All the more reason to go watch Haider and support it.
Haider is a fictional story. It shows one narrow slice of issues in Kashmir. That does not mean it supports or promotes the narrative portrayed in a movie. It is merely telling a story for entertainment purposes.
We also need to understand that even in reality there are many perspectives to an issue. Based on the context and background people view situations differently. Secondly, armies are not infallible or flawless. They can be heroic, noble, brave, self sacrificing and great. They can also be cruel, barbaric, murderous, insensitive and despicable. Every country sees their army in a positive light. It is patriotic and usually the right thing to do. But we must not be blind that sometimes for people trapped in circumstance - the view can be radically different. We need to open our minds to see the world through the eyes of different people. You don't have to agree or buy it, but just gain perspective.
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