..she respects her mum n sis a lot, but at the end of the day, her life is her life and im glad she sticks to her choices...
i dunt get this concept of a woman doing something for her family instantly painting the picture as her being the sacrificial lamb or a pushover...My mum and sister both do several things for their in-laws not because they r forced to do so, but because they want to...out of reverence, respect and a certain sense of responsibility...tht dosent mean they dunt have any identity or individuality of their own...they are independent confident women but to run a marriage and a family, u need to start thinking abt people apart from urself...thts part of being a GROWN UP...
Any woman who makes a certain choice for her family out of her own will (be it leaving a job, or changing her habits), dosent need to be labelled as a pushover or a doormat...i personally respect a woman's choice to choose wht she wears without stereotyping her as a woman with no moral values...similarly, i also respect her decision to choose her family above something else in her life without stereotyping her as a doormat...i find it so regressive and even offensive tht women are judged and stereotyped in such a way. When i get married, i'll choose to change certain habits of mine too...but apparently, some ppl will then think i have no identity...
bottom line is: respect a woman's choice...to do whtever she wants to do.
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