Aditya-Rani declare their love ? - Page 4

No not you --- but more about people who say Adi is not good looking --- I saw your comment but it wasn't meant to criticize you but more the fanatics....

This is NOT directed at Rani, and I honestly wouldn't want to poke my nose into any of these gossips since the accuracy and validity of any of these news are suspicious and under question, but I detest cheating. Of course, if love happens one can divorce his/her spouse, rather than going all KANK way.
Also, even as a Rani fan, I dislike many things she did on her life, and I think I have the right to speak against them (eg. her substituting Ash in Chalte Chalte without letting her know, whom she regarded as her best friend till that time - it's like ditching your best friend for your own selfish need). Rani is my favorite actress, but that doesn't mean she will have to be right about everything.

Moreover, I like Rani as an actress. I enjoy her performances onscreen. That should be enough. Why would I need to worship her off screen persona?

I don't deny your freedom of speech but it's her life whether you find it disgusting or "not good" --- Adi deserves the same opinion as well....if you think so about Rani....

Originally posted by: lalixlili

I don't deny your freedom of speech but it's her life whether you find it disgusting or "not good" --- Adi deserves the same opinion as well....if you think so about Rani....

What I don't like is that the woman always appears like the witch and the guy like a "victim"....which I find sexist.....

As for the narrow minded bit --- Cheating isn't something new...I see that everyday in my life - I become indifferent to it...yeah we're not perfect, that's such a fresh news....

And who says people who cheat are happy & proud of it?

I think it's easy to judge when we don't know what happened....

Again it's only my POV I don't expect eevryone agrees....I live in the real world not in a hindi movie in which the virginal poor heroine falls in love with a single rich guy who loves her back deeply and they live ever after and make lotta babies in Penjabi land...And they remain in love in their old days as day one...

If I am not mistaken (and correct me there), you live in France, and your culture is a lot different from the one I have here. So obviously, there will be a huge difference between our thought process.

I don't go on shunning people who cheats on others (spouse, partner, or friends). I may detest their practice(s), but that doesn't necessarily mean I look down upon them as lesser human beings than me or others. I guess at one point or the other, we all have done something immoral, something we shouldn't have done. As long as people (including me) are open towards redemption, and accepting their wrong deeds instead of ignoring it, or shoving it under the carpet.

I never said people who cheats are a a bunch of happy-go-lucky persons. One needs to pay for what one has done, eh? 😉😛

Of course sexism is wrong, and I can't seem to find anyone glorifying it actually. Te only reason why Rani is being given the attention is because she is a star, a popular and successful one, and an inspiration for many. If SRK did the same - people would say the same as well.

There is nothing narrow minded about detesting cheating. Of course, the degree of it matters.

@ The bold: Strange as it may sound, such happy relations do exist in real lives, and I know way too many people who are into healthy monogamous relations, and the first person they have crossed their virginity with is their partner.

That is why I was talking about a linear love life - I know it does exist LOL I only say that it doesn't exist everywhere... Being narrow minded = people who don't accept the idea that people like Rani (a celeb or a woman) may have been involved with a married man...i don't find it great either but I don't give it the stamp of "Epitome of Evilness on earth".

Lily, concur with all your points, but the issue I have is with some of the fans.

when say some one like Deepika or Ash (pre-wedding days) was seen with a guy or was associated with a man the same fan-girls would never shy from calling them a man-eater.

But to some of them Rani can do no harm.
Also Rani does have a reputation- Govinda walked out on his family to live-in with Rani. Thats unacceptable, rani and more so Govinda who had 2 grown up kids.

On top of all of this she comes out saying I have never had a Boyfriend in my life- that absolutely hypocritical!

I have heard of Rani & Govinda but I didn't know about the "I've never had a BF in my life" LOL --- in a way she's right, having affairs with married men make her a constant mistress or second rank "date" or "woman" not a GF lol It depends on her definition of BF...I think it's more a words manipulation. If she had only flirts in her life - I may understand that statement..but if she meant that she never had a love relationship - yes it's def hypocritical lol

Originally posted by: desigal90

Well I'm not for breaking marriages either, but lovanika, the only thing I'd like to disagree with is the running after money bit. You mentioned a middle class engineer, and why these actresses dont run after married middle class engineers, but rich married men.

It doesnt have as much to do with money as it does with the simple fact that...the ppl they come in contact with ARE rich.

Why woudl Rani be getting close to a middle class engineer anyway? For the majority of her working career, she's been surrounded by people from similar field and class.

Same with Shilpa.Since these girls themselves have achieved a certain status,its kinda unrealistic for us to expect them to be becoming friends with men below their status.

I'm sure rani, even as a friend, was much closer to Adi Chopra, than a middle class man. Its just she's been around him more. Its not that she purposely fell in love with the richer man.

Thanks Lovanika - I almost forgot to talk about Madh --- She got married to a middle class guy and he was introduced to her by her brother.

oh please rani don't be with aditya. He's old and ugly. You don't need to be with him just because he gives you yash raj movie sometimes.

Rani needs to work with different directors. She's the best actress