This is why Asif doesnt stand up for himself - Page 8

Originally posted by: Zinnia.TaaRey

The guys has ZERO support in the house - he is in a way isolated. What the frack is the problem with EACH and Every person in that place? Why are they so up themselves?

Seriously, I am hoping for Salman Khan to take up this point. If he can do it for Elli, then he should do it for Asif too.

Badtameez, besharm, behayaa gharwale 😡

Originally posted by: napster

If Asif was a beautiful girl, ofcourse Salman would stand for him.

Originally posted by: silverbug

you wanna see racism in india then look at how dalits are treated. look at how random black people are rounded up in fake drug peddling cases by indian police. look at how north east indians are ridiculed about their looks. look at how biharis are mistreated, considered subhuman, beaten up and even killed in different parts of india. hatred against upites and biharis is so legitimized in india that you even hear bollywood people making discriminatory comments about them like sonu nigam did recently. look at how the indian army treats kashmiris. what you said about indian love for fairness creams. all these things can pass for REAL racism and these are far BIGGER issues than what goes on in a third rate show like BB

however asif being ridiculed because he is a dick at times to other housemates is NOT sufficient proof to me that it is racism. has he been called a racial epithet ? has anyone said anything about bangladeshis ? i dont even know for sure if people are actually laughing at his hindi or simply annoyed with him due to what goes on in the house. let us assume for a second that they are laughing at his hindi, how is that any different from people laughing at hindi of other states ?

Originally posted by: Neha_S

I have read this so many times that its embedded in my brain. I think the answer was present in today's episode. Asif goes to accuse the jahannumwasis about their inhuman treatment and what happens?

Catcalls, Shilpa's hysterical laughter, Kammo-Pratyusha's giggling, humiliating attitude by Kushal,Andy,Sangram and Apurva(😲) and sneering by Gauhar. This guy already suffers from language barrier, has no one(absolutely no one) to support him and even before he really begins to speak people start catcalling.

Can we really expect him to speak up? What happens after speaking up? A greater degree of bullying and humiliation...

I was rooting for Gauhar this last week, the week before for Tanisha, now I am absolutely disgusted by both. This week Gauhar showed what a bully she was... She was the captain and she let Asif be abused and bullied with little regard of him. I am so sick of this.

Originally posted by: silverbug

you wanna see racism in india then look at how dalits are treated. look at how random black people are rounded up in fake drug peddling cases by indian police. look at how north east indians are ridiculed about their looks. look at how biharis are mistreated, considered subhuman, beaten up and even killed in different parts of india. hatred against upites and biharis is so legitimized in india that you even hear bollywood people making discriminatory comments about them like sonu nigam did recently. look at how the indian army treats kashmiris. what you said about indian love for fairness creams. all these things can pass for REAL racism and these are far BIGGER issues than what goes on in a third rate show like BB

however asif being ridiculed because he is a dick at times to other housemates is NOT sufficient proof to me that it is racism. has he been called a racial epithet ? has anyone said anything about bangladeshis ? i dont even know for sure if people are actually laughing at his hindi or simply annoyed with him due to what goes on in the house. let us assume for a second that they are laughing at his hindi, how is that any different from people laughing at hindi of other states ?

Originally posted by: mahiya

@BOLD.. Disagree With Your Opinion...👎🏼

Originally posted by: Neha_S

Really? Then there is something wrong with my dictionary😆

Sure. Atleast in BB house it means that. More over, You don't need to check dictionary, you need to check the premise/context of speaking out. Here your complain is about the "Teasing" "Laughing" "Joking" by the hell people during the debriefing of the game they just ended. So Asif was only doing his part of the debriefing. Where was he speaking out against those behaviors? I hope you get that now.

But anyway- assuming that taking a stand against bullying is speaking out, how do you expect him to take a stand when people aggressively bullied him when he started speaking today about yesterday's torture. Bullying victims are usually scared of speaking up because it leads more unwanted attention and speaking up against the perpetuators only if there is an authority figure to control the bullies-which is absent here. He lives among these people.

Yes, did he even for once give them a "shut up" call at any stage, for not behaving? Gauhar can't protect his dignity. Until he protects it none can. He could have just walked out if they didn't stop it... I mean there are thousands way of making people serious when you speak. Did he try even anything for once? So why do you think people would stop?