Originally posted by: Shrumunj
Rishabh called her ungrateful cos she doesn't want people to fight on her behalf or take stands for her.
She only wants them to support her when she asks for it !
U can't make friends n ask them to stand for u at ur convenience.
I believe she said that in response to Gizelle's allegation that her nomination was a result of her closeness with Mandy. If I recall correctly, Gizelle (by her own admission) went to befriend Mandy - the latter too has been good to her - helped her out with her leg, consoled her when she was upset, and calmly asked her not to discuss her outside personal matters in the house, as opposed to making an issue. Then if one is blamed for being the cause of nomination, that is both unfair and hurtful. Mandy was wrong in accusing Gizelle of groupism, but it seems to be ignored that Gizelle was equally wrong and unfair, which provoked the response.
As for 'ungrateful', this does not make sense in the Mandy-Gizelle context. Gizelle has not taken any stands for Mandy - the only one to do so in the Suyaash fiasco was Rishabh. Gizelle has been good to Mandy, and vice versa. But Gizelle has also made her share of hurtful comments to Mandy. So, is Mandy to be grateful simply because someone has done her the favor of being friends with her?
Regarding Rish - I don't believe Mandy and him had any direct issues with each other yesterday - he appeared to side Gizelle, even on the nomination blame. I don't enjoy Rish's penchant for teaching lessons - if you saw your friend stealing chocolates, why not go talk to them? Why teach your 'friend' a lesson? And then when she's upset, say let her cry? I like Rish, but if you truly care, this was not the way to go about it.
Mandy needs to be nicer in the way she speaks to her friends - she is a difficult person to be friends with, no doubt. But for her friends, whether it's Rish, Roch or Gizelle, to say she is ungrateful everytime she has a contrary opinion or fights with you, is unfair. Particularly when you've just accused her for your nomination.