Gautam had the right reasons but the wrong approach today

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Posted: 10 years ago
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As you all know my like or dislike about a contestant goes on their overall behavior from the episode. I do not find Ali's comments in good taste neither Pritams blatant hypocrisy and instigation behind the scenes. However that being said I do not support Gautam because now having watch the episode I feel that he did went overboard and got carried away. First of all his reaction was not instant, he took a good 10 minutes before he quit.
Usually when somebody is genuinely upset the reaction is more instant. Also I do not liked the fact that he called Sambhavna and others a liar when she did told Ali off even Karishma did the same. Maybe he had not seen it, or maybe he was way too worked up but it wasn't right for him to start accusing those who did came to his aid, this is not how he should have thanked them. He also came across a bit indifferent with his meltdown with all that screaming and crying. If he had composed himself and cried within reason it would have made much more sense.

The fact of the matter is Gautam needs to stop expecting things from others. He is here in a game, not to make relations. I get he is emotional and he looks up to others but this is the wrong approach, nobody owes him anything. And even if they do, he pushes them away by wrongly accusing them of not coming to his hardship. For him to go off on all of them is a bit unwise. This only gives further ammunition to the likes of Pritam and Ali who knows how to push his buttons and easily work him up.
Gautam needs to rise above all this and face his opponents head on. He does have the champion qualities however crying and screaming like somebody has died is not going to win him any battles. If he is smart, he will snap out of it and out wit his opponent before they get the best out of him.

I still support Gautam, I do not mind if he wins, but I wont overlook that he took a wrong approach in venting out his frustrations in a forced manner and going against his own friends who did stepped up for him. You may disagree with all of the above, but if you set aside your passions for a minute then you will understand that somewhere along the lines I'm partly correct. He did have genuine reasons to be upset about but he went the wrong way in his approach.

Flamesuit on. Go on I can take a punch.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Gusse me hamesha insaan galti karta hai
Gautam was wrong wen he shouted at others for not supporting him
But i give him benefit of doubt coz he was hurt & tired (26 hours standing)
He apologized to all after that coz he realized he overreacted
But sambhavna was genuinely hurt and i really felt sad for her
She was the first one who raised voice against ali & then karishma also told ali not to say such things
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Posted: 10 years ago
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What he did is wrong,period. No wonder, Sam and Rahul were upset at being shouted by him. He has this habit of pushing his friends away frm him, by expecting too much frm everyone. My respect for dimpy increased so much after this. Though Gauti never supported her during her fights, today she said Ali was wrong and will stand by Gauti in this matter.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: melodrama

Gusse me hamesha insaan galti karta hai
Gautam was wrong wen he shouted at others for not supporting him
But i give him benefit of doubt coz he was hurt & tired (26 hours standing)
He apologized to all after that coz he realized he overreacted
But sambhavna was genuinely hurt and i really felt sad for her
She was the first one who raised voice against ali & then karishma also told ali not to say such things


Exactly. Galat aadmi pe bill phardiya. He had every reason to be upset at Ali, he could have taken him down with his words but he let him get under his skin and had such an epic meltdown. Im not even sure why he is expecting anything from Pritam or Ali at this point. He knows they do not like him and he also knows Upen has his own agendas against him. By losing it in such way, screaming and lunging and reacting that way only adds to Ali and Pritams enjoyment, they get to have the last laugh and in the process he ended up hurting the wrong people who stood up for him.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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I thought that you would still support Gautam for his behavior...no matter what
Glad that you noticed both sides of the coin,,,,, 😊
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: Equine

What he did is wrong,period. No wonder, Sam and Rahul were upset at being shouted by him. He has this habit of pushing his friends away frm him, by expecting too much frm everyone. My respect for dimpy increased so much after this. Though Gauti never supported her during her fights, today she said Ali was wrong and will stand by Gauti in this matter.


Thats what I say he should had been friends with dimpy. When gg and dimpy were friends, she always supported gg. She is a must better friend than pritam. Gautam for once should stop expecting so much from hm's. This season just needs to end. So sick of watching upen and ali.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: Equine

What he did is wrong,period. No wonder, Sam and Rahul were upset at being shouted by him. He has this habit of pushing his friends away frm him, by expecting too much frm everyone. My respect for dimpy increased so much after this. Though Gauti never supported her during her fights, today she said Ali was wrong and will stand by Gauti in this matter.


Yes huge respect for Dimpy, Rahul and Sambhavna. They did not mince their words in their vehement condemnation of Ali. These people get the bad reps when the real smooth criminals are Upen Patel and Ali and to some extent Pritam for firing on their shoulders and watching the fire works from a distance. First of all you never let your enemies get the best out of you. Even if you do there is a solemn hurt and cry but here he behaved like somebody had died for real. Like he is young and he has a full life ahead, this is just the start there are many more hurdles in life. He needs to maintain composure and face adversity that is the sweetest revenge of all.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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I partially agree with you.
Gautam was wrong in shouting on his friends.He should have handled it calmly.However,I think after being up for 30 odd hours he just couldn't control.He vented out all at once.Plus he really didn't have any support.Even when playing a prank,even his own teammates supported Pritam;Upen,the sanchalak also was a part of it.Then later no one provoked Pritam but everyone wnt after Gautam so I feel it was more of a realization than anything!He is alone on the house and that is what might have hurt him.

As far as his reaction is concerned I think it was justified.It wasn't instant,yes.But I think he realized that it could get worse and all this isn't worth it.Self respect should come before anything and that's why he left the task.
Simple as that!
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Yep. But at the end of the day he needs to know that this game is going to test your mental and physical barriers and break you. It wasnt just him who was tired or cranky that day. Besides nobody really needs to stand up for anybody. It was noble that they did came to his aid and supported him but he is wrong to even expect. What Ali did cannot be excused he was very crass and vile in hurling out personal remarks and unfounded allegations. But Gautam has the winner qualities he should have been able to handle him with ease, going to the bathroom aur dhade mar mar ke rona and then start screaming on your friends is him losing it big time.

Originally posted by: -CmPunk123-

I partially agree with you.

Gautam was wrong in shouting on his friends.He should have handled it calmly.However,I think after being up for 30 odd hours he just couldn't control.He vented out all at once.Plus he really didn't have any support.Even when playing a prank,even his own teammates supported Pritam;Upen,the sanchalak also was a part of it.Then later no one provoked Pritam but everyone wnt after Gautam so I feel it was more of a realization than anything!He is alone on the house and that is what might have hurt him.

As far as his reaction is concerned I think it was justified.It wasn't instant,yes.But I think he realized that it could get worse and all this isn't worth it.Self respect should come before anything and that's why he left the task.
Simple as that!

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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: diasingh2


I thought that you would still support Gautam for his behavior...no matter what
Glad that you noticed both sides of the coin,,,,, 😊


My support for him remains strong and true, however I would not overlook something where he went wrong. I do the same with my real life best friends. Take them to corner and tell them why I disagree with them and how it should have been done. Like I said he had every reason to be mad today, but he went after the wrong people and did so in the worst possible way.

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