The girl always takes the blame

Schniezel

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Posted: 10 years ago

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Ok in general why blame the girl if you don't like the showmance or a relationship? ??

Upen and Soni not appropriate behaviour . Soni is such a "besharam" girl...

Gautam Sonali not working for you .

Then Sonali is the SOLE culprit. .. Why ?

WITHOUT ANY BIAS ... WHO IS MORE CHIPKU? GAUTAM OR SONALI ?- Gautam ...

Sonali did ask him if he wants to be with her ... He could have refused and said no ...

And he is the one singing songs , kissing , hugging , toying with her ... its not her !

Seriously just because you don't like Gaunali but you like Gautam so Sonali is the one to take blame ????????

And Sonali did stuff individually too ... Among all girls she is the one with maximum fights and drama ...

Edited by Schniezel - 10 years ago

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simi

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Posted: 10 years ago

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I am not blaming the girls. I am actually sad Soni left. She was one of the nicer ones. I want Sonali to leave because she gives no content apart from Gaunali shit.

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Pri_BS

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Posted: 10 years ago

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I am annoyed with Soni because she put fingers on Sonali and Gautam's characters whereas she was indulged in heavy pda herself!!

For Gau-Sonali I blame none. I like them both as a pair and as individuals

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NewYorkerGal

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Posted: 10 years ago

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People were angry at Soni and Upen because they called their relationship brother-sister when clearly they had feelings for each other.

No one is angry at Sonali-Gautum because they are open about their feelings for each other.

It has nothing to do with being a girl or a guy.

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alltheway

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Posted: 10 years ago

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I have nothing to say about this girl. good that she's gone.

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KoffeeLover

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Posted: 10 years ago

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My point exactly. Why is the girl always the one whose character is called out in this? Sonali clearly told him not to touch her and didn't look comfortable but Gautam kept on with his PDA for the sake of footage, So he is also using her for advancement in the game just like she is. Why such double standards?

Same goes with Soni-Upen. Upen was as much party to it than Soni was.

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katherine123

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Posted: 10 years ago

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You make sense... Its because our society teaches a girl to behave in a certain way... If a guy does that they are cool with it...?

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dhinga1

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Posted: 10 years ago

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Originally posted by: Schniezel

Sonali did ask him if he wants to be with her ... He could have refused and said no ...
And he is the one singing songs , kissing , hugging , toying with her ... its not her !
Seriously just because you don't like Gaunali but you like Gautam so Sonali is the one to take blame ????????

You are correct, sir.

If we don't like their showmance but like Gautam, then yes - Sonali is the one to take the blame...

Why? Cos we are public and jo public hai woh sab jaanti hai. And Public is always correct.

So, yes poor Sonali is blamed for being on drugs, not all there in her head, kaamchor and what not...

Am I being ironic?

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uscgirl

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Posted: 10 years ago

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Both the situations are very different. One did pda with brother-sister relationship - Upen & Soni. And other were in initial stage of being gf-bf - Sonali - Gautam. The first one was weird due to certain things like sleeping between Upen's legs and being jealous when other girls would talk to him. So in this case, obviously both are blamed. Why you are thinking only girl is blamed. In WKW, Upen as well as Soni both were questioned and asked for explaination.

Secondly, about GS relationship that naturally happens when both parties are interested.. Sonali did mention "You are cold" "I want to be with you" "I dont like being touched but if I touch a guy its ok" - that actually hinted she is ok with kisses on cheeks and other pda. See if Sonali didnt want that, she is an adult she could have stopped him right then and there. Now you are targetting guys saying its all guys fault. The both wanted it and it happened! Simple. From now where there relationship goes thats in future. But if Sonali is going to Upen and if she flirts with him then people will blame her. No doubt.

Cant use woman card.

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Komal

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Posted: 10 years ago

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this is such typical thing to happen, even I have mentioned that when upen - soni matter is discussed soni gets brunt of bashing but not much is said abt upen

when ali-sonali convo happened .. again I said that its not necessary to jump at ali only calling him narrow minded for that, coz regardless of his intentions, what he said is right, sonali's image n rep will be questioned more!
why isn't the obvious pointed out for both cases, there are spare beds so upen n gautam cldv shared that?

anyways .. I still maintain both are equally at fault, only issue I have about sonali is that if she dsnt like gautam touching her, she should voice it out directly to him instead of telling praneet

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