are actresses who commit suicide making it acceptable?|VB Note p.14 - Page 3

I don't think suicide will ever be acceptable . If anyone anywhere does it than of course it will be shocking . I often wonder what pushes people to it . What makes them think there's not 1 single thing to live for . I guess they think it solves their problems . But I've been in my share of bad situations and I never thought it . Skipping town sure but not this . Hopefully suicide remains unaccpatable . Any option is better than it .

I don't know what really went wrong but from the articles I read it seems she killed herself for her BF. What I can't understand is why do these girls commit suicide if the relation goes wrong. Why don't they understand her BF is not the end of the world. Her parents are there who will always love her unconditionally & friends & families who will miss her & for whom she meant a lot. Bad & good phases are part of life. You cannot have a bad phase throughout your life. Its temporary. Why give up your life ! This is so sad. ..May her soul rest in peace. I heard an audio of her mom crying over the phone to Dolly Bindra ... its so disturbing & tragic ! Suicide is never acceptable.

First of all, It hasn't yet been confirmed if its suicide or murder. The post mortem report hasnt come yet but some early details from people who have seen Pratyusha's body say that there were signs that she didnt commit suicide. Her eyes and tongue hadnt popped out as they generally do when someone hangs themselves. Also her lips were black and blood was coming from her mouth. All this needs to be confirmed.

Do you know there is a mental health problem called depression.Most of the people who commit suicide suffer from depression for a long time and just need a trigger to end the pain.

I feel its Murder not Suicide But If its suicide then Maybe Because of some Financial Issue on top of that must be her BF abused her rather then being with her But I'm fully Agree that She would Kickass them if its really Suicide Case.

mental health is not widely taalked about in India!

Wait. What. WHAT.

Now I've read everything on IF & I've to frank- Am utterly gobsmacked & disgusted

This is why it is great that dP came. Forward with her foundation & IVs on depression /mental health. This is why people need to be fervently & hopefully very soon, be educated on depression & mental health.


And this is why there is no point in hiding & blaming or exonerating the victims of mental health because their dark places are just their own. No-one can know what it feels like or what an uphill BATTLE it is to function like a human being, forget function well. Yes, people who do function well are "strong." But what really is strength? The ability to never be weak or to be weak with the awareness of it & the tools to overcome said weakness?

Anyway, am getting into abstract territory because this post just... Has left me completely disturbed, which I anyway was after reading about this girl's suicide. This is another reason why I say there is no point in judging the workers of the glamour industry. They do absolutely anything to survive & they must- Otherwise the world will label them as "weak & mentally unfit" like this post has done.

Apparently Rahul Raj is being the suspect . He is even taken under custody. After leaving her body to hospital he ran way took her fan and updating her instagram. Acc to rakhi n others he was eating chips and smiling but when camera panned him he was loudly crying. Have u seen his crying? Vikas Gupta brought her parents and parents are no mood to talk to him . Now her body will directly go to cemetery.parents not even in mood to taking her body to Rahul's place as she was now residing with him. So we can't judge till post martom reports comes

Originally posted by: colossial2015

Do you know there is a mental health problem called depression.Most of the people who commit suicide suffer from depression for a long time and just need a trigger to end the pain.

Few years back I was in a terrible situation like Pratyusha. I got dumped by my boyfriend and had failed nearly all the entrance exams. The cherry on the top was father got admitted twice in hospital before my final year exams. I had to take care of my studies and my family that time. Many of my friends just stop talking to me as they did not wanted to be related to a loser.

Few months later I got admitted in a PG correspondence course as it was less expensive and convenient to my family. My cousins who were like siblings even stopped friendly with me. So imagine my condition of being lonely from all sides.

After completing PG I was jobless for a year. I received constant taunts from people and complete apathy from others. I felt I was not suited to stay alive. I constantly saw the perfect life of others on Facebook. All I did binge eating and seething with jealously.

But one day I took a random quiz on net which told me I was depressed. I managed to contact a psychiatrist and get help as I wanted to show the people who left in the worst condition of my life that I can win. A part of me wanted to live.

But for some people the hope for survival fails over the freedom from pain and humiliation like in the case of Jiah and Pratyusha. People feel ashamed that they cannot even meet the desires and expectation of family and friends and in the case of actors audience. Sometimes you feel that the pain will only end after death.

Just remember one thing if any one ever says to you that they do not feel staying alive get help as soon as possible. This person can definitely try to end his/her life

Life is tough people. Some of us do need help to survive and others simply live to pull down others. Remember the going gets tough with each step and we have to just keep on walking. Sometimes you may fall down and sometimes you may run, but at the end of the day you need to keep on moving.

Life is like a game of chess changing with each move- Anyomous

From an ex Depression patient who is still figuring out life.

since when did humans find death acceptable?
never...so suicide or accident or even normal death is never acceptable..
what is nt acceptable is ego n being Judgemental ...
suicide is never a choice..its the last option retort left to the distressed..
n this last option arises in mind only when all ur hopes have died..
a hope to be loved..a hope to be cared for..a hope to be understood..
n a hope that there is someone out there who will miss u like hell if u
leave earth..n when a soul feels there is no eyes that will cry for her..
she then takes that decision to end her sorrowful miserable state of wretched
living...

so a suicide is nt the proof of a weak mind..rather its the proof of how we the friends
or relatives of the deceased are big failures..as we failed to convey to the departed
that hey i love u stay back hang on just for me...if nt for urself..