Originally posted by: Terenaina
I don’t want people like you to discourage someone whose having kids at a later age. I stated millions of times before everything in life has risk whether young or not. You’ll see a young person dying from heart attack who was considered a healthy person. Then you’ll see some one live over 100 years. Everyone dies different age, everyone marries or not married different ages. Everyone have kids at different age. Some people face risk and some don’t. I know few women who was married for over 10 years and in their 20’s was not able to get pregnant but with destiny got pregnant in their late 30’s naturally that’s God timing if your religious.
No. What you're doing is equating risk of having a child in their 20s and early 30s to their late 30s and 40s.
It's not the same risk.
It's significantly higher for older women.
Women can make their own decisions with the correct information. They're sentient adults and can calculate risk and benefit. But they need to have the right info on risk. Not some random actors' pregnancy decisions, which, btw, may be announced after multiple tries, after perhaps IVF, after perhaps amniocentesis to make sure the baby has no chromosome abnormality. Regular women are not like to have the finances to do such things. Nor may they want multiple procedures to ensure only a healthy baby gets the chance to be born.
Biology is a fact of life. Sticking your fingers in your ears and singing nyah-nyah-nyah-nyah-nyah doesn't change it.
Here is an abstract.
https://europepmc.org/article/med/2950347
Edited by HearMeRoar - 3 years ago
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