Originally posted by: tina59
Well written but I respectfully disagree.
yes he took his life and he is at peace but to say that one should move on and wait till another star takes his/her life with the big wigs of Bollywood play the very same power play and politics is not the way I would look at it.
Tina it is ok to disagree with an opinion, it is your right to do so and it is positive for any discussion. However I am not sure if you have a reading comprehension block and you did not understand what I wrote or you are simply ignoring and making up your narrative using my post. NOWHERE in my post do I write, that any society needs to wait passively for tragedy to happen, that is tragic in itself. I SAID suicide IS a tragedy no matter WHO commits it.
You are concentrating on celebrities, I am thinking of the entire population. Do you know how many people in India commit suicide EVERY SINGLE DAY young, old, farmers, students etc..? Do you know the age groups? The reasons? Why it is prevalent in the culture? I will not bore you with the details but I will tell you that the numbers are not low and that every single suicide that you never hear about nor are outraged about IS tragic, every unknown common person that succumbs to it leaves behind a trail of questions, and pain for their family. Their lives are just as precious as any celebrities.
In my post I also mention that the only thing that is of any use in a suicide is education or discussion, hopefully attention is highlighted in the need to talk about emotional issues, to quit making them taboo and to proactively start to get people help when needed. Discussion + Education + translates into = prevention. Since you refer to celebrities I will use Deepika Padukone as an example she got a lot of hate and ridicule when she bravely came out and said she suffers from depression, people mocked her, including your idol. She did not commit suicide. She upped the game and created a foundation and is actively trying to shine a light on the need to recognize depression as a very real condition, that happens in varied degrees to everyone. To finish I will reiterate: PEOPLE HAVE CHOICES, in particular the privileged and lucky few who do make it big in show business. Most importantly no matter how toxic you find them, lawfully you cannot blame anyone for other peoples frame of mind, if critique, bad mouthing, hate mongering and speaking against actors in Bollywood was that influential on peoples frame of mind that they would commit suicide, you would have a public figure suicide happen every day, with kangana and rangoli leading the pack of antagonists pushing them to it and they would have a rap sheet a mile long, and life sentences to go with it.
Thank you for your answer on my post, I respectfully request that you re-read it.
Edited by CriticusExpert - 5 years ago
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