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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: Mrs-Sahil

1- By mentioning her kids, he already went personal and wants to say no matter what, because she has children she isn't allowed to critisize anyone: And this is coming from a father who has abused women on many reality shows.

2- If Delnaz herself has created the rife between herself and Urvi then what should she stand up for?

3- Teenagers are the biggest bad-mouth and the fact teenagers behaved better than a tharki father shows the difference in their upbringing.

4- Delnaz was the FIRST person out of the two who said Urvi has a bad reputation, Delnaz was the FIRST out of two who started bitching about Urvi, Delnaz was the FIRST person who tried to bring Urvi down through her tearless emotions, Delnaz was the FIRST person out of the two who cursed Urvi, Delnaz was the FIRST person out of two who went personal by saying 'do bacho ki maa hai' when Urvi was getting close to Nik.

5- Delnaz herself considered Rajeev 'just a contestant' first and went on to make him her favourite HM by giving him a garland, only to ignore him after Aashka came in, and now getting loud after so many weeks just because she excepts her namard brother to stand by her. She herself is making public fun of her divorce, not Urvi.

6- Urvi isn't strong because she fell pregnant at 17: She is strong because in a society like India she DARED to stand up for what she believes, and that is that a woman CAN give a proud and decent upbringing to her children without the support of a man. Irani family can't even control their ill character despite of having a father, forget about a DECENT upbringing.

7- You don't know Urvi either, nor do you know Delnaz so why are you supporting Delnaz by speaking against Urvi? Unless you are Bakhtiyar creating lame threads with lame reasons.

8- Not just Salman, EVERYONE I know who watches BB makes fun of Delnaz's tearless two second whining.

9- I don't even care what Bakhtiyar exactly said, all I know is that that wife abuser didn't come to support Delnaz, he came to bring down people who couldn't speak at that moment: A great sign of a coward.

-Mrs Sahil


👏 well said.

Also, would like to add another point, when Aashka was captain, in captain's room Delnaz was telling Aashka that "joje ekli padi jase" it means "watch she (Urvashi) will be so lonely" in the house. They both thought that if they (Del and Aashka) are not with Urvashi, she would be left all alone in the BB house and nobody will support her. They tried their best to isolate her, by not talking to her, by shooing her away or by giving her attitude whenever she came to talk to Aashka so she finally changed groups.

Irony is Urvashi made so many friends and in return Aashka and Delnaz lost all the friends, and they are holding grudge against her for that.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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The loser said haa meri behan moti hai, Kyunki she is pampered by her father unlike Urva's kids... He Sai this knowingly that Urva is a single mother... That's a low blow but what am you expect from a loser...
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Copying and Pasting to give you company amongst pro-Urvi posts 😎

"atleast delnaaz apne baap ka khati hain, tumhare bacho ki tarah nahin"<-----Distortion by certain some.

This is what many people are basing their argument of how Bakhi's comment was below the belt, distortion and assumption/speculation. In the episode, nothing of sort was mentioned and no one even has any video to back up the above claim.

In the episode, Bakhi said that "aapke bhi 2 bachche hain and woh bhi dekh rahe hain". May be he was wrong to bring in the kids to express his views. But I didn't find OTT about this statement. It was more or less on the line of "family is watching you and judging you for your actions"


About the children thing, she was sad or mad cuz he brought up her children in the statement, not that children were being taunted or some derogatory words were used for them. And tell you the truth, even Live Feed gets muted when it comes to such drama. So I am not sure how people are claiming such blatant statement. And more than anything, people are getting personal with Bakhi, Delu and his family. The things I have read are far worse than what he uttered.

Secondly, he said "Delu is moti aur woh apne baap ka khati hain" I took his statement for it's face value and not what people are claiming that he was indirectly referring to a father figure being absent for her kids. I mean with this logic, I am sure we can interpret every statement by these housemates to fit in our perception.

I have read many justifications for Urvi and her comments. She went personal, she got the same in return, nothing is fair when it comes to one's loved ones. People are saying if they were in Urvi's shoes they would have ripped him apart for bringing her kids in the equation, makes sense and he deserves it. But with that logic, shouldn't he be given a benefit of doubt for being a brother, who has heard Urvi getting personal with Delu ("Moti" was definitely used with negative connotation no matter how much people justify that) And thus, I can see where he and his outburst came from. So if he is wrong, then so are others who are getting personal with him and his family. Such logic can be applied both ways, but looks like people turn a blind eye when it comes to their own self.


Basically, if one is ready to make personal comments, they should be ready to hear the opposite party as well. After all, it's a game and people will take advantage of the situation given to them and that's what Bakhi did.

End of the day, I did feel bad that Urvi took it so personally. She shouldn't have let someone affect her that badly. I mean he pinched her nerve, exactly what he wanted.

Lastly, you see the forum is way too anti-Delu and pro-Urvi and thus the backlash. I mean it's a game and it's way too obvious why BB brought him in the first place and from a brother's perspective he did what he had too, right or wrong. End of the day, all the havoc is being created while the video or proof hasn't been provided even once, that says everything about such claims. So until I see the video, for me, he didn't really cross the line per se except for the Kids factor may be.


Edited by -Chandramukhi- - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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For those who wants reaction of Bakhtiyaar burst please watch the Post eviction Interview of Mink and Vrajesh I think some one has posted the link also.
Vrajesh who was vbery good friend of Delu also said that what ever Bhaktiyaar did may back fire Delnaaz.
and Mink though good friend of urvashi said that He went over Board ,he shouldn't have dragged kids in between even he has two kids and we all know what he does in real life this is still a show.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: -Chandramukhi-

Copying and Pasting to give you company amongst pro-Urvi posts 😎


. So until I see the video, for me, he didn't really cross the line per se except for the Kids factor.


Exactly ,I rest My case.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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I restate:

1. Bhaktiyaar ONLY defended his sister for the nasty things Urva said about Delnaaz.

2. Urva was bitching from day 2! I'm not fond of Aashka/ Delnaaz either. I'm supporting neither of the three. Having said that, Delnaaz was upset with Urvashi because she used to snap a lot (which she's stopped doing now, once she got a gang to bitch about Del-Aash). But, everyone in the house had a problem with Urva getting aggressive & snappy. But when Urva befriended niketan during the army task, she seized the chance to cut off from Delu.

3. You can't give any excuses for dominating others/ snapping. When someone does that to you on a daily basis - you won't take it either!

4. The only thing that Bhaktyaar said that was unreasonable was the comment about Urvashi being cast as vamp by Ekta Kapoor.

Be reasonable guys, please don't support contestants even if they're wrong. You can mock at delu being fake/ Urvashi snapping/ aashka always crying - but be fair! When Urva mocked Del & even during the angel-shaitaan task, she called her a saand/ bhains in the kitchen in her face & moti behind her back - those things are nasty. Really, I don't remember anyone other than Dolly Bindra talking like this - even Sky was cleaner.

-Ramya
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Posted: 13 years ago
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It is indeed a show where Urvi's family and Sapna's friends came in with grace and walked out with grace, where as Bakhtiyar came with cheap intentions and is now being targeted for his cowardice act. I don't know about Urvi fans on IF, but if Bakhtiyar can argue with a statue Urvi, assasinate a statue Rajeev's character, and make fun of a statue Mink's accent, then even we as the viewers, who pay for it too, have the right to assasinate him for the RIGHT reasons. ;)

And funniest of all was that Delnaz wasn't emotional after seeing him, she was scared he delivered her more enemies, LOL. Darpook ka behen darpook. ^_^
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: Sarkar

Exactly ,I rest My case.



I didn't know we were even having a discussion/debate 😆😆 And there isn't such video where he has mentioned more than what was shown to us.


P.S: Show me the video and I will gladly take my words back. But from what I have seen, I thought it was all game, right or wrong, or how right or how wrong, that is up to an individual.


Edit: OK I got it now. You mean the kids part, right ?? Yeh even that is debatable as I have explained in my post, so fixed my statement there. But yes, he could have said the same without including her kids in there.
Edited by -Chandramukhi- - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Watch this video from 5:25 onward. Mink rightly taking Bhakku 's class on what he said abt her kids


[YOUTUBE]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ucr07OaFLuw[/YOUTUBE]
Edited by sarasingh86 - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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^^^^ Watched the video. Same thing. There isn't anything more which Mink mentioned which we don't know already.

Mink's words "He shouldn't have brought her kids and this and that" There is nothing more to it than some more ambiguity.
Edited by -Chandramukhi- - 13 years ago

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