Mallika Sherawat Ex Mom-In-law speaks up - Page 5

Originally posted by: Sneh-Jiwan

I disagree with you on the basis of that you think if a woman is a career minded even if she is married should do exactly what Mallika have done. My dear Yaar millions of career women in the world are married that does not mean they should do what Mallika did. She was an air hostess isn't that a career. To run away from home in this manner to become an actress is not carrer oriented style. She is the worst actress we have in the film industry now. I have opinion and this is what it is. We have hundreds of actresses who are from very respectable families and doing great. Have you ever heard what nonsense some times she talks in her interviews. I agree with you that it may be her career or life, ones life is also attached with others your loved ones and your nearest and dearest. Otherwise it is selfishness.

Originally posted by: freakyy

when did i say , you should abandone ur family to pursue ur career??

she was a air hostess and that's a career but obviously it didn't make her happy. May be it was her dream to become an actress. Good, bad however kind of actress she is..it is obviously her dream which she is chasing. And her husband and so called family obviously didn't support her in that. So she left.

I don't understand why we are quick in judging her as a person just caz she decided to have a career which her husband didn't approve. weren't srk, amir, hrithik, saif married when they started out in bollywood? Their wives stood by them, Gauri khan (srk's wife) said in the interview , intially she didn't want srk to join the film industry caz she didn't feel comfortable with it. But that didn't make her leave srk. She stood by him..and today they are happily married.

Madhuri made a come back caz her husband was supportive. She has said it many times , without her husband's support...she wouldn't be able to manage all these.

and as for Mallika abandoning her son, it still hasn't been confirmed anywhere. I highly doubt that he is being brought up by her husband. Caz if that was the case then her MIL wouldn't have missed this opportunity to mention that little fact in this interview of hers. I think if she has a son then he probably is being brought up Mallaika and her mother.

c'mon ppl jst keep urself in her place n then tell is she completely rite...

Originally posted by: Koizakapoor

c'mon ppl jst keep urself in her place n then tell is she completely rite...

i agree that every one has a rite to pursue her dreams n everything but again doing somefin like this...abandoning a family attached to her..abandoning her parents..is this something any one would ever be happy wid...any person who has any regard for her parents would never do somefin like this..

dreams are important n every1 wants to fulfill them but there is a way to do somefin..wat mallika did is inappropriate...

n talking abt madhuri..well how many movies did she do after gettin married..im hell sure she must ve been offered a million movies but again she hardly did 3, 4 movies after marriage..y?...its coz dere is something known as family...y is she settled in america...y isnt she here in india...coz she has a family dere n she cares for it...y is kajol refusing to go out of india for shooting of MNIK...coz she has a child to take care of ...y did jaya refuse to sign films after having kids...coz one day abhishek n sheweta asked her to stay at home wid them...

any person if has little regard of her family or child would never ever had done anyfin wat mallika did...she could have pursued her dream n she had every rite to but her way to achieve her dream is wrong..

Originally posted by: Sneh-Jiwan

I cannot understand where are you getting the words from yaar, To persue someone with the career does not deffinately mean that one should act in such a way as Mallika has done, I do understand its her life, but one should not forget all the other lives which are attached with them. Husband, in-laws. parents and all the loved ones. Is she happy by upsetting all those who were so close to her, if she is then my friend she is the most selfish person I have come across. In everyones lives families come first.

Hmm..i am getting my words from my mind😕 And how do u know Mallaika abanoned her family? in article, it clearly states that she always had dreams of becoming famous. But her in-laws and husband thought she will come around , which she obviously didn't. It also said her in-laws were completely against her joining the movies, so she HAD to leave. Now how does this make her selfish? Her in laws and parents are more bothered about what SOCIETY will say instead of looking at their daughter's happiness. On the other hand, i would say they are the ones who are selfish to ask Mallaika to give up her dreams and expect her to live a suffocated life JUST TO KEEP THEIR JHOOTHI SHAN🤢

The other example you have given you can see for yourself that to have written they had support from their families and loved ones, They did not for their careers abandoned their loved ones to be the Films. You are contradicting your own statement. I am on your side in every way but agreeing to some points is impossible. Its no way any personalization. I hope you do undersatnd freaky yaar !!

I thought i was pretty clear in giving these examples. The point i was trying to make here was SRK's wife didn't leave him or asked for divorce just caz he joined film industry. She didn't want him to join the industry but she still supported him caz she knew it made him HAPPY. Mallaika's husband could have done the same. Let's look at mallaika arora, she has a kid , husband , in-laws ...and full family filled with brother in laws, mother in laws etc...but she is still living her life the way she wants to. And she could do all these caz her family supported her, no one asked her to choose between her dreams and family. We are quick in judging why she left her family, but it probably caz the love and support which she expected her husband to give didn't get fulfilled. Wives are always standing behind their men regardless of the career they choose, how come society doesn't expect men to do the same??😕

like i said it's clear case of double standards, and the worse part is women are the first ones who criticize other women for taking a stand. Like they say, "women are women's worse enemy"

anyways, now i have nothing else to say. this can go on forever. i think i made al my points. Obviously we are two different people so i can't expect u to agree with me. 😃

Originally posted by: desigal90

Damn right!