Originally posted by: Krishnala-
Sati pratha was different from committing Jauhar.
satidaha pratha was mostly forcefully done by in laws of the widow after her husband's death. It was a barbaric practice which got banned by the British.
While Jauhar was intentionally done to save honour.
Sati was meant to be voluntary as well. Maadri in Mahabharata chooses to perform Sati. Over time it became something that was forced on widows.
Jauhar was usually limited to royalty and warrior classes. The women would commit Jauhar to avoid being captured as prisoners of war or losing their honor in any way. As the royalty and warrior classes faded, the practice faded.
Hence the British banned Sati. They could have banned Jauhar too, but it would be harder to implement and somewhat moot.
I personally find both practices archaic and barbaric. Mostly because the onus was placed 100% on women. Women were expected to follow their husbands through eternity (hence step in funeral pyre) or preserve their honor. Men had no such expectations. Sometimes even though voluntary, many women felt compelled to do so because they did not want to face societal ostracization or taunts.
However, historically and across the globe, suicide to save one's honor is not limited to women, nor is it archaic. Samurai have had the tradition of seppuku for centuries. Warriors across the globe in many cultures felt the obligation to commit suicide than risk being captured. Modern-day spies too carry poison pills to avoid being tortured into divulging secrets. During a war, many soldiers do shoot themselves to avoid being captured, especially if they could be used as bargaining chips, be tortured or abused. While suicide is quite disturbing and undesirable, I can empathize with this suicide under extreme circumstances. I find it palatable as it is for anyone and not just one gender.
Cults have also been known for suicides, including mass suicides. Now those are more f**ked up than Sati or Jauhar combined.
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