Shahid & Mira Kapoor expecting second child?.

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Posted: 7 years ago

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I don't see any problem. She already has one and they can be friends and grow up together if they are similar ages. She is anyway staying home to care for one so why not have another and do double duty instead of waiting 5-6 years and then having to spend even more time raising the second one? Practically speaking, this works better.

The kids are going to school full time by the time they are 4-5 years old so then she can work or do something of her choice while they're busy.

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Posted: 7 years ago

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How old is Misha? I personally feel kids should have a difference of atleast 4-5 years. Maybe her decision to have kids is coz of Shahid's age or probably coz it's easier to conceive and lose the pregnancy weight at this age than later.

Shahid said he fell in love with her when she got pregnant. I didn't find it romantic tbh. Kids are a big responsibility, in an arranged marriage setup, you need to first learn to be partners first.

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Angel-likeDevil

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Posted: 7 years ago

#13

😭 I feel jealous TBH

Congratulations to the family :)

... :'(

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Breath-Mark

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Posted: 7 years ago

#14

Originally posted by: -BebaakBegum-
How old is Misha? I personally feel kids should have a difference of atleast 4-5 years. Maybe her decision to have kids is coz of Shahid's age or probably coz it's easier to conceive and lose the pregnancy weight at this age than later.

Shahid said he fell in love with her when she got pregnant. I didn't find it romantic tbh. Kids are a big responsibility, in an arranged marriage setup, you need to first learn to be partners first.

Doing the same thing for another kid but at a much delayed time is gonna take up too much time to recover both mentally and physically. Since misha is quite young, she can use the same tips over again

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Hello_kitta

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Posted: 7 years ago

#15

Imo. better be free and enjoy before having kids than have back 2 back kids and assume parents will be free to do anything. that's not gonna happen.

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Posted: 7 years ago

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Originally posted by: Breath-Mark

Doing the same thing for another kid but at a much delayed time is gonna take up too much time to recover both mentally and physically. Since misha is quite young, she can use the same tips over again

It's easier said than done. With a new born, you have to be around all the time. Most siblings tend to get jealous of their new born sibling coz the attention gets diverted. With a kid in school, it's easier not just for the kid to understand but also coz the kid gets a little busy.

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Stark_Wolf

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Posted: 7 years ago

#17

Well good luck to sasha n mira!
Its their wish when they wana have baby at 20/30/40 blah!

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Krantikari

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Posted: 7 years ago

#18

Flip the norm (usually) never goes according to plan.

Anyway, best of luck to Shahid & Mira. Their life, their choice.

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Posted: 7 years ago

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Originally posted by: -BebaakBegum-

It's easier said than done. With a new born, you have to be around all the time. Most siblings tend to get jealous of their new born sibling coz the attention gets diverted. With a kid in school, it's easier not just for the kid to understand but also coz the kid gets a little busy.

Which Mira can afford to have cos she is not working.

And siblings getting jelly is a common phenomenon, they will get over it soon after. But its worst off if u have a gap, cos of increased cost, more chores cos both kids wld require 2 different things.