Are lines of morality blurred nowadays in relationships? - Page 2

Originally posted by: D3viL

Minty I have been here only a few weeks. You have made men go crazy for you, this guy, your bff husband, your ex boss. .. and many more. They lose all senses around you and cross all boundaries. HR issues..not a problem, close family friends..it doesn't matter! they are all prepared to give up everything for you!!

It's at this stage you need to recognise that you are too hot for the world.. it must be such a burden to carry being this hot. Do you even need to take warm showers? Cuz you already so hot? How are you doing this? Please share your tips on this forum so all the other ladies and gents can learn and we can all become a group of the most desirables

U r tolling, obviously. But I'd like to say this is not uncommon. Most people have faced something or the other along these lines. I'm just open about it.

It's not that old timers were committed to their relationships or extra marital affairs were not rife, but instead wives mostly swore to secrecy about their spouses shenanigans. It's that old timey thinking that "let him do whatever he wants, he has to ultimately come back to my children and I'. Adultery is frowned upon only when women indulge in it though, even now. I see so many men with two wives living under the same roof, it's whack. Atleast now the societal norms have relaxed a bit especially in metropolitans that people are forthright about relationships like these.

It's the same tale as 'divorce rates are too high'. No sir, women have just stopped putting up with shit from husbands and in-laws than mournfully living through a failed marriage. Times are changing and women and people in general are seeing ways of living that don't restrict to a binary. When both parties are in agreement, I don't see anything wrong.

Yes you are right, fidelity is hard to find these days.

I will however say not everyone is the same. There are people who still believe in the sanctity of marriage. I wouldn’t compromise for any less. Trust is extremely important in a relationship.

They are blurred for some people. I still try to maintain some morality even if very little 😆

Fidelity and infidelity are overrated af.

Let's say we have a fight and we don't want to speak to each other forget seeing each other faces. So rather than suffocating each other, it would be better if we can go spend some quality time with someone else for few months and then come back again and start afresh. This is how a healthy relationship is built with love, trust and respect

Originally posted by: rolopolo

Fidelity and infidelity are overrated af.

Let's say we have a fight and we don't want to speak to each other forget seeing each other faces. So rather than suffocating each other, it would be better if we can go spend some quality time with someone else for few months and then come back again and start afresh. This is how a healthy relationship is built with love, trust and respect

I don't agree with you but you do have a point.

There’s nothing wrong with an open marriage. It only says that both partners are on their own paths & there’s been communication, conversation & rules in place. I don’t understand it, but there’s nothing wrong with it when both partners are on the same page.

To give you a different perspective… There was no “eternal love of the yesteryear’s”. Women weren’t financially independent & for worse, had to stay with their husbands. Studies show that, men STATISTICALLY, benefit the most from marriage. Over time, women actually lose themselves & diminish due to marriage. So no. All this rubbish of “oh people were so much better in the olden ages” is just nostalgic BS. I know too many elderly/old couples who cheated/ a lot, constantly, has horrible marriages but stuck it out for the children. What kind of life is that. It’s pure Hell.


I hope you get what you’re looking for though- With your eyes wide open.

Originally posted by: Mallika-E-Bhais

There’s nothing wrong with an open marriage. It only says that both partners are on their own paths & there’s been communication, conversation & rules in place. I don’t understand it, but there’s nothing wrong with it when both partners are on the same page.

To give you a different perspective… There was no “eternal love of the yesteryear’s”. Women weren’t financially independent & for worse, had to stay with their husbands. Studies show that, men STATISTICALLY, benefit the most from marriage. Over time, women actually lose themselves & diminish due to marriage. So no. All this rubbish of “oh people were so much better in the olden ages” is just nostalgic BS. I know too many elderly/old couples who cheated/ a lot, constantly, has horrible marriages but stuck it out for the children. What kind of life is that. It’s pure Hell.


I hope you get what you’re looking for though- With your eyes wide open.

Are you up for an open relationship? ☺️

Originally posted by: rolopolo

Are you up for an open relationship? ☺️

LMAO. No. I don’t understand open relationships, jokes aside. I know a few couples who are in one &’to me, it makes zero sense. But then again, I don’t understand marriage itself. 😆😆

Originally posted by: Mallika-E-Bhais

LMAO. No. I don’t understand open relationships, jokes aside. I know a few couples who are in one &’to me, it makes zero sense. But then again, I don’t understand marriage itself. 😆😆

Are you up for a closed live-in relationship? ☺️