Marriage is about a guy being a mess and a women fixing him- Shahid - Page 8

Originally posted by: carisma2

Shahid is gay or his character in the movie, or both?

Mere sawalon ka jawaab dho....

Lol.

Sab ake emoji maar jaate hain. No one tells me. Lol

Just wanted to post this randomly. No reason

Lol. Worst fear of e reh girl..having to be a mom for hubby

I'm like 99 % sure marriage is not about that.

Originally posted by: carisma2

Mere sawalon ka jawaab dho....

Lol.

Sab ake emoji maar jaate hain. No one tells me. Lol

Originally posted by: Tanya1991

Shaming couple based on their age difference is what I think is truly regressive and an example of narrow mindedness.

There is absolutely nothing wrong with an age difference in relationships. I don't care if people have a 10, 20, or 40 year difference.

BUT there are exceptions

- Under 13 absolutely no relationships

- 13-18 same age or +/- 1

- 18-25 +/- 2

The reason for this is that the prefrontal cortex does not fully develop until 25. People can change significantly after 25. A twenty-something has barely completed a degree or had a chance to establish a career - to get married is a significant burden - especially to someone so much older.

If I had my way - I would make the minimum age for marriage 25.

to respond to a post of Tanya which I can't quote...

The Austrian-American family therapist, psychologist, communication theorist, and philosopher Paul Watzlawick has written a famous - and worth reading - book in which he detailed (in a rather humerous way) his theory that people create their own suffering in the very act of trying to fix their emotional problems.

and this:

http://www.wanterfall.com/Communication-Watzlawick%27s-Axioms.htm

Amused at apologists of man babies and entitled male chauvinists acting as experts on biology and nature and clutching at straws to defend their regressive points.

Comparing 4 year age gap between Katrina and Vicky to more than decade of age gap between Shahid and Mira and almost 3 decade gap between budhau Aamir and Fatima.

Guess it all depends on what culture or community or region one has been raised in. What they consider normal or what was their own upbringing, family dynamics or society like.

Can't argue with ones raised a certain way. I can understand their frustration though as their outdated notions are no longer tolerated or endorsed anymore.

That's sadly a fact. He just said it out loud. That's how women are basically seen, demanded, crafted, brought up to be. To fix, to clean up after others, to endure, to heal, to sacrifice, to take care of the manchild. Very sadly, it's also romanticized by 70% of women intentionally or unintentionally.

However wrong it is that's how we are meant to be according to the whole universe. :/

So, I just recommend another - very popular - book 😃