I need advice please help - Page 2

Originally posted by: AkaiShuichiGirl

why is no one giving me advice?
I am sick and tired of talking to myself and the people in my head 😡

Originally posted by: Quixotic5

Some girls r such a mystery , its quite beautiful actually.. I think in the west, girls do have thing for gay dudes , hence the saying - 'all the good ones , huh ?'.. .I guess that explains a lot about the obsession with sparkly vampires..LMAO.. I do support LGBT rights but the best thing about gay dudes is - one less competition..😆..but it doesn't seem to stop girls falling for them....I have no idea who this dancer is or if he is gay , sorry can't help , but u repeatedly keep mentioning 'gay crush' , so I ll just say, look around, there must be plenty of straight dudes around who would be more than happy to be with u..😃

That's because everyone knows gay dudes make good friends, it's like girl BFF minus the drama 😛

Good luck TM, I don't know what exactly you are trying to achieve after meeting him but since you traveled across the world for him, hope you find him soon.

Originally posted by: Quixotic5

@ bold : I thought I just did .. ..I mean sure , its not the kind of advice that u expected or want, but still I think it counts..😛

no you did. I think our posts just happened simultaneously so I read ur reply after I posted mine lol

Originally posted by: VivaEmptiness

That's because everyone knows gay dudes make good friends, it's like girl BFF minus the drama 😛

Good luck TM, I don't know what exactly you are trying to achieve after meeting him but since you traveled across the world for him, hope you find him soon.

nah I dont want a gay bff though I want a bf 😳

And nope I didn't travel the world for him😆 I just happened to pursue my master degree in London.. it was a last minute decision.. I was on my way to some other place before opting for the UK.
I don't know what I wanna achieve after meeting him..I want him to fall in love with me lol



I am an idiot I know

Originally posted by: AkaiShuichiGirl

nah I dont want a gay bff though I want a bf 😳

And nope I didn't travel the world for him😆 I just happened to pursue my master degree in London.. it was a last minute decision.. I was on my way to some other place before opting for the UK.
I don't know what I wanna achieve after meeting him..I want him to fall in love with me lol



I am an idiot I know

Aww don't say that:( you never know, you might actually get what you want. Honestly I'm very cynical and maybe I shouldn't give you advice, but good luck. I mean if Somy Ali chick can come all the way from the states to date Salman khan and achieve that, it's possible you might get your happy ending. Let's just hope he's not gay 😆

Originally posted by: VivaEmptiness

Aww don't say that:( you never know, you might actually get what you want. Honestly I'm very cynical and maybe I shouldn't give you advice, but good luck. I mean if Somy Ali chick can come all the way from the states to date Salman khan and achieve that, it's possible you might get your happy ending. Let's just hope he's not gay 😆

but Somy was good looking though. I am not. I mean even if he isn't gay he wouldn't be into me. I know that. :(

I jsut wish there was something I could do.
Like foreal. I have another term paper due tomorrow and I ahven't even started shit.
I just cant get him out of my head

ahhh

Originally posted by: AkaiShuichiGirl

but Somy was good looking though. I am not. I mean even if he isn't gay he wouldn't be into me. I know that. :(

Originally posted by: AkaiShuichiGirl

I jsut wish there was something I could do.
Like foreal. I have another term paper due tomorrow and I ahven't even started shit.
I just cant get him out of my head

ahhh

Originally posted by: Quixotic5

Wow..is this why you are pursuing this inaccessible & possibly gay man ?..🥱.. forgive me but that's just my far-fetched hypothesis, if it indeed is true, u need to get a better perspective on things in my opinion..

I admit people have varying degrees of 'conventional good looks' but 'beauty' is strictly subjective & determined by the onlooker..one may not be conventionally good-looking but the same person can be very appealing & beautiful to certain people..trust me I have myself interacted with people whom if I had seen in just pictures, I wouldn't have given a second thought about pursuing them romantically but meeting them in person changes the whole notion..and may be its the same with me too, people who do not find me appealing in pics might get interested if they meet with me or even vice versa..point being, dont strictly go by the notion of conventional good looks, it may be a contributing factor but there are other factors at work..its upto us how each us capitalizes our own uniqueness , that's what sets us apart & that's the beauty of it..😊

I really don't know.. my brain keeps on telling me that the odds of him being gay are high either that or he's already in a relationship with a girl. .. (though I doubt it, he's probably dating a guy behind his parents back).
though beauty does lie in the eyes of the beholder and sometimes its not just the physical appearance ppl get attracted to, I don't have any other trait for him to get attracted to me.
I am not witty, I don't have character, I am not pretty, I have a boring personality so yeah there's nothing remotely interesting about me.. yet I still can't stop pursuing him.
Maybe I am hoping for a miracle, I really don't know.
Like I said I met this guy just once and that was two years ago.. so the odds of even meeting him again and/or finding out of he's gay and/or in a relationship are very low so far.
Shit likes this always happens to me.