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Posted: 11 years ago
#61

Originally posted by: poorvab



but her comments contradict that. when she says kamya gauhar need men to survive in the house. she believes she is surviving without armaan. she's completely in denial over her behaviour.

If we go by saying she has psychological issues with regard to a male, then isn't it the first thing for the person to be in denial?
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Posted: 11 years ago
#62

Originally posted by: gurl-enchanted

Yep. Four points here

- gratefulness for his having been there for her.
- dependency.
- love and faith that he feels the same
- low concept of self

You're on fire, girl 👏


haha thank you thank you 🤗
TBH, ive seen girls like tanisha in my life, their boyfriends broke up with them, some even cheated on them and after getting over the inital anger, they went to begging the guy to get back with them. the guy treated them like crap, by seeing other girls behind their back and they knew all about it and yet couldnt imagine their life without him and begging him to come back. i absolutely fail to see the need of a guy in your life who treats u like a pice of shit. the guy used to threatn my friend that he'll break up with her if she ever fought witt him and she used to cry and apologize without any fault!
you will get a 100 better guys in your life who respect you but still these giirkls run after such guys! i myself dont know the exact reason and my friend just says i cant live without him and thats reason enough for her but i dont understand this reason! and all these r just my guesses on their thinking!
another point here is that these kindof guys always go to extremes. their good behavior is so wonderful that girls think he's been so nice to me in the past i can ignore a little bad behavior!
similar to all the "maine ye meri tanisha ke lie kia"
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Posted: 11 years ago
#63
There are two possibilities!
Either she is extremely insecure and hence the need for her to have someone as horrible as Armaan in her life and despite him mistreating her, she construes it as love

OR

She is just pretending as she was contracted to do just that!


Take your pick😆😆
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Posted: 11 years ago
#64

Originally posted by: zxion

Let me give you my brutally honest opinion 😉. I agree it was not a good excuse to give .But I really don't know her admiration for this man is real or necessity to play the game and survive in the house . If she really admires this guy then its her life . I am hoping she will realize as soon as the show ends and spell will be broken . That is why she said she will explore after the show .The environment and things they go through there and isolation forces one to make certain decisions which is hard to judge from outside. Imagine yourself living in there and you cannot trust most of them . Sangram and Andy are nice to her now but as long as Elli was there they had totally different group . They could turn against and vote for her any time in the game too . Before that they were with Gauhar . When she was isolated only Arman was there to trust . A man even though hotheaded does not vote against her or plots against her . He does show he cares sometimes when he is not in that madness fit . When he is calm he is different .So she chose Armaan as confidant among all the others . Everyone needs a friend or support system in the house .Just like Gauhar took in Ajaz in her group even though he insults Kushal and comments on Guahar on her back . Just like she supports Kushal in all his rudeness and gaalis. Kamya had support from Pratyusha and now desperately trying to be in all places to play the game being nice to Andy . .Everyone makes their own support system depending on the situation .I cannot speak for Tanisha . I can only give my point of view . When two arrogant equally rude people are fighting and one person is your friend and other you hate . Then any person will side with the friend whether they are right or wrong . So in defense she blabbered what came to her mind .Its a good advice Salman gave .Lekin ghar mein kaun suntha hai ye baat ...Monday ko phir task hoga .all will go out of the other ear . You can take a horse to the water but cannot make it drink😆 ...This is true for all the people in the show . Whoever plays the best game may win .😉.


Zxion ji, when Tanisha started taking sides of Arman then she was not isolated in the house. Shilpa Saklani was her close friend then. Infact she started getting vindictive the first time about Arman ji ka breakfast and deliberately alienated herself from everyone.
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Posted: 11 years ago
#65

Originally posted by: vish11111

She has gone so far in her love and defense for Armaan that now she cannot possibly reverse it. If she leaves Armaan now, she won't really get too much support in the house. There are clear groups so she keeps saying stuff to make Armaan happy. She probably knows that Armaan can't win the show so she is using him as a shield.

Funniest was when Armaan was evicted last weekend, she went to clarify stuff with Kamya and improve her relation with Kamya. That photo cutting incident had taken place 3-4 days ago but Tanisha never went to her to clarify or show sympathy. Only when Armaan was evicted she must have thought about finding some support in the house lol

I don't think her love is real...or maybe i am hoping its not real for Tanisha's sake. I have said it before and I repeat...I will become her fan for life if she comes out of the show and says she was putting up an act with Armaan and actually finds Armaan to be a horrible human being🤣

Okay. Very well written.

New reason - She needs Armaan's support in the House to win and is tolerating his behaviour to ensure that support cuz otherwise she would be left alone and would find it tough to stay out of nomination. You are also saying her love for Armaan might be all an act for the show. VALID.
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Posted: 11 years ago
#66

Originally posted by: gurl-enchanted

Oh, a medical student! This makes it interesting. Borderline Personality Disorder. Can you also tell me why this happens? Why would it happen to someone like Tanisha with her background and everything? 😃

Note this post, guys


Ooo getting into the nitty gritty hahah! Gosh, it's been a while since I did my psychiatry attachment, but I'll try. BPD has a number of distinctive features. Impulsivity, poor interpersonal relationships, low self-esteem and issues with self-worth, intensively distressing emotional states or dysphoria (extreme emotions, feelings of being victimised or betrayed! Self destructive behaviour). Major risks are also associated its this - mainly risk to self in terms of suicidal ideation and self-harm behaviour. The cause I think is generally considered to be an amalgamation of a genetic component and several environmental factors the most important of which is having experienced a traumatic incident in one's life thus triggering Post-traumatic stress disorder like symptoms. Going through adverse childhood events might shape the person in a certain way, not only manifesting in behavioural changes as an adult but physical, neurodevelopmental changes as well. Management mostly relies on cognitive behavioural therapy, psychotherapy, and some pharmacological treatment as well (antidepressants, Mood stabilisers especially lithium, and antipsychotics too to counteract the suicidal thoughts).

PHEW. Had myself a little revision session there, lol, it's minimal but hope that helped.
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Posted: 11 years ago
#67

Originally posted by: naisal





I would like to know what her relationship with her father was like to get a more lucid picture of this. Might be crucial.

Frankly, I have no idea about her Dad. Have only heard of Tanuja and Kajol. Any news reports?
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Posted: 11 years ago
#68

Originally posted by: HooLiGaN



tu kia kare is ke ilawa ab
bus so sticking with armaan😆

Aapka matlab for the show na? Cuz no support in the house?
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Posted: 11 years ago
#69

Originally posted by: sarah75



she only knows the best reason to it..but I think she knows that arman is at her side always , she is a woman who can't stand alone in the crowd..she needs aid..a support...once the support is removed or perished she will find herself..she will come out the way she was born...abhi jab tak BB mein hai aur arman uske sath hai..woh aisi hi rahege...she is now used to him. gone case.

Yeh hui na baat. Dekha aapne kitna accha reason socha? You are saying she needs support in the house and is doing it all for the show. Kaafi logon ko yahi lag raha hai. Well done.
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Posted: 11 years ago
#70

Originally posted by: arcoiris

Tanisha does have submissive personality with poor self-esteem and may be suffering from emotional masochism. But she doesn't have a single symptom of BPD.

Borderline Personality disorder is characterized by an unstable affect, mood swings, marked impulsivity, recurrent suicidal ideation, identity disorder and inappropriate anger. Patient in stress condition may turn psychotic with main defense mechanism of splitting. PS: I am done with my med school 😳


No, true doesn't sound like Tanisha. Sounds like Armaan though.

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