Why targetting Pratyusha so much? *DT Note - pg 29*

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Naureen

@naureenfizz

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Posted: 11 years ago

#111

Personally I am not targetting Pratyusha but I am against that she supported Armaan who was actually harassing a girl.. Flirting is a different thing and sexual harassment is a different thing..

PS I dont know how will you u guys react when a man said kapde faad doon gaa to pratyusha.. Tell me honestly can you feel and said the same thing if this will happened to pratyusha

She said you dont have right to say thappad maaroon gee because woh tum se baray hain.. W*F.. He is an elder that doesn't mean that he can harass any young girl

Edited by -naureen786- - 11 years ago

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Picasso9

@Picasso9

Dazzler

Posted: 11 years ago

#112

Originally posted by: mansimat
Well I am a Prats fan, a big one.
But I will say Prayusha was utterly, completely wrong in this thing.
My respect for her has gone down. I am sorry to day, there is no defending what she did.

- When she talked to Salman, she admitted that she would have slapped someone had this happened to her. But Still said I don't support Ellie, saying Ellie was somehow still wrong. This was very conflicting n hypocritical of her. I can't support her in this.

- She looked Elli up n down. The way she did it was disgusting. No woman is supposed to joke with another woman like that, no matter the woman is smiling or now. I can not support her in this.

- Lastly, Ellie came to her, crying. Ellie didn't go to the rest of the housemates crying. This is very important. If some sweet woman comes crying to you, you instead of defending the right person, you support the wrong person for politics. This is not done. This was a test of character for her, which she failed for me. She uttered words like "you shouldn't have said thappad maaro to an elderly person" Yes that disgusted me, in spite of being a BIG Prats fan.

N Prats take offence on much little, smaller things. For herself. Ratan didn't even mention her name, but she had a tussle. On what basis she is to say that Ellie over reacted.

Yes I quit BV after she left, but I can't condone this in my right senses. I am not blind.

Please Prat fans, she can do mistakes, she is no goddess, only human like all of us. Let us not defend wrong things for celebrities.

Bravo! Mansimat. Bravo!

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Kezia

@MagixX

Rocker

Posted: 11 years ago

#113

First it was Armaan that people were defending, and now it's Pratyusha. I find both of them equally guilty. I think Pratyusha is a kind of girl who'd do anything to be in the good books of whom she considers has a strong hand, and might help her win. Okay, good game. But she is one cuckoo in the head, doesn't have good judgmental skills, and comes out looking like a fool out of all this. I could've managed a fool, but what she did here was plain disgusting. Everything Armaan said screamed of sexual assault/harassment/abuse, and there she is, egging him on as if Armaan was asking Ellie about the weather in London.

And i really feel sorry for Ellie, everyone thinks of her as a soft target. The other day someone called her a fool in Hindi, and then said they were calling her intelligent. That might have been funny, but seriously, it's her who is the b*tt of some stupid jokes. What is a person in her position supposed to do, when she knows that she has to live with these guys for heaven knows how long, and is being made fun of almost everyday because of the lack of the command over the language? She'd obviously feel a little weak. And while all of us who are asking for Ellie to be strong are not Wonderwomen ourselves. There are people who feel a little intimidated by @$$***** like Armaan (+ sidekick) out there. That doesn't give us a right to say that people can make fun of such people in anyway.

And as for Pratyusha intervening, no one asked her to intervene. All we wanted her was to shut her mouth, and NOT promote sexual harassment like the way she was doing.

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Picasso9

@Picasso9

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Posted: 11 years ago

#114

Originally posted by: return_to_hades

One thing I wanted to clarify is that the issue isn't about targeting Pratyusha' or any person in particular. The matter on hand is the moral debate on sexual harassment. I hope that most people would hold any woman who behaved that way to be wrong and accountable for victim blaming'. If it is targeting simply because it is Pratyusha', then it is wrong. I also hope that fans also are not defending simply because that is what fans do. At least everyone should step out of the Pratyusha' mindset and really ethically scrutinize the issue of where we draw lines in social behavior.

Exactly RTH.

It's not about the individual. It's about the crime. Yes I said crime because right now, especially in India, Eve Teasing is a huge problem. When the Delhi case news was at its peaks I read tons of blogs etc outlining how girls are groped and heckled every day. It's rare to find one who hasn't been.

I watch Savdhaan India a lot and it was shocking to me. I want to say this too, for every man that behaved horrendously with a woman there was also MOST of the time another man that helped her. So it's not a man bashing session either. In case it is twisted from Pratyusha bashing to man bashing to detract from the main issue at hand.

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Kezia

@MagixX

Rocker

Posted: 11 years ago

#115

And honestly, given the state of things in India regarding sexual abuse, what message does this certain episode send to the public? That it's totally okay. And that some girls enjoy when some guys harass a girl sexually? The fact that Armaan got away scott-free with the whole thing disgusts me even more! BB should've edited this whole thing out of the episode. But well, we only care about the TRPs, and not the issues some people face in the real world. For all we know, there might be some real psychos watching this stuff on television.

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anshul

@milindrose

Sparkler

Posted: 11 years ago

#116

i take it as game show and bashing pratyusha is totally wrong on all those feel she was wrong ,,but

i say how many mistakes we make daily n do such nonsense when we are in our frnd circle in college and parties ?

so why to bash n justify she was wrong ,,, in ever felt she was wrong both elli n arman had crossed limits not pratyusha so she just tried to cool off as iit was difficult to cool arman so she cooled elli ,,ok it happens 😛

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Kezia

@MagixX

Rocker

Posted: 11 years ago

#117

In a game show, that is being put out there for millions to watch, there are some things you do, and some you don't. THIS was on top of the list of DON'Ts! It was just vile and uncivilized.

And even in my private life, I might not be the most righteous person, but I DO NOT condone any sort of sexual abuse. That's a big NO-NO! To anyone. Be it Pratyusha, or ANYONE!

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return_to_hades

@return_to_hades

Stunner

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Posted: 11 years ago

#118

Originally posted by: milindrose
i take it as game show and bashing pratyusha is totally wrong on all those feel she was wrong ,,but

i say how many mistakes we make daily n do such nonsense when we are in our frnd circle in college and parties ?

so why to bash n justify she was wrong ,,, in ever felt she was wrong both elli n arman had crossed limits not pratyusha so she just tried to cool off as iit was difficult to cool arman so she cooled elli ,,ok it happens 😛

If someone screws up something big time and you tell them they did "wrong" that is bashing? 😕

We get it! People make mistakes. No human is infallible. But how will they learn from mistakes if everyone says "don't worry, you're just fine. You did everything right".

Pratyusha made a big mistake in handling the situation. People are just pointing out that she was wrong and that it was quite a severe mistake. Why equate it to bashing. 🤔

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Bazigar

@Bazigar

Voyager

Posted: 11 years ago

#119

👏 100% agree with you , i learned a lot of things from this incident

Originally posted by: milindrose
i take it as game show and bashing pratyusha is totally wrong on all those feel she was wrong ,,but

100% percent agree this is just a game show albeit they are playing their real life character but i completely agree with you whenever we will witness any sexual harassment we will just say these are fun and joke , so we will suggest the victim to take it easy .

i say how many mistakes we make daily n do such nonsense when we are in our frnd circle in college and parties ?

Certainly we do lots of mistake and thanks for the approval , now we can say aise hota hai just move on and witness for the next mistake oh sorry fun. Certainly we will suggest vicitm arre yeh toh kuch bhi nahi feel fortunate that you could have face much worse. Indeed you are lucky girl.

so why to bash n justify she was wrong ,,, in ever felt she was wrong both elli n arman had crossed limits not pratyusha so she just tried to cool off as iit was difficult to cool arman so she cooled elli ,,ok it happens 😛

Brilliantly said why we should criticise behavior of her that too supporting. encouraging a person to carry on the cruel crass behavior , by the way i completely agree with you both perpetrator and victim are always wrong , after all, : ladkiyan aag hoti hai agar jaade jalenge to ruie (ladeke ) bhi jalege , infact that ellie provide the equal fuel to invite our idol Amaan for more and more sexual harassment ohh sorry fun, jokes. 😆 Glad that this logic also well explained in the thread initiators long argument .👍🏼

I was ogling to witness more fun but sadly our savior Pratusha cooled her, hope we will witness these type of fun everyday 😳

Note to Moderator : please close this thread , it does not meet the standard and compliance of our great IF to discuss such issues . By the way how can people discuss such deep issues here and scrutinize that , no never. why these OTT discussion 😡 lets we will discuss weather contestant have dinner or not. Where is our savior moderator .

Edited by ramjaane - 11 years ago

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anshul

@milindrose

Sparkler

Posted: 11 years ago

#120

such ppl who are coming here to bash n prove us wrong i guess are not saints or preachers who have never done any mistake ,,,really how they have jumped here to prove they are real innocent ppl who never do such things but in today's time we all do such mistakes but do we confess we do it ,,,moderators should be for such ppl in real life also 😡

then they will stop poking fingers on others 😕