Aarya or Minisha...Is it even a question? - Page 5

Originally posted by: neha2607

In the film industry relationships nd break ups are bound to happen. Why is it so offending for a women ? Dating is no crime (men/women).

If thr r ppl who look down upon a woman bcz of thus thn thr r ppl who do the same for the guy. Men or women both are entitled to respect nd privacy. What Minissha said was uncalled for specially knowing that thr r 86 cameras nd this topic would be brought by some1 or the other. She isnt that naive to understand this simple thing. "Bear the brunt".

What do u expect of a guy who has been trusting u since day 1 ..recommended u for the show when he gets to know how the same person tried to defame him or point at his character. Thats human nature. No1's a saint to keep shut or be that selfless that even after knowing so much will keep the whole izzat thing.

I totally support Minisha in this matter.. Arya act was pathetic.. On one hand he is fighting that Gautam abused Karishma and on other hand he disrespect other girl by dragging her past..

Glad someone showed logic and came forward from members, otherwise i was fighting alone.

Not only he stamped what Minsha said fbefore , to his denfence he raised ex girl friend issue.

being ex doesn't give any permit to plan a strategy. in other words he wanted to say so what she was my ex girl friend and on this right i proposed such issue and called her.

We are bashing Arya for spilling beans here but remember he was hurt and that too badly and from someone who he considered a friend. What Minissa said today and the other day were not exactly the same words. Arya had maintained the respect and dignity of Minissa since he had come and what did she do? She spoke against him unprovoked of something which happened outside of the house to get brownie points. What most people are not getting is he was hurt and had to give it back. This was bound to happen. Minissa is a vile woman who targets people as per convenience, her lie was caught today by Sushant and Karishma.

Originally posted by: kaushikbasu

We are bashing Arya for spilling beans here but remember he was hurt and that too badly and from someone who he considered a friend. What Minissa said today and the other day were not exactly the same words. Arya had maintained the respect and dignity of Minissa since he had come and what did she do? She spoke against him unprovoked of something which happened outside of the house to get brownie points. What most people are not getting is he was hurt and had to give it back. This was bound to happen. Minissa is a vile woman who targets people as per convenience, her lie was caught today by Sushant and Karishma.

If anyone has studied psychology, when a person is hurt the judgement is clouded hence the only motive is to hurt the other person however one can. This is the reason why you see so many crime of passion.

See!! Did Minisha say that He was his EX.. NO?? Did she said that he left her!! NO!!! She said that Arya called him and told him to hold hands and all just for the show and that was kind of correct..

Minisha could create Drama.. She could cry like hell that yaa we had in a relationship, he broke up with me and all and all.. But she prefer to stay quite rather than play abla naari card..

Originally posted by: vibhusharma78

Glad someone showed logic and came forward from members, otherwise i was fighting alone.

Not only he stamped what Minsha said fbefore , to his denfence he raised ex girl friend issue.

being ex doesn't give any permit to plan a strategy. in other words he wanted to say so what she was my ex girl friend and on this right i proposed such issue and called her.

Originally posted by: kaushikbasu

We are bashing Arya for spilling beans here but remember he was hurt and that too badly and from someone who he considered a friend. What Minissa said today and the other day were not exactly the same words. Arya had maintained the respect and dignity of Minissa since he had come and what did she do? She spoke against him unprovoked of something which happened outside of the house to get brownie points. What most people are not getting is he was hurt and had to give it back. This was bound to happen. Minissa is a vile woman who targets people as per convenience, her lie was caught today by Sushant and Karishma.

If anyone has studied psychology, when a person is hurt the judgement is clouded hence the only motive is to hurt the other person however one can. This is the reason why you see so many crime of passion.

I sometimes wonder if we all watch the same show and the same episodes? 😕 You don't need to clarify that you are a man..if a GUY spoke about a phonecall first, he would have been SHUNNED by the entire house for maligning a "woman" but a woman does it and wants to appear "honest" LMAO itne honest aur transparent ho aap toh ghar baitho na, big boss jaise show mein kya karne aaye ho? Do you guys not see how Gautam is constantly being treated poorly cause of ONE gaali out of anger/pain? Few girls did the same and no punishment, no rights revoked, nothing. Where's the insaaf? Larki karay toh chamatkaar, larka karay toh balatkaar? Coming back to the topic, putting genders aside, Minisha spilled the beans first..you really can't expect anyone to be the bigger person in such a situation and not try to give it back in any way or form. Also he just said they dated at one point, what is so offensive about that? Makes her look like a liar cause this whole time she kept saying "oh we only did a movie together so i mean yea we are friends" He didn't need to reveal it and same goes for her. She started it. He finished it. Hisaab baraber.

As for her keeping quiet, it wasn't cause she was being "mahaan", it was cause she had nothing to add. Also after it all went down, Arya had a genuine reaction, he didn't care about the game anymore where as Minisha was still all about the game instead of saving her face and seemed composed. Use khud koi farq nai par raha toh tum log kyun sathya gaye ho? 😳

From what we have all seen, he has never said or done anything bad for her..even today, it wasn't THAT bad. But she hasn't been a "friend" at all.

Both are wrong but she's more wrong..so nope no gender card will justify this.

Originally posted by: Debamalya

I can see many threads opened in the forum supporting Aarya, personally I think many of them are PR activity as Aarya has spent a lot on Dale Bhagwaner. He is doing his PR on full swing. On the show front its very very clear, Aarya is grossly wrong, he is nothing but a MCP!

And I am saying this being a man. Its sad but you can never get a clear public opinion on this forum as the gender ratio here is completely twisted! I expected many girls to support Aarya here & exactly that happening. But in real life Aarya deserved to be bashed up publicly for displaying his ugly mindset.

Both Minisha & Aarya contacted each other & chalked out strategies for the show, now for that you cant blame them, rather blame KRK who revealed the names much before. Minisha revealed that to Deepsikha, and it was her mistake. But that not as gross a mistake as Aarya did today. When your back hits the wall you start maligning the person saying personal details...thats just cheap behavior. It show his viewpoint on women and the lack of respect for the opposite sex.

It shocks me how many women in the forum are not seeing the subliminal mental backwardness that Arya showed today. Its for people like him, that Indian men are frowned upon world over. As a man I am ashamed of his behavior. Even if Minisha was wrong, he should have kept his mouth shut, thats what a chivalrous man should do. More than Arya I am sad at the fact that here how casually people see gender bias, and fall for stereotypes...its truly SAD!!