Raj from DDLJ Vs Kabir Singh - Who was a better lover? - Page 3

I can't compare them, Raj was many things but not a possessive dominating abuser. He didn't want to STEAL Simran. He wanted everyone to accept them. If it would have only been about her father he wouldn't have taken the efforts he took with her other family members.

Kabir Singh is someone who makes my blood boil to a different extent. Every damn thing about him is horrible. Raj didn't have a say on Simran's clothing. He didn't ask her to CORRECT HER DUPATTA which was gathered around her neck.

Originally posted by: Maroonporsche

How do I know ? They didnt love me 😆😆

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Originally posted by: Anjalika01

How tf is Kabir Singh winning?! Are you all forgetting the part where he LITERALLY RAPED a girl in the beginning of the film 😶🤦🏽‍♀️??

When people say our generation is messed up...

Kabir didn't raped anyone.

What are you on about?

I wonder how someone can like Kabir Singh. He has anger management issues and does drugs and alcohol all the time, even during surgeries. He claims a Priti as his own. Is Priti a property that does not has a right to reject Kabir? His male ego is wounded when Priti takes her time. He leaves her and does everything wrong.

He is a type of guy how needs anger management classes.

Raj was much better. He gave Simran space and was ready to earn the respect from her family. He was ready to understand her father's objections and try to become good guy. At the end he did won the family's approval.

Originally posted by: MujheMaarjaneDo

Kabir didn't raped anyone.

What are you on about?

He tried to rape a girl in salwar kameez I guess. By showing her the knife.

A better lover? Err.. that's.. well.. Raj never got a chance to be a lover to Simran in the movie while Kabir started with being a lover to Preety.. so I guess Kabir knew how to... Love

Originally posted by: Maroonporsche

How do I know ? They didnt love me 😆😆

🤣🤣

Originally posted by: MujheMaarjaneDo

Kabir didn't raped anyone.

What are you on about?

Don't you remember scene where he threatens a girl with a knife for refusing sex with him?

Originally posted by: FingerFetish

I wouldn't even place Raj in the same category as Kabir Singh. Yes, there may be some scenes in DDLJ that raises red flags but in that case, most heroes in the 80s-90s can be considered misogynist and creepsters with their attitude towards women and their stalker-type-wooing skills.

Had Simran not valued her families opinion about her marriage, then I am sure Raj would have happily eloped with her. Taking into consideration that Simran holds great importance to her values and family, Raj knew that in the long-run Simran would not be happy without her parent's acceptance. In fact, I respected that Raj did not try to run away and rather chose to face the situation head on. Raj felt that his love for Simran was true and did not consider the relationship to be something that should be ashamed or hidden from her father.

Let's be real. Even if the mother urged her daughter to run away, reality would be that her father would have disowned Simran and forbidden the mother and sister from having any relations with her. No one in this dynamic would have been happy with the situation. Also, standing up and challenging the fathers traditional views gave precedence for the younger sister to stand up for herself in the future as well. It helped open the fathers mind towards love marriage and at the end, all is happy. 😆

Kabir on the other hand was a complete and utter assbag. He was possessive, controlling, and both verbally + physically abusive. He also had major anger management issues, lack of impulse control and despite being a surgeon, endangered many of his patient's lives by performing surgery whilst intoxicated. He also dealt with his problems by engaging in drug and alcohol abuse. Regardless of whether Preeti was spineless or not - the question is asking who is the better lover.

For me, Raj is by far the better human-being let alone a lover.

Being a better human being doesn't automatically make him a better lover.

After Raj and Simran's affair got caught in front of everyone, he just left Simran on her own and was ready to go back. What if Simran's father never changed her mind and still got her married to Kuljeet? Their love story would've ended right there and Simran would've been stuck with an asshole as her husband for rest of her whole life.

All because Raj didn't want to leave the high ground.

Originally posted by: blue-ice.1

Comparing Kabir and Raj....Okay....🤣

If Raj was a pervert and a molester then every single character played by any actor is much more worse.....starting from Dilip Kumar and ending with Karthik Aryan....🤣

ek statue kya lag rahi hai...sabki sulag gayi...🤣...aisa lag raha hai...ki people don't know what kind of movies BW makes...

What is wrong is wrong.....so how about lets start with Dilip Kumar??😆

Not every single character in Bollywood is a pervert or molester. But Raj surely was. I understand it's difficult to see a beloved character of yours getting thrashed like that.

Par meri kahi nahi sulag rahi hain. DDLJ is hot topic because of movie's 25th anniversary. Be happy that your favorite's movie is getting discussed so much, as we can only discuss his past movies now because he's not doing any current movies.