Aarya or Minisha...Is it even a question? - Page 4

Originally posted by: *king*

Firstly those in the public domain need to be ready to wash dirty linen in public be it bill clinton or bobby darling.

Right from the start Aarya maintained a safe distance and was very respectful towards Minnisha. But Minnisha first opened the can of worms by talking about the Ladakh episode.

Next when Hrithik came into teh house she called Aarya a Taali ka Baingan.

Yet Aarya kept it within himself and did not confront her.

But when he learnt how she had maligned him on his back he was royally pissed off and talked about the same episode which Minnisha started.

Now all that he said is that they were in a relationship earlier for a short period and mutually broke up and he is even a friend of Minnisha's BF. Isme kaunsi pahaad thoot pada. Where is the disrespect? Celebrities should always be prepared for public scrutiny. If not then they are in the wrong profession.

The king is royally pissed off with Diandra's 'Woman' card. ladki ko gaali nahin de sakte, ladki ki past ke baare mein nahin baat kar sakte lekin ladke toh gande naali ke keede hain. Unke saat jo chahe kar sakte hain.

Finally 1 question to the topic maker. please enlighten us how it is mental backwardness to mention that you wree in a past relationship. Are we living in Saudi or Afghanistan where an unmarried girl-boy relataionship is a social tabboo?

PS: The king neither supports Minnisha nor Aarya. This reply is strictly regarding whether Aarya is correct to bring the past or not as started by the TM

*king*

Originally posted by: *king*

Firstly those in the public domain need to be ready to wash dirty linen in public be it bill clinton or bobby darling.

Right from the start Aarya maintained a safe distance and was very respectful towards Minnisha. But Minnisha first opened the can of worms by talking about the Ladakh episode.

Next when Hrithik came into teh house she called Aarya a Taali ka Baingan.

Yet Aarya kept it within himself and did not confront her.

But when he learnt how she had maligned him on his back he was royally pissed off and talked about the same episode which Minnisha started.

Now all that he said is that they were in a relationship earlier for a short period and mutually broke up and he is even a friend of Minnisha's BF. Isme kaunsi pahaad thoot pada. Where is the disrespect? Celebrities should always be prepared for public scrutiny. If not then they are in the wrong profession.

The king is royally pissed off with Diandra's 'Woman' card. ladki ko gaali nahin de sakte, ladki ki past ke baare mein nahin baat kar sakte lekin ladke toh gande naali ke keede hain. Unke saat jo chahe kar sakte hain.

Finally 1 question to the topic maker. please enlighten us how it is mental backwardness to mention that you wree in a past relationship. Are we living in Saudi or Afghanistan where an unmarried girl-boy relataionship is a social tabboo?

PS: The king neither supports Minnisha nor Aarya. This reply is strictly regarding whether Aarya is correct to bring the past or not as started by the TM

*king*

Originally posted by: SomeoneSensible

@TM: dont be too disappointed, if you see the people supporting Arya, you will see their line of reasoning is that 'men & women are equal' & 'dating or being an ex is not an insult' - which is in fact progressive thinking.

But I support your thought mainly because (& many people fail to realize this) in our country a women who has had multiple relationships is still frowned upon by the vast majority. Whereas a male with multiple relationships is considered a "stud" who can proudly go about boasting about it.

Its only in Gens X, Y Z & so forth that this attitude is slowly changing. Even with these generations you will be surprised at how many still think the above. Go to any Bollywood forum & you will see so many people bashing an Ash or Deepika for the number of relationships they have had, but the same will never be said about an Akshay or Salman.

This is the reason why, its common courtesy not to mention a woman's relationships on a public platform in India. Unfortunately till the above mentality changes completely, this will be the case. In an ideal world, yes men & women should be treated equal, but we are far from that stage (since the consequences for women & men are not equal YET).

I'm not supporting either of them here as they were both clearly wrong to mention things outside of BB. But at least Minisha still mentioned something that was related to BB & strategies, whereas Arya clearly brought in something that was unrelated & unnecessary.

You can see his double standards because while he had no problem stating that Minisha was his ex girlfriend, even he couldnt bring to admit that his current is his GF- conveniently calling her his "khaas friend".

Originally posted by: SomeoneSensible

@TM: dont be too disappointed, if you see the people supporting Arya, you will see their line of reasoning is that 'men & women are equal' & 'dating or being an ex is not an insult' - which is in fact progressive thinking.

But I support your thought mainly because (& many people fail to realize this) in our country a women who has had multiple relationships is still frowned upon by the vast majority. Whereas a male with multiple relationships is considered a "stud" who can proudly go about boasting about it.

Its only in Gens X, Y Z & so forth that this attitude is slowly changing. Even with these generations you will be surprised at how many still think the above. Go to any Bollywood forum & you will see so many people bashing an Ash or Deepika for the number of relationships they have had, but the same will never be said about an Akshay or Salman.

This is the reason why, its common courtesy not to mention a woman's relationships on a public platform in India. Unfortunately till the above mentality changes completely, this will be the case. In an ideal world, yes men & women should be treated equal, but we are far from that stage (since the consequences for women & men are not equal YET).

I'm not supporting either of them here as they were both clearly wrong to mention things outside of BB. But at least Minisha still mentioned something that was related to BB & strategies, whereas Arya clearly brought in something that was unrelated & unnecessary.

You can see his double standards because while he had no problem stating that Minisha was his ex girlfriend, even he couldnt bring to admit that his current is his GF- conveniently calling her his "khaas friend".