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Posted: 6 years ago
#51

Originally posted by: cricketfan1


Same here...Why would anybody opt for a lesser life just for love? Or may be we have never experienced 'that kind' of love, yet! 😆

I read somewhere even Jeetendra has proposed to her!

Sanjeev Kumar decided to never marry after she rejected his proposal...As a result Sulakshana Pandit, who was in love with Sanjeev Kumar, also decided to remain unmarried!

Exactly... That has got to be some powerful love😆
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Posted: 6 years ago
#52

Originally posted by: Eternal_Way



more than radical may be progressive ,independent n more progressive n ahead of her times


Yeah yeah I didn't mean in a negative way. It's admirable.
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Posted: 6 years ago
#53

Originally posted by: Melissaa


I think she meant her independence.
She was always very independent. Back then most actresses quit acting after they got married but Hema never did even after two children she went on to direct movies, continued dancing, did movies, joined politicss.. etc..

Even when Simi asked her how she used to say that one needs a spouse' ssupport she explained that she meant only to make decsions regarding the children..

Her Rendezvous episode is quite insightful if one has the time should watch it. I watched it a couple of years ago so can't recall everything she said but if I'm not wrong she said she asked Dharmendra to marry her and even though she got a lot marriage proposals.

Also even back then the kids seem to mingle with Dharam's kids because Esha mention how Sunny give her branded sneakers as gifts



ya may be she is not interested in marriage n may be she wants to dedicate her life to arts n may be acc. to her man is not her life n they are just part of life for children n society to live n let her live n do her work wat she wants to do
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Posted: 6 years ago
#54

Originally posted by: cricketfan1


Same here...Why would anybody opt for a lesser life just for love? Or may be we have never experienced 'that kind' of love, yet! 😆

I read somewhere even Jeetendra has proposed to her!

Sanjeev Kumar decided to never marry after she rejected his proposal...As a result Sulakshana Pandit, who was in love with Sanjeev Kumar, also decided to remain unmarried!


https://indianexpress.com/article/entertainment/bollywood/did-you-know-that-hema-malini-and-jeetendra-almost-got-married-2919166/

Jeetu and Hema were shooting outstation for Dulhan when they fell in love, they decided to get married and almost did, As the story goes, Dharam got info abt their impending marriage, he flew to their outdoor shoot, convinced Hema not to marry Jeetu and then he married her.
While Jeetu married his girlfriend Shobha who had been waiting for him for a long time
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Posted: 6 years ago
#55

Originally posted by: astha36


Well I read in one article, which was admittedly praising Hema a lot, that if Hema needs Dharam she asks but if Prakash refuses or Dharam can't come, then she steps back. She never insists or demands anything. She is the one who has single-handedly raised her daughters. Whatever work it is, she has had to handle herself and she has been very strong.

I don't know why but I believe it. Hema does come across to me as a very strong lady. It's not easy to stay alone, having married a man but still not have any rights over him. Yes, I think she made a big mistake in choosing a married man, maybe she thought Dharam will be as into her as he was before marriage. But like always, marriage changes that man's way of looking at Hema. He's just not as interested in her afterwards. So, he doesn't want to disturb his happy home with Prakash and his 'sons' and lets the other wife handle 'her daughters'. I'm not saying this must be the reason..the gender thing but just struck my mind that sometimes you hear stories of how one wife was the favourite for bearing sons. 😕


I also heard that she was conservative and reserved. All stars were after the Dream girl. But, she showed no interest and never became close to anyone.

And, it actually took a very long time for her to say Yes to Dharmendra too. I dont think she wanted to break the marriage or hurt the first wife. But eventually, she too fell in love. Which is why they decided to take the Islam conversion route which allows a man to have more than one wife.
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Posted: 6 years ago
#56

Originally posted by: Eternal_Way



ya may be she is not interested in marriage n may be she wants to dedicate her life to arts n may be acc. to her man is not her life n they are just part of life for children n society to live n let her live n do her work wat she wants to do

She wanted a love marriage is what I feel. Hema rejected a lot of marriage proposals just so she could be with him.

Also one can't say that she will never get the indpendence, chance to continue acting if she married another actor because even Jaya acted after marriage. She was preggers with Shweta during the shooting of Sholay she quit after she had the kids. Saira also did act after marriage but she retired after her career did not take off. It was not the norm but I'm sure if Hema wanted to act she could have found a single guy who will never put restrictions on her ambitions.

I feel Hema knew what she was getting in to and made the most out of what she got. She adjusted to live the life of a second wife and it turned out to be blessing in disguise for her. She said in Simi's show it was destiny that she got married to Dharmendra. She sound like a true romantic.
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Posted: 6 years ago
#57
I get sad and mad with these stories. All these beautiful talented actresses marrying already married men. Atleasr boni divorced and seems really loved sridevi. But dharam cant have loved her if he left her on her own. Disgusting creature!
I think he was into her and got her pregnant and had to marry. All these yesteryear actors actresses have no morals
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Posted: 6 years ago
#58

Originally posted by: JungFrau

I get sad and mad with these stories. All these beautiful talented actresses marrying already married men. Atleasr boni divorced and seems really loved sridevi. But dharam cant have loved her if he left her on her own. Disgusting creature!

I think he was into her and got her pregnant and had to marry. All these yesteryear actors actresses have no morals

That would have made quite a big news😆
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Posted: 6 years ago
#59

Originally posted by: JungFrau

I get sad and mad with these stories. All these beautiful talented actresses marrying already married men. Atleasr boni divorced and seems really loved sridevi. But dharam cant have loved her if he left her on her own. Disgusting creature!

I think he was into her and got her pregnant and had to marry. All these yesteryear actors actresses have no morals


Who did Dharam leave Hema for? Am I missing something?
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Posted: 6 years ago
#60

Originally posted by: -PD-


Dimple and sunny had an affair and twinkle debut with Bobby ( heard they both were in relationship during shoot or maybe it is publicity stunt)


This is awkward. By the way, the affair still continues. I think we saw a pic of Sunny and Dimple last year holding hands in London.
Edited by ThunderLight - 6 years ago

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