The way these guys behave when it comes to missing family - Page 3

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Posted: 11 years ago
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I know that people are naturally inclined to miss loved ones but adults are supposed to be able to control their emotions in a dignified manner. I alongside many others on this forum have had the experience of staying away from loved ones at some point in our lives and even though you do be upset their is always an element of control which adults have as we evolve to adapt to new situations but sometimes the antics in the house seem slightly exaggerated.
Also some people stating that it is different for students who are away but maintain communications via other means, students are away for 3-7 years these people are in their for 70 days. With Kamya I realise she is going through a difficult phase due to her divorce and everything but some of the other waterfalls have been just exaggerated.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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it's not just about living for 3 months... it's about staying with strangers who are fake all the time.. living in constant bitching, bickering, planning and plotting.. in this case you need someone whom you are close to like your family.. for anyone it is very difficult you know.. i can't even live for even a week with people like them... n with no contact with my parents is just impossible for me..
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Exacly what i was thinking..
How gauhar as crying that day was like someone past away or something.
Everybody in that house made a choice to come and live in big boss, they know that they will be inside the house max. 3 months.
And if there would be really a big problem outside big boss would tell them or send them home.
I understand very good you miss your family i could also not live without them but sooo much drama..
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Posted: 11 years ago
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In a boarding your a child.. You have ur computers and phones to contact people.. You are not completely outta touch from the outside world not knowing how your family is at all.. No contact.. N as a kid you don't have responsibilities..

Become a mother like kamya and you'll know how much the well being of a child matters to the mother.. Ask your mother how she would've been worried about u while u were away..
When your grown up u can't just let go of everything n live like there is no tomorrow.. Some people are attached to their families n I feel that's absolutely fine.. Showing your emotions is not a sign of weakness..
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Posted: 11 years ago
#25

Originally posted by: Lenient

I cant say anything abt them, but i cant stay away frm my parents even for a day, nd nor can my parents .

Even I went for a week of holiday at my grandparets home I wwnt to stay for 1month and ticket was booked for that but 1week hua nahi I started crying and even my dad was missing me so so much that I returned.
And I am a grown up girl 😆
So I can undrstand their haalaat😊
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: kiran307

In a boarding your a child.. You have ur computers and phones to contact people.. You are not completely outta touch from the outside world not knowing how your family is at all.. No contact.. N as a kid you don't have responsibilities..

Become a mother like kamya and you'll know how much the well being of a child matters to the mother.. Ask your mother how she would've been worried about u while u were away..
When your grown up u can't just let go of everything n live like there is no tomorrow.. Some people are attached to their families n I feel that's absolutely fine.. Showing your emotions is not a sign of weakness..

👍🏼👏 Totally forgot these points When we are out if we have mood swings or mood is off we can divert ourself by talking to loved one or computer, mobile stuffs but they don't have any
And Its a shame how people think Kamya is using her daughter for gaining sympathy
Excuse me mothers can never use their children Never Ever😡 Even though Kamya is not my favourite but still a Mother is a Mother to her children😊
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Posted: 11 years ago
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School and BB are different things. Atleast you can talk to your parents over phone when you are in school.

Also I don't like how the forum members diss Kamya every time she cries for her baby. It's perceived as a way of hogging footage. Only a mother can understand what it feels to be away from her little kid. Kamya can be evil, cunning whatever! But I think we should respect her feelings for her kid.

There are many mothers on this board and I would like to know wouldn't they behave like Kamya if they were detached from their child for more than two months.

I am 19 and still my mothers cries over phone for me if I go out of town for a few days. I can totally understand how does she feel leaving alone her only little girl for so many days. On top of that she's recently divorced.

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Posted: 11 years ago
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I think what some people don't realise is that these people are in the house on their own accord, it was their choice to enter the house and ar going to be rewarded handsomely for it.
They are in their for just over two months and they are fully grown adults. They need to realise that their are some people in the world who are in far less fortunate situations than them, learn from the experience. Obviously their are going to be moments of weakness where emotions take over but some of the reactions just seem exaggerated.
When people are away studying they leave for years not just 2 months therefore people stating it is easier to be away while studying as you have some form of communication is just annoying.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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These people don't get to talk to their families also! In boarding school you have phone calls once a week atleast.
I can't stay without my parents for a week also
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Well said even I stayed in hostel for years. Of course everyone missed their family but never seen a drama like this 😕 May be because there were no cameras over our head 😉
Edited by shalinii173 - 11 years ago

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