Rupali & Carol - Need some self esteem - Page 4

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Posted: 18 years ago
#31

Originally posted by: tina59

I disagree , how does massaging ur closest friends feet in the BB house loses ones self esteem , would u feel that u r losing ur self esteem by massaging ur friends arms and legs , I dont think so .

would anyone have felt the same had they massaged any of the gals legs and arms , so would that become losing ur self esteem too , and if not , why is there such a descrimination that if u do it for gals its allright and if its done for the guys ,whom they consider as their closest friends in the BB house then they lose their self esteem , all these are double standards.

carol is one of the top models of India and Rupali is a well established actor in the television industry , I am sure that they know a thing or two abt self esteem and self respect .

whats wrong in rupali cleaning and doing all the work in the BB house if she wants to do it to pass her time and do things for her friends .

I didnt find anyone raising a finger when aryan was massaging anu's legs or when anu cuddles up to aryan every night after coming on in front of the tv and telling her parents that there was nothing between them and anu is talking abt dignity ,give me a break .


if u are close friends with anyone , u wouldnt hesitate to do things for them or think abt self respect and self esteem . Those 5 are the closest group in the BB house till now and hence like to do things for each other , how in the world does that become losing ur self -respect

I agree with u tina

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Posted: 18 years ago
#32
i like both roopali and carol,but there is a limit for everything .why do they have to massage the boys , as if they are been paid to do it .it looks really bad . 😡
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Posted: 18 years ago
#33
feet hi toh massage kar rahe hai na 😆 😆
if thats wot gives a supermodel and tv actress peace of mind so be it...
personally i dont like all this massage givin and takin...but some how big boss show has become a big massage show...
so the ones who dont like it..try to find it funny..
and those who ve no probs with it..can keep watchin it and probably get some tips too.. 😆 it may come handy
Edited by sarah.oamng - 18 years ago
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Posted: 18 years ago
#34

wat's wrong in it???😕

Aryan was massaging Anupama's legs n hands.. that was wayyyyyy better😆 but Carol & Rupali massage guyz's legs, u guyz have problem

errrrrrrrrrrrr

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Posted: 18 years ago
#35
There is nothing wrong in massaging or pressing a friend's feet but if the friend is a deprave and uses crude language in front of you most of the time and you know his "real" intentions then someone with a sane mind won't. Ravi acknowledged in front of camera that he is Ram Saray Pandey /Shukla. Now just remember all those crude things he imagined about himself and Carol and blurted out in front of camera. One might argue that all of this is openness among friends but we forget one very important thing that this guy is married and a father of 3 children and his acts are definitely not of a commonsensical adult. Last night he asked Carol where she cuts her hair and she told him a good place with a brand name and he said that he knew she would go to such a place and her hair is so nice whereas he mocked at Rupali and asked her if she goes to a barber or some 'aira-gaira' guy as that is her standard. Friends don't cross limits like this. I am surprised that the people who find Aryan-Anupama's acts repulsive are supporting this improper act in the name of friendship. May be what I find wrong could be right for another and vice versa and that doesn't make one wrong and another right. Individual perception differs in each matter. This debate will continue till they stop massaging or gets evicted. 😆😆
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Posted: 18 years ago
#36

Originally posted by: Vandu4ever

wat's wrong in it???😕

Aryan was massaging Anupama's legs n hands.. that was wayyyyyy better😆 but Carol & Rupali massage guyz's legs, u guyz have problem

errrrrrrrrrrrr

😆We are against all massages whether it's AA's or R-C-R's 😆. Both are repulsive.

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Posted: 18 years ago
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Originally posted by: madhy

very well said & i completely agree wit u Tina👏👏👏

me 2..well said👏

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Posted: 18 years ago
#38

I disagree , how does massaging ur closest friends feet in the BB house loses ones self esteem , would u feel that u r losing ur self esteem by massaging ur friends arms and legs , I dont think so . We also don't think that massaging a friend is bad, but there is a limit. Ravi and Rahul are treating the girls like their personal slaves. Massaging for a friend and massaging for a slave is completely different.

would anyone have felt the same had they massaged any of the gals legs and arms , so would that become losing ur self esteem too , and if not , why is there such a descrimination that if u do it for gals its allright and if its done for the guys ,whom they consider as their closest friends in the BB house then they lose their self esteem , all these are double standards. Its not that we do not like the fact that guys and girls massage each other. As i have said above, when the girls were massaging [ONLY FOR THIS INCIDENT] the guys, it seemed vulgar.

carol is one of the top models of India and Rupali is a well established actor in the television industry , I am sure that they know a thing or two abt self esteem and self respect . Thing is, apparently R-R know each other from before. So there is some comfort level which I feel Ravi is taking advantage of. I dunno abt Carol.

whats wrong in rupali cleaning and doing all the work in the BB house if she wants to do it to pass her time and do things for her friends . I have no problem if she cleans the house, but massaging such men with no good intentions (the men seem to have no good intentions)is not something we expect from Rupali.

I didnt find anyone raising a finger when aryan was massaging anu's legs or when anu cuddles up to aryan every night after coming on in front of the tv and telling her parents that there was nothing between them and anu is talking abt dignity ,give me a break .I agree with you that anu's and her 'so-called dignity' is a facade, but we must also take into a/c they are practically GF-BF.


if u are close friends with anyone , u wouldnt hesitate to do things for them or think abt self respect and self esteem . Those 5 are the closest group in the BB house till now and hence like to do things for each other , how in the world does that become losing ur self -respect I have said all I wanted to above, again.


I donot wish to insult your views/ opinion or offend you, this is just some of the things I wanted to address to what you have said.

Once agin, no offence intended.

Rohit

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Posted: 18 years ago
#39
Rohit, you've clearly mentioned and clarified why that incident was indecent to be watched ... I agree with you on every point of yours especially that GF-BF point whic I wanted to mention but didnt get idea where to start from...
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Posted: 18 years ago
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How is it that everything is fine and justified if they are in a relationship in front of the ca,eras and everything is wrong and a person loses his self respect if they do it for their friends . I am not talking from the guys POV but from the girls POV , they do consider them as their very good friends and closest friends and one u feel that way towards ur friends then U wouldnt def hesitate abt all these things . You would do it for them , Its wrong again to say that the guys arent doing any work, I have seen them work and slogging out in so many episodes .

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