yes agree with u women do have to face a lot but blaming majority is wrong anyways... I have also faced groping once... such men are creeps and u can come across them sometimes.. But yea actually u are right women do feel uncomfortable travelling thru public transport, they cannot trust any man at all due to some perverts or creeps! But educated masses do respect women and situations are changing maybe slowly but they are! But there will always be some who will always behave like that and spoil men's image or India's image as a whole... But i personally dont believe in generalising everyone becoz of some.. 😊
Yes. I do agree with you but since I do not know her situation and what she went through I feel sometimes you just need to let people let it all out eventhough it may not be entirely true. There was time where I would be very vocal that I shouldnt be painted with the same brush and believe me I always try my best to stand out and change their outlook but at the end of the day it is an uphill climb. While it is true that yes many women have ruined men and taken advantage of the situation I believe the percentage is still lower than how many men have, abused, molested, groped, teased, harrassed and made living hell of a womans life. I dont have the numbers but that is just what I believe that more men have victimised women than the opposite.Do I feel bad? Yes. Especially being south asian it has brought disrepute. No matter which part of the world you go there is a certain stigma attached to us, desi men. Women are apprehensive to talk to us until proven otherwise. It is very hard to break the ice. There are many establishments around the world, not just in one country but many that I have been which do not patron south asian men or they frown upon because they tend to show wanton disregard to womens privacy, not taking no for an answer, forcing upon them, getting too much drunk or not respecting personal space. I see this everyday, seen this in India where toughing, groping still happens in buses and trains, seen this in thailand, seen this in uk, canada, america where desi guys tend to be quite obnoxious, seen the same in any beach places be it dubai, maldives, malaysia, mexico etc.
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