Originally posted by: ElMystique
It's been about three days, but the shock doesn't seem to cease. It was heart wrenching to see his last journey. Our very own humble Shiv Rajshekar who went ahead to win BB. He was class apart from rest of the contestants. I don't mean to hurt any Fandom here but I really felt the need to say this. It is completely my opinion and you can choose to ignore my words if they are offensive.
It is regarding the media propaganda of Sidnaaz as eternal lovers. They are being compared to Heer Ranjha, Laila Majnu and shockingly to Capt. Vikram Batra and his lady love Dimple Cheema. For God's sake guys have some respect for the eternal love stories and most importantly people who adore them. It is like you cannot compare any random scientist to Dr. A P J Abdul Kalam.
I have immense respect for the journey of Siddharth. He is a level headed person and extremely hardworking. He deserved all the accolades he got and forever will be cherished. I am sorry but I never felt he was in "Love" with Shehnaaz. Being benefited monetarily based on a Fandom is fine for instance Kate Winslet/Leo, Brangalina, our very own SRK/Kajol Fandom etc. But he is gone and deserves all the respect in the World. Monetising their so called "Love" is as bad as using Sushant Singh Rajput's personal dairy details for publicity.
Siddharth has never openly admitted that he is in "Love" with this girl. He always called her a friend. I am not a hater of anybody and from a very neutral POV, I feel the media is just playing with people's emotions.
Media in pandemic has stooped to this level to monetize people's emotions. I always felt Shehnaaz is this obsessive, childish and stubborn girl. She has a long life ahead to live and this Media/Fandom is making it worse. Salman once asked Siddharth to be careful and stay away from her for her own good as well. I wonder why BB allowed this drama further.
I remember Sid voicing several times that he was not able to take her childishness and would rather stay away from these kind of people in real life as his very own friends don't behave like her. Sid in contrary was a mature, sorted and clear person. It was very evident that he couldn't go against her worried about the obsessive outcome.
This is toxic guys. When a person was evidently saying he wants to stay away and not share the bed, why was he never given the space? He looked more comfortable with others like Mahira, even Rashmi and him were natural and not forced.
Forget about the BB house we all know it is scripted. Why did this drama continue outside as well? I have never seen him comfortable whenever she said anything suggesting a potential relationship. He always emphasized the word "friend" and looked uncomfortable.
Here, I am definitely not talking about acting in music videos, albiet he was a great actor. Even the clip that is going viral since his death about her recognizing him with a blindfold, I see he is fond of her and takes care of her like a child. It looks platonic from his side. Then why did the girl build castles of imaginary future? Are not fans responsible for it? Have people become delusional to an extent where they cannot differentiate toxic behavior from Love? Most importantly why is social media fueling it for monetary benefits? Have all ethics and morals gone down the drain?
Whatever is going on now especially in terms of her being a widow, marrying his dead body, already being his wife as she performed poojas and worse is bad. This is an insult to him. Nobody really knows what he wanted. Just because he is dead making her his wife because she loved him and he now has no say is pathetic. It is like reading a dead man's personal dairy as now he cannot stop you.
He deserves all the respect in the world.
P.S.: I am sorry if anyone is hurt but I had to say this. I am posting after around 5 years on IF and just could stop myself from pouring in the anguish. I really hope Siddharth is in a better place and at peace. Om Shanti.
Thank you for this. This really sums up what I feel. Some people can't look beyond sidnaaz and think of them as individual people.
I just hope people gain some sense and let everyone be.
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