Blast From The Past: Saif Leaves Amrita Singh

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Posted: 12 years ago

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Originally posted by: desigal90

Just outta curiosity, have you personally known someone going through divorce?
I'm surprised by how people are shocked with the conflicts portrayed here.

The douche thing is the fact he cheated. No ifs, ands or buts about it. That's sick sick sick and if he ever did the same to Kareena, I would probably kill him before she does coz that is so NOT the kind of person I admire. He did it once, he's sorry, ok..well, one more chance.
Its been 6 years and he's been fully committed to Kareena.

But as for the rest of the article, its completely a one sided account.
Like I said, my family friends are getting divorced and each makes the other sound like a complete douche. Obviously, there is truth to most of what is said in the article, but again, its one person's account.
Things get really messy during a divorce and people fight over everything. Property, kids, custody, its a shitty shitty situation.

You do everything and anything to hit the other person where it hurts the most. Saif froze his accounts, left the house and moved out, Amrita wouldnt let him see the kids.

the disgusting part isnt the divorce...if you have differences you part that's fine but not taking responsibility of the kids and freezing bank accounts is outright disgusting and a huge 👎🏼 for Saif...i really used to like him but guess he used to be a douche hope isnt the same now...

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Posted: 12 years ago

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Originally posted by: Neetu_Unleashed
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that can't be said for saif, who abandoned her and kids, flirted with a foreign model and married a woman half her age. as an actor he has grown but as a person he is stagnant

Yeah, something is wrong with your math.

32 and 42.

Half of 42 is?

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Posted: 12 years ago

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I tried to look up some interviews of Saif post divorce and their arent many

Found articles of Saif and Amrita's reconciliation and only this excerpt of KWK season 2.

Karan: Speaking of your life and your responsibilities? things have changed dramatically even in your personal life? I mean there were things which were different a few years back and now.. post your marital split, has life been difficult emotionally?
Saif: At times yes! When you?re in the public eye it is clich'd say? you live under a microscope? it is disturbing and annoying at times being constantly discussed and you feel like defending yourself. At times you want to prove yourself that you?re a nice guy and didn?t mean to hurt anyone and again I?ve matured and I just shut up and try and be as nice as possible. I never claimed to say that I have all the answers in life. I just found myself in situations that were difficult to deal with and made my way? muddled my way through it trying not to upset anyone and unavoidably I suppose I did?

Karan: You think you handled the situation well personally?
Saif: No! I?m absolutely rubbish at handling situations well! Well ? is the stuff of history? Well is the stuff of men who do difficult things and have conversations and are clear and honest and I think psychologically it boils down to a simple thing of delaying gratification and I?m not very good at that .. I would prefer instant gratification. Yes.. I think I could have handled it better or more clearly- little more man-style opposed to boyish kind of ? Looking back I wouldn?t call it regret because I feel what has happened has happened for the best but yes, the way it happened its not very easy with so much media attention? At one time I felt most comfortable with waiters at restaurants because they smiled and acted normal and were happy to see me?

Karan: You feel they weren?t judging you?
Saif: Yeah! Then I realized? that?s a little silly!

Karan: Ok! We were talking about your marriage and what happened.. and you said you may not have handled it to the best of your ability!
Saif: But you know what happened in retrospect. Perhaps its easier to say but you know .. to sit down and do the right thing, say the right thing at the right time.. most of the people wait for catalysts to move them and when that happens sometimes it makes things difficult to be respectful or friendly and I think that?s really important. I really do owe a lot I believe? and I have a tremendous amount of respect for my ex-wife- Amrita and I would really like us to be friends one day?

Karan: What?s your current equation with her?
Saif: It?s still a little early or fresh..

Karan: Did you feel the fraternity? not just people by and large?because Amrita has been in the industry?
Saif: You know? completely aside from Amrita? what I did feel.. there?s many aspects that I felt. I think I did learn that marriage is a very serious institution. I think I was very young also? im not making excuses for myself but I was really 21! I really did not know what I know now! And that is that it is a very serious institution and society is built around it and if you have a lot of people walking around breaking that, it?s a threat to society so people look at you like..ok! I don?t know if you should be here? fortunately you are a star, you are doing well protects you..so I am actually thankful to the industry for protecting me.. but most if all I found that the strength and the survival came from myself! Because when I did walk into a room and I felt a certain amount of ostracized?what is it? Ultimately it didn?t matter?ultimately it actually didn?t matter because if you feel what you are doing is right! It?s a very big deal also because I cant imagine the effect this would have on Sarah and Ibrahim. I just pray and will make every effort possible. One thing is there? Sarah did say to me, ?You spend more quality time with me now.. than ever before?. I?m not saying that?s great and that everything?s fine but that is something special!

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Posted: 12 years ago

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Heartless saif didn't even cared about his own children

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Posted: 12 years ago

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Here's another one.

Is it true that you have divorced your wife Amrita Singh?

Yes, this is true. I have divorced her. However, it's tough for me to say that this is a right or a wrong step. I am happy that we have not parted from each other on a bitter memory. I give respect to her; she is mother of my children. Since we differ from each other, we couldn't live together any more. Now, every thing is fine. I am satisfied that Amrita and my children are economically strong. I have changed my residence, and given our bungalow to Amrita.

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Originally posted by: desigal90

Yeah, something is wrong with your math.
32 and 42.
Half of 42 is?

urrrmmm... control your emotions mam, my view is of a perspective if someone who doesn't even know kareena's age will think she looks half of saif's age. and she really looks like that. so are u gonna ask everyone about their maths ? 😆 m sure everyone would really bother to tell you 😛

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No matter how messy a divorce becomes if a dad reneges on his financial responsibilities of his children, he is just a horrible excuse of a human being. In USA if you fail to give child support you will be thrown into jail.. no questions asked.

Bringing children into this world involves a certain inherent responsibility.. to provide for them and nurture them. It is not like buying a music CD that you can throw them out once you get bored with it. Saif came from a rich family (the so-called Nawab lineage that he likes to boast about).. he had ample means to provide for his children. His equation with Amrita is not relevant to his duties as a father. It just goes to show that he was a rotten person at that time. Please don't dilute such an act as financially abandoning your children as a "mistake". You don't get to gloss over such hard facts by gushing about how "loyal and responsible" he is now.

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Saif and his ex-Amrita Singh visit Sanjay Dutt together (Aug 27th 2007)

First the heart issue and then, a break-up with girlfriend Rosa; this is apparently led to Saif getting close to his ex-wife Amrita Singh and we were surprised to see the duo visit Sanjay Dutt together.

Saif drove in his Lexus with ex-wife Amrita and daughter Sara seated in the back to visit Munnabhai. On the way out, their daughter Sara insisted on seeing Sanjay Dutt's red Ferrari in the garage. While Sara admired the Ferrari, Amrita and Saif stood there joking; they behaved like any normal couple.

Saif also got the door for Amrita on their way out. After stories of Bipasha going back to John, there were rumors of Dia helping Saif get over his drinking habit and was playing nurse to his ailing heart but, now with Saif getting close to his ex-Amrita, we are not sure for how long Dia's 'pyaar ka Dia' will be lit for Saif.

Checkout pictures of friends and family, who greeted Sanjay Dutt after he returned to Mumbai in his chartered flight from Yerwada Jail in Pune upon approval of his bail plea.

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Originally posted by: .Sarita.
Heartless saif didn't even cared about his own children

he bothers about pleasing Desigal only 🤣

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Originally posted by: SingularlyGood
No matter how messy a divorce becomes if a dad reneges on his financial responsibilities of his children, he is just a horrible excuse of a human being. In USA if you fail to give child support you will be thrown into jail.. no questions asked.
Bringing children into this world involves a certain inherent responsibility.. to provide for them and nurture them. It is not like buying a music CD that you can throw them out once you get bored with it. Saif came from a rich family (the so-called Nawab lineage that he likes to boast about).. he had ample means to provide for his children. His equation with Amrita is not relevant to his duties as a father. It just goes to show that he was a rotten person at that time. Please don't dilute such an act as financially abandoning your children as a "mistake". You don't get to gloss over such hard facts by gushing about how "loyal and responsible" he is now.

True that.

But again...this is a one sided article.

Years ago when I started getting into Saif, I read an interview, and I cant find it again though I looked, where he clarified it saying he was paying, but he couldnt afford to pay what Amrita demanded, coz he moved out, gave his bangalow to his wife and kids and rented an apartment. But he specifically said he was paying child support.

Now I dont know. At the time, Saif wasnt successful.

Also, the idea that Saif is filthy rich coz of his background is also flawed.

Pataudis lost most of their land btw, when their titles were taken. Even the palace is now a hotel, managed by a company. Saif plans to, well, hopes to buy it back one day.

The reason he started his production house actually, and in his own words, was for financial stability. And this he's said many times.

Still today,he's a lot more successful. Back in 2004, Saif was just starting out as a lead hero.