I need advice please help - Page 3

Originally posted by: AkaiShuichiGirl

I really don't know.. my brain keeps on telling me that the odds of him being gay are high either that or he's already in a relationship with a girl. .. (though I doubt it, he's probably dating a guy behind his parents back).
though beauty does lie in the eyes of the beholder and sometimes its not just the physical appearance ppl get attracted to, I don't have any other trait for him to get attracted to me.
I am not witty, I don't have character, I am not pretty, I have a boring personality so yeah there's nothing remotely interesting about me.. yet I still can't stop pursuing him.
Maybe I am hoping for a miracle, I really don't know.
Like I said I met this guy just once and that was two years ago.. so the odds of even meeting him again and/or finding out of he's gay and/or in a relationship are very low so far.
Shit likes this always happens to me.

Originally posted by: Quixotic5

You are scaring me.. ☢️

So much of negativity ! .. its difficult to sort things out with such an attitude.. I ll recommend "The Secret" by Rhonda Byrne..it talks about "The universal law of attraction".. you ll understand it once u read the book or watch the video of the documentary of the same..bottom line is ,so much of negativity will push you in a never ending cycle of negative events..u need to snap out of it asap..and I know its easier said than done but u got to at least try & 'The Secret' will hopefully help u with the same...

As of now, try & concentrate on ur term papers & hope for the best..if possible, give a shot at dating men that are more accessible & less likely to be gay..I think it will help u get rid of this obsession which now seems unhealthy in all possibilities..

easier said than done though..
yeah but I dont fall in love easily like the last guy I fell for was when I was 16 which was 4 years ago and after that only him (crushing on him)
so yeah...
but u r right I have to focus on my term paper now. have to pull an all nighter today... I can obsess on him tomorrow.. when everything's finished

tbh even if he were gay I wouldn't mind bearding for him...

Hes tri sexual

He will try anything sexual 😆😆

Originally posted by: Franco

Hes tri sexual

He will try anything sexual 😆😆

do you know him? Is he bisexual? That's fine with me lol

@AkaiShuichiGirl Its incredibly sad how harsh you are on yourself. I know I can't sit behind my PC telling you how you should feel but please don't be that harsh on yourself. We all have tendency of thinking we are not pretty or have things we wish we can change but to say you have no quality that's good for this guy is sad. You should never think like that, you must work on your confidence.

ASG(AkaiShuichiGirl) - dont think SO negatively, that too about yourself :( sorry I wont be able to advice you but I cant help myself haha, your negativity is reminding me of me.. 😆 But if you are going to think about it like this ALL THE TIME that too with so much negativity(like "this shit happens to me always" etc), it'll affect your health. I am on antidepressants at this young age, dont let that happen to yourself. Everything will seem fine, but the negativity and the constant thoughts about some one thing, slowly poisons your health and you'll never know. Be in the now, one can only be sure about the present na? .. and just hope for the best. 😃

Originally posted by: Angel-likeDevil

ASG(AkaiShuichiGirl) - dont think SO negatively, that too about yourself :( sorry I wont be able to advice you but I cant help myself haha, your negativity is reminding me of me.. 😆 But if you are going to think about it like this ALL THE TIME that too with so much negativity(like "this shit happens to me always" etc), it'll affect your health. I am on antidepressants at this young age, dont let that happen to yourself. Everything will seem fine, but the negativity and the constant thoughts about some one thing, slowly poisons your health and you'll never know. Be in the now, one can only be sure about the present na? .. and just hope for the best. 😃

He was my fav in the show as I love Kathak and he was really good at. 😆

weren't you in love with a black man? you posted here once