'I spoke out of turn.' - Tanisha - Page 8

She's beyond help now, even when Salman tried to get her to see the light she was smiling with pride and laughing it off. It's like selling mirrors in a city of blind people. Pointless and futile

Originally posted by: gurl-enchanted

Aapka matlab for the show na? Cuz no support in the house?

yeah

Dwaapar Yug mein ek Rani Gandhari hui thi, jin ke aankhon ki patti Mahabharat ka ek kaaran thi...

Kali Yug mein Tanisha ji hui hain, jin ki aankhon ki patti ke kaaran BB7 mein roj Mahabharat hota hai

Originally posted by: zxion

Let me give you my brutally honest opinion 😉. I agree it was not a good excuse to give .But I really don't know her admiration for this man is real or necessity to play the game and survive in the house . If she really admires this guy then its her life . I am hoping she will realize as soon as the show ends and spell will be broken . That is why she said she will explore after the show .The environment and things they go through there and isolation forces one to make certain decisions which is hard to judge from outside. Imagine yourself living in there and you cannot trust most of them . Sangram and Andy are nice to her now but as long as Elli was there they had totally different group . They could turn against and vote for her any time in the game too . Before that they were with Gauhar . When she was isolated only Arman was there to trust . A man even though hotheaded does not vote against her or plots against her . He does show he cares sometimes when he is not in that madness fit . When he is calm he is different .So she chose Armaan as confidant among all the others . Everyone needs a friend or support system in the house .Just like Gauhar took in Ajaz in her group even though he insults Kushal and comments on Guahar on her back . Just like she supports Kushal in all his rudeness and gaalis. Kamya had support from Pratyusha and now desperately trying to be in all places to play the game being nice to Andy . .Everyone makes their own support system depending on the situation .I cannot speak for Tanisha . I can only give my point of view . When two arrogant equally rude people are fighting and one person is your friend and other you hate . Then any person will side with the friend whether they are right or wrong . So in defense she blabbered what came to her mind .Its a good advice Salman gave .Lekin ghar mein kaun suntha hai ye baat ...Monday ko phir task hoga .all will go out of the other ear . You can take a horse to the water but cannot make it drink😆 ...This is true for all the people in the show . Whoever plays the best game may win .😉.
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What a brilliant post! 👏 I am quite impressed at the depth you have gone here into the general mental state of the people in the house. You are essentially saying what Kajol said in an interview - "unnatural conditions." They make you react and behave a certain way you never would outside. You have people who will stab you in the back the first chance they get and so you cling on to stuff you find solid and reassuring and familiar. Assuming the relationship angle aside, Tanisha probably sees someone she can count on in Armaan - a person she can count on even if he treats her badly. She probably knows he is her only unshakeable support while the rest oscillate between groups. So, this behaviour can be attributed to unnatural conditions and a need for support to win the game. Very good reasons.

NOTE THIS. A DIFFERENT TAKE ON TANISHA'S MINDSET

Originally posted by: poorvab

i feel he can be the perfect gentleman and feed people's egos according to his needs. he can say all the good things to them and get inside their comfort zone and bring them to do what he wants! there r a lot of people like him !

Oh yes, like how he used to behave with Tani earlier. "Tanisha ji, you are.my only one in the house." Yep. This point is getting stronger.

Originally posted by: arcoiris

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<font size="3"><font face="Calibri">Tanisha does have submissive personality with poor self-esteem and may be suffering from emotional masochism.But she doesn't have a single symptom of BPD.</font></font>

<font size="3"><font face="Calibri">Borderline Personality disorder is characterized by an unstable affect, mood swings, marked impulsivity, recurrent suicidal ideation, identity disorder and inappropriate anger. Patient in stress condition may turn psychotic with main defense mechanism of splitting.PS: I am done with my med school 😳</font></font>

Lol, we have two med school students here 😆 This definition seems quite scary and doesn't fit so well. Is there another term for what Tanisha has? Or is it just the personality Tanisha has for reasons best known?

Originally posted by: poorvab

haha thank you thank you🤗

TBH, ive seen girls like tanisha in my life, their boyfriends broke up with them, some even cheated on them and after getting over the inital anger, they went to begging the guy to get back with them. the guy treated them like crap, by seeing other girls behind their back and they knew all about it and yet couldnt imagine their life without him and begging him to come back. i absolutely fail to see the need of a guy in your life who treats u like a pice of shit. the guy used to threatn my friend that he'll break up with her if she ever fought witt him and she used to cry and apologize without any fault!

you will get a 100 better guys in your life who respect you but still these giirkls run after such guys! i myself dont know the exact reason and my friend just says i cant live without him and thats reason enough for her but i dont understand this reason! and all these r just my guesses on their thinking!

another point here is that these kindof guys always go to extremes. their good behavior is so wonderful that girls think he's been so nice to me in the past i can ignore a little bad behavior!

similar to all the "maine ye meri tanisha ke lie kia"

Damn it. Your example reminded me of me four years back. I was going through a breakup when this guy gave me lots of attention and care and I fell hard for all the good things cuz he was extremely nice. Then few months later, he started going psychotic and I ignored it thinking he is nice na otherwise and all. Made excuses till he broke up and I ended up begging him to come back ONCE. The moment those words left my lips, I was stunned at what level I had fallen to for this guy. That was like a bucket of ice water. Needless to say, I emerged a stronger person and never tolerate rubbish from any man anymore. In fact, this dude begged me to call him but I never bothered 😆 So by personal experience, I am getting her a little. However, I am a person who can't stand abuse. The dude was psychotic but not physically or mentally. So its not similar to what Armaan is.

Originally posted by: _innocent_

There are two possibilities!

Either she is extremely insecure and hence the need for her to have someone as horrible as Armaan in her life and despite him mistreating her, she construes it as love

OR

She is just pretending as she was contracted to do just that!

Take your pick😆😆

Very valid, dear. Very very valid 😃

Originally posted by: yellowflower

<div>Zxion ji, when Tanisha started taking sides of Arman then she was not isolated in the house. Shilpa Saklani was her close friend then. Infact she started getting vindictive the first time about Arman ji ka breakfast and deliberately alienated herself from everyone.

I am afraid I stopped watching BB in between and missed Tanisha's eventful transition period 😆

So, can zxion answer this if he remembers this happening?

Do Tanisha's facial contortions bother anyone ? She makes this really fake looking expression with squinted eyes when Salman takes her side and then she is giving all these sarcastic expressions when Gauhar / Kushal get bashed.