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Posted: 4 years ago

Originally posted by: InspectorShirke

Its pathetic that people are treating Sana like a commodity of Sidharth, and wanting her to marry dead body of Shukla. She is getting way more attention than the women who are actually blood-related to him (mom, sisters)


Absolutely agree with you on this. They're not even treating her as an individual person but as the other half of sidnaaz.

They really need to understand, there's life beyond bigg boss. Everyone has moved on.

I just am so sad thinking about his mother, I don't think anyone can realise the kind of impact it had on an aged mother to see the funeral of her son. She really loved him.

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Posted: 4 years ago

Originally posted by: Guneet80


Absolutely agree with you on this. They're not even treating her as an individual person but as the other half of sidnaaz.

They really need to understand, there's life beyond bigg boss. Everyone has moved on.

I just am so sad thinking about his mother, I don't think anyone can realise the kind of impact it had on an aged mother to see the funeral of her son. She really loved him.



Even in BB when his mom came, she was a bit indifferent to Sana and I feel like she doesn't like Sana at all

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Posted: 4 years ago

Originally posted by: MargaritaLover


Looks like Rashami fans are pouncing for just giving an opinion. If you don't agree just say you dont agree instead of pouncing on others. It's not me but ppl on SM are all saying it. just said what I felt, no person in the right state of mind who has lost a closed one would be in the state of immediately partying a day after their friend has passed away.

they were not close friends not even friends i feel . colleagues n they respected each other
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Posted: 4 years ago

Originally posted by: CriticusExpert

May he RIP and his loved ones find comfort in their faith. Tragic when things like this happen, it shows how unpredictable life is and how fragile humans are. I have seen many young seemingly healthy people pass from a massive SCD and it is always a sad shock. (by the way, it does happen without notice or provocation nor is it caused by anything he did like people insinuate. SCD is one of the leading causes of natural death where I live, I suspect it is also quite a prevalent cause across all races-country locations, much more than people imagine).

what is SCD?
and has this been confirmed from doctors
Posted: 4 years ago

His mom said he was feeling uneasy, had water and fell asleep. Kash he went to the hospital usi waqt toh shayad wo aaj bhi hota 😭

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Posted: 4 years ago

idk if allowed to post but what is this kind of nonsense by people. someone sent me this n she is v sure that there was something sinister in this. what's wrong with people https://www.facebook.com/KRK.Kamaalkhan/posts/398152285014830

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Posted: 4 years ago

It's been about three days, but the shock doesn't seem to cease. It was heart wrenching to see his last journey. Our very own humble Shiv Rajshekar who went ahead to win BB. He was class apart from rest of the contestants. I don't mean to hurt any Fandom here but I really felt the need to say this. It is completely my opinion and you can choose to ignore my words if they are offensive.


It is regarding the media propaganda of Sidnaaz as eternal lovers. They are being compared to Heer Ranjha, Laila Majnu and shockingly to Capt. Vikram Batra and his lady love Dimple Cheema. For God's sake guys have some respect for the eternal love stories and most importantly people who adore them. It is like you cannot compare any random scientist to Dr. A P J Abdul Kalam.



I have immense respect for the journey of Siddharth. He is a level headed person and extremely hardworking. He deserved all the accolades he got and forever will be cherished. I am sorry but I never felt he was in "Love" with Shehnaaz. Being benefited monetarily based on a Fandom is fine for instance Kate Winslet/Leo, Brangalina, our very own SRK/Kajol Fandom etc. But he is gone and deserves all the respect in the World. Monetising their so called "Love" is as bad as using Sushant Singh Rajput's personal dairy details for publicity.


Siddharth has never openly admitted that he is in "Love" with this girl. He always called her a friend. I am not a hater of anybody and from a very neutral POV, I feel the media is just playing with people's emotions.


Media in pandemic has stooped to this level to monetize people's emotions. I always felt Shehnaaz is this obsessive, childish and stubborn girl. She has a long life ahead to live and this Media/Fandom is making it worse. Salman once asked Siddharth to be careful and stay away from her for her own good as well. I wonder why BB allowed this drama further.


I remember Sid voicing several times that he was not able to take her childishness and would rather stay away from these kind of people in real life as his very own friends don't behave like her. Sid in contrary was a mature, sorted and clear person. It was very evident that he couldn't go against her worried about the obsessive outcome.


This is toxic guys. When a person was evidently saying he wants to stay away and not share the bed, why was he never given the space? He looked more comfortable with others like Mahira, even Rashmi and him were natural and not forced.


Forget about the BB house we all know it is scripted. Why did this drama continue outside as well? I have never seen him comfortable whenever she said anything suggesting a potential relationship. He always emphasized the word "friend" and looked uncomfortable.


Here, I am definitely not talking about acting in music videos, albiet he was a great actor. Even the clip that is going viral since his death about her recognizing him with a blindfold, I see he is fond of her and takes care of her like a child. It looks platonic from his side. Then why did the girl build castles of imaginary future? Are not fans responsible for it? Have people become delusional to an extent where they cannot differentiate toxic behavior from Love? Most importantly why is social media fueling it for monetary benefits? Have all ethics and morals gone down the drain?


Whatever is going on now especially in terms of her being a widow, marrying his dead body, already being his wife as she performed poojas and worse is bad. This is an insult to him. Nobody really knows what he wanted. Just because he is dead making her his wife because she loved him and he now has no say is pathetic. It is like reading a dead man's personal dairy as now he cannot stop you.


He deserves all the respect in the world.


P.S.: I am sorry if anyone is hurt but I had to say this. I am posting after around 5 years on IF and just could stop myself from pouring in the anguish. I really hope Siddharth is in a better place and at peace. Om Shanti.







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Posted: 4 years ago

Originally posted by: InspectorShirke



Even in BB when his mom came, she was a bit indifferent to Sana and I feel like she doesn't like Sana at all


So so true! His mom is one strong woman. She even corrected him saying "Woh to pure India ke entertainment ka khayal rakhti hain". She seemed fond of Shefali, Mahira and Rashmi. The stories on YouTube and people saying Sana will take care of his mom is pathetic. She has her own daughters and family to take care of her.

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Posted: 4 years ago

So a thread made to express grief and shock at the untimely death of a person who touched a lot of lives turns into a repeat of BB13 forum with all the negativity and toxicity that was so a part and parcel of the that forum.


As a doctor, I sometimes am part of end of life discussions with family members of patients who are dying and they often have that guilt that they could have done more and while most of the extended family is supportive and gracious , there is oftentimes that one family member who is looking to find fault and spread negativity. Don't be that family member.

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Posted: 4 years ago

Originally posted by: ElMystique

It's been about three days, but the shock doesn't seem to cease. It was heart wrenching to see his last journey. Our very own humble Shiv Rajshekar who went ahead to win BB. He was class apart from rest of the contestants. I don't mean to hurt any Fandom here but I really felt the need to say this. It is completely my opinion and you can choose to ignore my words if they are offensive.





I would really say that your post more than condolences was like a attack at a particular Fandom, which even sidharth always appreciated.

Your post says it all that you are not over BB13 times. No matter what you feel about sidnaaz, but this post could have been avoided. It's been 2 years.

You could have cherished Sid alone instead of bringing down someone he held close too and was connected till last moments of his life.

You don't need to believe in sidnaaz, but putting down a dear friend of that person could be avoided, since you haven't followed him after BB, else you have realized the importance of that friend in his life..


Adding on to this, Sidharth I know has always done what he wants and has never bowed down for someone's so called obsession. He has been a head strong guy, and after BB he made it very clear about his priorities.

So, let this be. This thread has been made for sharing our grief about this tragedy, not putting down his people in disguise of ' In my Opinion'

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