Gautam had the right reasons but the wrong approach today - Page 5

If only..people were as intelligent as you

Originally posted by: TheBoss

I guess he was clearly not thinking straight, the fatigue and excursion played a contributing factor in him not able to comprehend whats going on. He has handled Ali better in worst situations before and this time he completely lost it. In the process he ended up alienating Sambhavna, Dimpy, Mahek, Rahul who all stood up and thought Upen was laughing at him. The task was really hard to perform and being in the confined space I think he started feeling that the walls are closing in and he began imagining things that was not happening.

Hey Boss,

I just watched the epi and I have to really disagree on you on this thread.

Mahek made a very telling statement.

One of the pints people are using to criticize G is 'why did he have a delayed reaction'

Looking at the timeline of events, if is clear that while Ali was tormenting him, he tried to reason with him by reminding him to watch his words as he represents his family. Nothing unreasonable or below the belt there. When Ali still did not stop, he resorted to singing in order to drown out Ali. After that did not work he saw Sambhavna try to stop Ali and then saw Ali tell Sam to take Rahul away from there. Sam and Rahul very conveniently left after token protests. We don't know how long G had to endure Ali in his face alone but he did. Finally Ali and Sam had an argument after G was left alone and this period of the argument transferring to Sam allowed G to think clearly (as per his priorities not ours) and something snapped in him. He decided that this was not worth it and quit the task. He left the cage and went to the bathroom. Only Sam followed him in at this stage.

Of course Sacha acha Pritam made his token 'don't go Gsuram speech' before that.

After all celebrated then they went after G on bathroom. Pritam was first to try to 'clear' himself. G congratulated him and was trying very hard to compose himself and internalise everything. Only when everyone came to justify themselves and feign concern, did he breakdown at the duplicity. It was not over reacting. He could gave easily over reacted in the cage if that was his goal.

Mahek asked everyone repeatedly to give him space and let hi. Relax because he's tired but they were more concerned with their images. The guilt on Pritams face was apparent. Even Ali was so guilty that he needed Upen with him to speak to G. Why do they need to interact with him in packs. That itself us enough to make anyone feel cornered and alone.

Conveniently in the BR Sam tells G don't worry, I know you're tired and didn't mean what you said and then behind his back in BR she bitches about him, no less than Pritam. What the heck.

Upma was seen coaching Ali in The kitchen to go say it was task and I'm sorry just do Ali can repair his image and nullify Gautam's footage. Upen was more worried about the footage G was getting. Even Karishma, didn't come out if humanity to talk to G at the cage but she came to capitalise on the footage per Upens coaching. Let's not kid ourselves and be naive.

So to sum up, Gautam not only had the right reasons, but also his approach was completely natural and aligned with timeline of sequence of events.

Originally posted by: praval

sorry Bossy..first time I am disagreeing with you..sometimes it happens that we are totally disgusted with some situation and people ...but try to be strong..we don't react instantly..if what happened had not bothered him he would not have left that task...just that when everybody kept asking him in the bathroom.".Kya hua tu thik hai...":then while explaining him he went through that whole experience in his mind again and again..that broke him down as he is definitely a self made man..

it has happened to me ..when facing the situation we behave strong but when describing that incident to others we have tears in our eyes..

same thing happened tp him..

I can relate to him so much..after all we both are sagitarians..😉

Originally posted by: Picasso9

Hey Boss,

I just watched the epi and I have to really disagree on you on this thread.

Mahek made a very telling statement.

One of the pints people are using to criticize G is 'why did he have a delayed reaction'

Looking at the timeline of events, if is clear that while Ali was tormenting him, he tried to reason with him by reminding him to watch his words as he represents his family. Nothing unreasonable or below the belt there. When Ali still did not stop, he resorted to singing in order to drown out Ali. After that did not work he saw Sambhavna try to stop Ali and then saw Ali tell Sam to take Rahul away from there. Sam and Rahul very conveniently left after token protests. We don't know how long G had to endure Ali in his face alone but he did. Finally Ali and Sam had an argument after G was left alone and this period of the argument transferring to Sam allowed G to think clearly (as per his priorities not ours) and something snapped in him. He decided that this was not worth it and quit the task. He left the cage and went to the bathroom. Only Sam followed him in at this stage.

Of course Sacha acha Pritam made his token 'don't go Gsuram speech' before that.

After all celebrated then they went after G on bathroom. Pritam was first to try to 'clear' himself. G congratulated him and was trying very hard to compose himself and internalise everything. Only when everyone came to justify themselves and feign concern, did he breakdown at the duplicity. It was not over reacting. He could gave easily over reacted in the cage if that was his goal.

Mahek asked everyone repeatedly to give him space and let hi. Relax because he's tired but they were more concerned with their images. The guilt on Pritams face was apparent. Even Ali was so guilty that he needed Upen with him to speak to G. Why do they need to interact with him in packs. That itself us enough to make anyone feel cornered and alone.

Conveniently in the BR Sam tells G don't worry, I know you're tired and didn't mean what you said and then behind his back in BR she bitches about him, no less than Pritam. What the heck.

Upma was seen coaching Ali in The kitchen to go say it was task and I'm sorry just do Ali can repair his image and nullify Gautam's footage. Upen was more worried about the footage G was getting. Even Karishma, didn't come out if humanity to talk to G at the cage but she came to capitalise on the footage per Upens coaching. Let's not kid ourselves and be naive.

So to sum up, Gautam not only had the right reasons, but also his approach was completely natural and aligned with timeline of sequence of events.

U guys give me reason to want to come back to IF
So well analysed n written