The thing is there are so many parameters which define a relationship..physical attraction is important...but after a while (a long while for blinded lovers), there is the character...Does that person take me seriously? Does that person value/respect/care for me? Is that person loyal? Is that person involved? If sth bad happened to me -- will that person stand by me & support me?....
These are the real questions for a serious relationship....
May sound irrelevant to you --- but my father has always taught me : choose a guy for his personality not for his looks...because when you grow old..the personaliy will remain whereas the looks just fades away...
But among celebs...it's more complicated.....they like mingling with people with an equal status to them - which I completly understand...
How will Aryan Khan know whether a girl likes him as a person or his dad's fame or fortune...?
So physical attraction isn't the only parameter...
Only physical attraction isn't what counts the most...
Boney & Sridevi...hmm (money - social status) ...- Gauri & SRK -- initially Gauri started to like him because he was kind to her...not because she was amazed by his looks.
Physical attraction yes but not ONLY..otherwise Deepika & Ranbir should have remained togther...it's obvious there were conflicts over essential things such as fidelity, loyalty, trust & respect....
Aamir is a good example..he only chose average looking women to get married to...maybe because he doesn't look for beauty at all cost in every woman but other things like intelligence wittiness complicity a special vibe...
Everyone is diffrent - what works for one doesn't for others...I know girls very beautiful who only search for wealthy guys no matter the appearance and I know guys who only sleep with gorgeous girls ... evryone likes beautiful people....but the thing is beauty doesn't pay bills or comfort when there's trouble....so a partner who has it almost all is a good choice..but that's very rare someone beautiful smart autonomous with a sweet personality.....
So choosing a life partner is more like a compromise./..
For instance s.o like Aish..wanted an indian guy with the same values & traditions as her..someone famous and whose surname was equally as known/popular as hers... and on top of that a very sweet guy......because she could have married any canadian/american business guy and she didn't...
As for Bebo & Saif...it's not mainly physical attraction...when Bebo felt bad with all the break up news about her & shahid - he was there for her - they support each other and accept each other's pasts...and they took their time to know each other...in a way they complete each other...sad thing is they have become a brand..but well it's the part of the fame game...
Everyone will like to meet their significant other th vry first day of their puberty...well it dosn't happen for the whole world..so most people date or move on....why is that people have to wait or cry for months...
Nobody like having failed relaionships..but most of them don't worth it...so
Just like a guy in my island - he was 21 - his GF dumped him ---he hung himself..sad...but he could have just waited for the depression phase to come to an end and move on also..sure the girl has....
A love failure doesn't prevent anyone from searching for another person..of course it's more noble to cry for long years...but wait there's a point in which you become old..life's too short...
Edited by lalixlili - 14 years ago