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Posted: 10 years ago
#41

Originally posted by: TheBoss


Granted she has been dignified but all that dignity goes out the door when she does not show tolerance to anybody different than her. It is just like a burqa clad lady going on the beach and criticizing those wearing a bikini. 😕
Besides if she is really that offended then change begins at home. She should direct her protocol management with Upen to start with on how to conduct himself.


dignity is also limited to how you interact with boys (doesn't matter if you're single and doing nothing wrong), its okay to scream at the top of the lungs every chance you get, sit together in packs and call other women all sorts of names, use task as an excuse to torture people then throw the place upside down crying women's rights for ages, act like a veruca salt because you're not getting your makeup back and tell someone else "eww ganga face hai tumhara", laugh at so called jokes of someone dying, act like a petulant child..

as long as you don't touch men, oh wait hang on a second she also touches Upen and they cuddle and hug, according to some orthodox women, women shouldn't be touching other men they're not married to and when they are in a relationship..

but i guess Karishma's values are values and everyone else's cashews!
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Posted: 10 years ago
#42

Originally posted by: Sabhayata


its about how you interact with boys

trying to do showmance with two guys for content and doing kumble fumble with one is not dignified in my opinion


But Karishma also did the same thing ...right ? she did Kumble mein fumble with upen and its very recent happening. Where and what is the rate scale where you measure someone's dignity ? Is it more dignified to bully one than being with two men. And why sonali ? Why not upen ? Every freaking girl - every girl he had some sort of relation. Putting all kind of disgusting acts in name of brother and sister, was that dignified ?

I like karishma for certain things and so is with sonali BUT the thing is do the person have the audacity to moral police anyone when they themselves are filled with all immoral crap. When you point at someone, there are 3 fingers coming at you - only to tell to look at yourself 1st to even say filth for others.
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Posted: 10 years ago
#43

Originally posted by: CaptiveFreedom

Behavioral Difference? Aren't codes of morality same for both men and women?...yeah y're right this is a human rights issue...


NO... What Karishma said, is not a matter of rights issue, neither a morality issue, in Indian culture or in most conservative societies playboyism is not viewed positively for all men. But we don't get surprised when it's a man, but doesn't mean we approve it.

While a girl does it, due to it's rarity it gets a mention. Well while we will have too many girls exercising that right, nobody will be surprised, but criticism will still remain. Doesn't mean, Karishma gave an approval for Upen's playboyism.

Like in many societies a female gets a mention in news media, for things that a man never gets, because of rarity/breaking the norms...Karishma used that note of Exclamation ..."being a girl..." Don't have to coin it with rights/Morality afresh.

Begging to every other guy for kiss, love, after being rejected several times and that admitting under compulsion that she faked love with Upen...I don't think sonali has any morale ground to expect, people to appreciate her...well same may be applicable to some male contestants as well... But they are irrelevant here, since the comment broadcasted only relates to sonali, Karishma doesn't have a time slot reserved to comment on all contestants in one episode.

By rejecting Upen's approach for a closer relations, she has already made her judgement about Upen pretty clear...she doesn't need to be surprised for him and say..."being a boy how he can be play boy" 😆 Sorry the term is already coined for a boy...let the term "Play Girl" be accepted for sonali...in future she won't get a surprise statement...😉... Like none was surprised hearing, Sunny Leone getting cozy with a house mate...people were relieved that she didn't display her recognized potential ...😆 Sonali is setting her reputation for future, we won't b surprised then...😛
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: SoPunk


NO... What Karishma said, is not a matter of rights issue, neither a morality issue, in Indian culture or in most conservative societies playboyism is not viewed positively for all men. But we don't get surprised when it's a man, but doesn't mean we approve it.

While a girl does it, due to it's rarity it gets a mention. Well while we will have too many girls exercising that right, nobody will be surprised, but criticism will still remain. Doesn't mean, Karishma gave an approval for Upen's playboyism.

Like in many societies a female gets a mention in news media, for things that a man never gets, because of rarity/breaking the norms...Karishma used that note of Exclamation ..."being a girl..." Don't have to coin it with rights/Morality afresh.

Begging to every other guy for kiss, love, after being rejected several times and that admitting under compulsion that she faked love with Upen...I don't think sonali has any morale ground to expect, people to appreciate her...well same may be applicable to some male contestants as well... But they are irrelevant here, since the comment broadcasted only relates to sonali, Karishma doesn't have a time slot reserved to comment on all contestants in one episode.

By rejecting Upen's approach for a closer relations, she has already made her judgement about Upen pretty clear...she doesn't need to be surprised for him and say..."being a boy how he can be play boy" 😆 Sorry the term is already coined for a boy...let the term "Play Girl" be accepted for sonali...in future she won't get a surprise statement...😉... Like none was surprised hearing, Sunny Leone getting cozy with a house mate...people were relieved that she didn't display her recognized potential ...😆 Sonali is setting her reputation for future, we won't b surprised then...😛

Not criticizing what u find inappropriate is equivalent to approval and she told Upen that he is still in the show because of himself only..she herself called Punzy "potty mouth" and believed what potty mouth said "Every father should've son like Upen"...When boys kiss girls without their permission would they be called look this boy is "begging" for kisses? When Gautam kissed Sonali without her permission to which she said "yeh kcuh zyada nahi ho raha" did u said this man is begging for kisses? do Upen ask for women's approval before kissing and hugging them?
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Posted: 10 years ago
#45

Originally posted by: SatiSavitri


Granted she has been dignified but all that dignity goes out the door when she does not show tolerance to anybody different than her. It is just like a burqa clad lady going on the beach and criticizing those wearing a bikini. 😕
Besides if she is really that offended then change begins at home. She should direct her protocol management with Upen to start with on how to conduct himself.


but upen hasn't tried showmance with two girls for sake of content which sonali has

personally i think Sonali,Upen ,Gautam and Diandra all havent been dignified on the show when it comes to showmance

in any case i am not saying karishma is perfect she has her flaws as well hence if sonali calls her selfish i dont mind it because sonali is right there

in same way if karishma calls sonali cheap or questions her character then she is also right there
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: SatiSavitri

so dignity is limited to interaction with boys, good to know!!


So, you want to say, "Dignity is Irrelevant during interactions between boys/girls?" 😛
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Posted: 10 years ago
#47

Originally posted by: Sabhayata


but upen hasn't tried showmance with two girls for sake of content which sonali has

personally i think Sonali,Upen ,Gautam and Diandra all havent been dignified on the show when it comes to showmance

in any case i am not saying karishma is perfect she has her flaws as well hence if sonali calls her selfish i dont mind it because sonali is right there

in same way if karishma calls sonali cheap or questions her character then she is also right there

How can u say Upen hasn't showmanced with girls for the sake of content or for game? It can be a part of his nature but he showmanced and flirted with one girl again and again...They were not dignified because of their hypocrisy only! Those who watched Karishma's fumble under blanket call her cheap and characterless...are they right? okay leave blanket and fumble...ppl who call karishma cheap because Upen kissed her and hugged her are also right..I really want to watch recorded LF now..
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Posted: 10 years ago
#48

Originally posted by: CaptiveFreedom


How can u say Upen hasn't showmanced with girls for the sake of content or for game? It can be a part of his nature but he showmanced and flirted with one girl again and again...They were not dignified because of their hypocrisy only! Those who watched Karishma's fumble under blanket call her cheap and characterless...are they right? okay leave blanket and fumble...ppl who call karishma cheap because Upen kissed her and hugged her are also right..I really want to watch recorded LF now..


bold- if she has then yes as per me she isn't dignified

but where is the proof a video or anything?

even BB hasn't shown anything like this which means its nothing but a rumour

but with sonali we have seen what she has done

even gautam has said the same thing which sonali didnt deny so for sonali there is proof but not for karishma

see personally i like both girls but both have their flaws as well

where karishma is selfish then sonali is not dignified atleast when it comes to showmances its as simple as that for me

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Posted: 10 years ago
#49

Originally posted by: Sabhayata


bold- if she has then yes as per me she isn't dignified

but where is the proof a video or anything?

even BB hasn't shown anything like this which means its nothing but a rumour

but with sonali we have seen what she has done

even gautam has said the same thing which sonali didnt deny so for sonali there is proof but not for karishma

see personally i like both girls but both have their flaws as well

where karishma is selfish then sonali is not dignified atleast when it comes to showmances its as simple as that for me

Well we have different pov.. Even if there will be proof of anything ..I won't blame Karishma for sharing blanket with any person by her choice...I would only criticize her for her hypocrisy...
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Posted: 10 years ago
#50

Originally posted by: ..Sakura..

Tanna's absolutely right😎 Sonali is characterless🤢aur kuch ?😆




Is tanna the only one who said this? No.. Gautam puneet pritam ali dimpy.. The list goes on but bill phatega sirf straight forward laDki par!!!


Hai hai.. Sonali khud galat kaam karti hai, phir wants everyone's shabashi. Not only that karishma ko namecalli g karti hai... But karishma cant say anythin.. Why? A

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