Why do fans get so personal and touchy? - Page 4

Originally posted by: Nuktaacheen

that's an excellent question, shak...

in my opinion... it's simple... people are who they are... this love for celeb or hatred for celeb are all excuses...

it's not bad to get into heated debates... that happens... but what is absolutely ridiculous is the name calling and people using excuses to start name calling others to settle their own agenda...

rational spirit left seeing all the pollutants in the air... i am going to take a break myself from this madhouse... good thing i'm leaving on my vacation soon... it'll be good...

even the rabid soap sections are better than this... being part of a few, i can definitely attest to that...

there is no hope left for this section..

That sums up exactly how i feel as well!

Originally posted by: -ksh-

Why not just ignore it? Dont like a fan's opinion? Dont read it. Same applies to critics.

You cant compare the soap section to the bollywood section. The bollywood section has so many stars whereas the soap section has two lead characters. and obviously people in that forum are people who like the soap and the actors and therefore no fights. UNLESS its a love triangle, then youll see alot.

Originally posted by: Nkapoor3

because I guess one celebrity loves another celebrity because they see a part of themselves in them..however it gets annoyaning when a fan choses to ignore the most dominant trait of their fav it is like living in denial!

But why does that bother you? If I choose to live in denial and see SRK as a Saint and im just giving an example here ..whats your concern ? Anyone can continue to pull my opinion down as much as they want but it still wont change it so what satisfaction lies in constantly pulling someones leg. Besides a dominant trait to you might not be in some one else eyes so POV's should be respected not thrown down peoples throats.

P.S Im talking about generally what happens on here not directing it to you.

Originally posted by: DejaVu.

Yes Ignoring is the best way out of it but all topics look the same with fans and critics arguing with each other. Then you are bound to read the post and make your own comments.😛

Because humans are emotional creatures, the part of the brain which controls our emotions, the limbic system, predates the evolution of the rational part, it's what enabled us to survive... humans are still emotional fools.

Originally posted by: mz.gigglez

But why does that bother you? If I choose to live in denial and see SRK as a Saint and im just giving an example here ..whats your concern ? Anyone can continue to pull my opinion down as much as they want but it still wont change it so what satisfaction lies in constantly pulling someones leg. Besides a dominant trait to you might not be in some one else eyes so POV's should be respected not thrown down peoples throats.

P.S Im talking about generally what happens on here not directing it to you.

my problem is that the denial gets so big that inspite of so much opposition, the fan will keep on arging, and offcourse when that does not work they start throwing PERSONAL ATTACKS! which is not at all acceptable!

Originally posted by: Nkapoor3

my problem is that the denial gets so big that inspite of so much opposition, the fan will keep on arging, and offcourse when that does not work they start throwing PERSONAL ATTACKS! which is not at all acceptable!

Why do you care if someone is in denial? It's not like it's your duty to set them straight. Let them believe whatever they want to believe.

Originally posted by: -ksh-

Why oppose so much? Let the fan live with his/her opinions.

lol if fans cannot stop arguing and let others opinions be, then why should the opposing team stop?? iysme bhi ek logic hai😆😛