The reason Gauahar didn't take part:Mod note pg12 - Page 2

Originally posted by: XOXOgossipgirl

I have seen a number of topics on this forum about as to why Gauahar didn't take part in the Pooja. I don't want to add to this, but I couldn't help myself.

People are just concentrating on the part where she did not take part. Did anyone see the part before that? The Jahannum people wanted to touch the frame of Durga Ma to take blessings. Gauahar told Pratyusha to give them the frame after the Pooja was performed. The reason for that, I am quite sure is the fact that it is "that time of the month" for her. She is a smart girl. I don't think religion would be an issue on National TV to not take part in a Pooja. Whereas, "that time of the month" is a perfectly valid reason. Girls do not touch anything related to God or worship during that time generally, atleast here in India. And the minute she told Pratyusha to give them the frame, that is the first thing that came to my head. I mean come on guys! She is a modern girl. No disrespect to her religion, but I don't think being of a different religion was the reason she stayed away.

If someone said that she didn't take part as a sign of support to Kushal, I would have still thought it to be valid and justified. But not this. However, I personally strongly feel that the reason I am assuming is the actual one. Hopefully I am right.

I don't know why I am going around posting this in her support since I am not her lawyer, but this is just a sign of support on my behalf to her. To send her good vibes. That's it. She won't even know that she has supporters here on this forum defending her, but this is my bit for the contestant I am rooting for with all my heart. :)

-Rhea

Originally posted by: lifelessons

Well it doesn't matter to me one way or other...i have been to religious ceremonies with my Muslim friends and they have been to gurudwara with me. My point is it depends on the individual, It's her choice. But about the time of the month that has passed couple weeks ago as colors showed her complaining to kushal abt pain during those days.

P.s. I don't think we should make her not being in puja a big deal like I said her choice.

Originally posted by: Dexterkilaila

Ahhh when in doubt, blame it on Aunt Flow. Every girls' weapon. iLikes! 😎

Originally posted by: MithiBani

I agree. Religion is personal. Let her be.

But I still have a question. I've been reading this quite a few times...some members said they were proud of Gau for doing that. I wanna know why. WHat's there to be proud about? Honestly want to know coz I'm curious!! 😆

Originally posted by: XOXOgossipgirl

I have seen a number of topics on this forum about as to why Gauahar didn't take part in the Pooja. I don't want to add to this, but I couldn't help myself.

People are just concentrating on the part where she did not take part. Did anyone see the part before that? The Jahannum people wanted to touch the frame of Durga Ma to take blessings. Gauahar told Pratyusha to give them the frame after the Pooja was performed. The reason for that, I am quite sure is the fact that it is "that time of the month" for her. She is a smart girl. I don't think religion would be an issue on National TV to not take part in a Pooja. Whereas, "that time of the month" is a perfectly valid reason. Girls do not touch anything related to God or worship during that time generally, atleast here in India. And the minute she told Pratyusha to give them the frame, that is the first thing that came to my head. I mean come on guys! She is a modern girl. No disrespect to her religion, but I don't think being of a different religion was the reason she stayed away.

If someone said that she didn't take part as a sign of support to Kushal, I would have still thought it to be valid and justified. But not this. However, I personally strongly feel that the reason I am assuming is the actual one. Hopefully I am right.

I don't know why I am going around posting this in her support since I am not her lawyer, but this is just a sign of support on my behalf to her. To send her good vibes. That's it. She won't even know that she has supporters here on this forum defending her, but this is my bit for the contestant I am rooting for with all my heart. :)

-Rhea

Originally posted by: -MonChreri-

what's there not to be proud about? she dressed up and participated in another religion's ceremony without offending her own. what's there to make a issue about?

Originally posted by: -MonChreri-

I read your post correctly, and I meant why isn't something so simple coming clear to you..

I'm not a Gauher fan, but i can assume what's making "those" people proud, being the way Gauher behaves she doesn't look like an ideal muslim and i'm sure you/ or anyone might agree.. but by not performing the rituals she showed us that she isn't that ignorant of Islam or respects her religion above all, because any person would know that performing worshiping rituals for another god, regardless of how it is done would simply beat the purpose of their own religion, in this case Islam for Gauher. It's that simple. Hope you get it now.