Originally posted by: return_to_hades
As AllThatCritique said this is a human problem. It could have been cooked up by anyone who wants to stir shit up. Why assume it is a scorned woman?
There are so many problems to unpack in this blind, and in your comments.
If people want to have one night stands and multiple partners, that is their prerogative and they should not be judged. Similarly, if people are not interested in sex for whatever reason, that is their prerogative and they should not be judged.
Also, being suspected of being gay or bi does not put one's masculinity in question. A gay or bi man is as much of a man as other men. Also being assumed to be gay/bi is not the worst thing that can happen to anyone. Anyone who thinks being gay/bi makes a person less than heterosexual people is the problem.
Women are not Human and are "perfect" beings, is it? Do all women accept a No gracefully? We are living in a world where a Stalker like Kangana Ranaut has been publicly harassing a Hot guy n his family for last 3 years now just bcoz she could not elicit a response to her dirty advances. Where a Deepika kept making a pass at her Ex boyfriend despite him saying many times that he has moved on and him dating another woman. Where a Maniac Rekha has been obsessed and harassing Amitabh n Jaya for decades. Had the gender been reversed in ANY of the cases, the public response would have been way severe. People would have asked the guy to back off the uninterested woman.
And talking about Acid victims, hv u not seen Male acid attack victims? Since when has statistics decided if something is right or wrong. If statistics is so important, this country is filled with court cases full of Fake rape cases just bcoz the man ended the relationship and woman cannot handle the rejection.
There is a Equal need for films like PINK for other gender to be made so that Women also realize that Men too have a right of Choice and Consent. And they need to respect it. Not play victim, emotionally manipulate, level fake allegations and make digs at the guy's sexuality. And more importantly, not making passes at the man for decades hurting his mental peace.
Yes, insinuating a Straight Man as a gay or making digs at his masculinity just bcoz he refused to get seduced is a mental and emotional attack. Who are you to assume that is less hurtful or damaging than a physical one? And yes, I suspect only a scorned woman is behind this blind so that she can feel better about herself. Bcoz it makes no sense other wise to assume that you are Gay if you refuse a ONS. Or a ploy so that she can make a move again and the guy will be emotionally pressurized to say yes lest he be judged.
Edited by ThunderLight - 6 years ago
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