision. thats his problem . and nobody should treat anybody like a shit. the way buva is treating rajni what is she doing to her mayka why dont she go and stay with her husband. why she dont mind her business.






No offense but what exactly are we meant to be open minded about?

It's not rocket science, you make a mistake, you humbly ask for forgiveness, you don't go and force the person to forgive you by reminding him why he shouldn't be angry.

No one is denying that whatever happened was bad, but hiding the truth and lying over and over is definitely bad. It makes you wonder of the intentions. Rajni knows how much Krish adores her, how much his mother trusts her - yet she kept making up silly stories, despite knowing Yashoda didn't believe her. Even when questioned she said to her I will go see my mum first then tell you - why? Why is she putting up these conditions?

There's meant to be some sort of humbleness and sincerity when you're asking for forgiveness, Rajni lacks it, completely.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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I just can't understand what the poster is trying to say here...ok agreed people everywhere are lying and certain things happened to you and your friends,what does that mean? We should start accepting lies? If that's existing we should just accept it...it's like everyone knows about corruption,so we should just accept it and move on...do you call this growing up?
I just hate rajnis character,it's not because of what happened with her but for her attitude from day one...I always feel she is justlaying with krish's emotions and let me tell you i m no gaurav khanna fan...I started watching due to hats off productions,but it completely failed for me..
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Okay I had to get this off my chest.

@ amarjeet73 you are calming 70% people hid their past, so you are saying that Rajo and her parents did not do anything wrong by hiding the fact that she was scammed into becoming a surrogate mother. They were afraid that no guy will marry Rajo if the guy and his family came to know that she gave birth to a child (even if it was for surrogacy purpose - for good cause and that too without asking anything in return -- money).

So lets take a hypothetical scenario.. A girl (boy) needs blood transfusion after a major accident she was in. and the blood she received was HIV positive [due to negligence of doc and other members of the hospital]. She and her/his family comes to know about this. After some time a rishta comes for her/him, and her/his parents wants to make sure that their daughter/son has a good life after all that has happened. So they decided that they will not disclose this fact to the groom/bride and the potential in-laws.. after all it is about their daughter's/son's happiness and if the groom/bride and his/her family comes to know about it they would not accept the rishta. [Another case can be what is the person already knew they cannot have kids]. When is it "okay" to hid (not disclose) information to the potential in-laws?
All I am trying to say here is no matter how big/small the past is...Rule of thumb is: if you feel the need to hid your past, from your future in-laws, chances are when the truth comes out, everyone is going to get hurt. so it is better to put everything on the table so no one feels cheats or betrayed.
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