Why targetting Pratyusha so much? *DT Note - pg 29* - Page 11

Originally posted by: Blukitten

@Jhanvi wen did we say tht she is 100% correct.

She is immature and partially wrong in defending arman...This proves one thing tht she is loyal to ppl who are close to her...😉

Anyways the point is...when P was consoling Eli she clearly said Arman did cross the line..Infact she was trying to pacify hyper arman who had started shouting..and colors editted out the rest. I

Her point was eli shld not hav said thappad marungi immediately...lets assume tht Eli didnt react and confronted arman calmly and he wld have backed off.Then all this drama in BB wld not have happened 😆

Now for lets check her out comment...come on thts nothing we do such masti among frns all the time...thts not teasing.😕

I have prob with the bashing which P is getting for such a trivial issues...as if she was instigating arman to rape Eli.

No one is saying a word to sangram who keeps making fun of Eli in hindi. and says double meaning things... Thts actually worse poor thing dosent even know tht he is making fun of her.

Originally posted by: ..Eclipse..

Theres something called comfort level...of course no one will tolerate such comment frm a random guy but in Eli and arman's case they were frns n used to flirting with each other.Even Kamya said tht eli and arman keep playing such pranks on each other tht means Eli was comfortable with arman's flirting...When ur frns cross the line first things has to sorted amicably...tht was the whole point...had pratz supported a random guy or someone who is not close to eli is wld hav said she was wrong but not here...she is partially wrong but not 100%

Wow you people conveniently ignoring the fact that Pratyusha herself said that she will NOT TOLERATE such comments from any guy! But at the same time she finds Elli wrong !!
Any comments on her hypocrisy?? 😆

Edited by Blukitten - 11 years ago

Originally posted by: Blukitten

Theres something called comfort level...of course no one will tolerate such comment frm a random guy but in Eli and arman's case they were frns n used to flirting with each other.Even Kamya said tht eli and arman keep playing such pranks on each other tht means Eli was comfortable with arman's flirting...When ur frns cross the line first things has to sorted amicably...tht was the whole point...had pratz supported a random guy or someone who is not close to eli is wld hav said she was wrong but not here...she is partially wrong but not 100%

Originally posted by: Serviana

Ooohhh now we got to the point. You dont give a damn about Eli or Arman or protecting women...😆

Muks, Blukitten and Gina please stop discussing with Tanandis fans. Now we know where all the hatred is comming from...

They will say now they dont even know who is she ...😉

Originally posted by: Malika

Okay before you throw chappals and tomatoes on me pls let me make my stand clear. It has only been a week and this forum has totally been against Pratyusha.I u/stand ppl have their respective views and I respect them.I even admit she has been wrong at some places.Whether those were intentional or just stupid mistakes I don't know.But still I doubt she has done anything so wrong to be bashed so much and be called disgusting cheap etc etc.

I wont say anything about the other three issues coz I never thought she was wrong there.When Pratyusha said that one of her reasons of her confidence is her fans support Gauhar mocked her by hiding a smile.She was ought to get miffed.Next the Andy issue. Just because some people think that Satya Sai baba is fraud or something doesnt mean making fun of her belief was right.Andy was wrong there and so he rightly apologized and Pratyusha took it in a very positive way.

Now coming to the issue of Elli, I dont say I support Armaan in any way but blaming Pratyusha as cheap and disgusting bcoz she didnt stop Armaan is beyond my understanding.When the chat between the three started everything was friendly and in a funny tone. Now for Pratyusha she knows Elli and Armaan equally...that is since 7 days.What all she saw was that Elli was being all smiley. Now the point is that these celebrities are not like us common girls.For them talking abt "physical" stuff in a funny tone is not a big deal.I am sure Pratyusha does it with her friends and I would die laughing if you would say Elli doesn't do with her friends.

I request ppl to go and once check the promo of Elli evram's first movie and see the way a "girl" has been portrayed in the movie.And Elli has happily done that. Its strange Elli doesnt has any problem in "women" being potrayed as objects of sex but she has issue here. Doesn't that sound like double standards?

Elli avram just in the promo of her movie has wore bikini, and done things which we as audiences term as to be done by "B grade actresses".And if you check a video of her in delhi here she performed live on stage.Ppl have tagged that video as "po*n".And mind you it was a live performance.

The point I want to make is that if Elli has the audacity to do such stuff on TV why cant the girl defend herself.If she can have the guts to wear an "almost bikini" dress in a live performance then why cant she have the guts to say "shut up" to armaan.Why is pratyusha expected to intervene when she has a fair idea that the girl in context has all the ability to defend herself in case she feels offended. Thats what Pratyusha said to Salman."If Elli had a problem she shud have drawn a line herself"

Last but not the least even Kamya supported the view that Elli over-reacted but ppl dont call Kamya as "cheap" "disgusting".Double standards ehh...? Its strange we are talking of respecting women and we are saying same stuff for another woman without knowing the context in which she thinks that "elli over-reacted" I am sorry but I dont support the view.

Concludingly, Pratyusha could have done much.She could have picked a fight with Armaan.Could have asked him to shut up. But one fine day probably Armaan and Elli wud have hugged and made up and Elli wont any longer be that offended and Pratyusha would have to bear the brunt...well why shud she be so stupid?Afterall its a game!

One thing I wanted to clarify is that the issue isn't about targeting Pratyusha' or any person in particular. The matter on hand is the moral debate on sexual harassment. I hope that most people would hold any woman who behaved that way to be wrong and accountable for victim blaming'. If it is targeting simply because it is Pratyusha', then it is wrong. I also hope that fans also are not defending simply because that is what fans do. At least everyone should step out of the Pratyusha' mindset and really ethically scrutinize the issue of where we draw lines in social behavior.

Originally posted by: Malika

Gosh why do ppl have to drag Toral everywhere...pls spare us the horror! And then they say they only care abt characters and not actors...uff double standards at their heights!!

Anyway Toral was never abused with words like bitch and disgusting.She was criticized for her bad potrayal of Anandi.Calling someone with wooden or plastic expressions or having a monotonous speech isnt abusing.

The purpose of this post is just that ppl have very early made an opinion about Pratyusha.Pls let both Elli and P's actual personality come out.Tomorow u might see Elli and Armaan being all friendly and smiley with each other again.So dont judge so quickly.Its just been a week.