Aarya or Minisha...Is it even a question?

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I_Have_A_Spine

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Posted: 11 years ago

I can see many threads opened in the forum supporting Aarya, personally I think many of them are PR activity as Aarya has spent a lot on Dale Bhagwaner. He is doing his PR on full swing. On the show front its very very clear, Aarya is grossly wrong, he is nothing but a MCP!

And I am saying this being a man. Its sad but you can never get a clear public opinion on this forum as the gender ratio here is completely twisted! I expected many girls to support Aarya here & exactly that happening. But in real life Aarya deserved to be bashed up publicly for displaying his ugly mindset.

Both Minisha & Aarya contacted each other & chalked out strategies for the show, now for that you cant blame them, rather blame KRK who revealed the names much before. Minisha revealed that to Deepsikha, and it was her mistake. But that not as gross a mistake as Aarya did today. When your back hits the wall you start maligning the person saying personal details...thats just cheap behavior. It show his viewpoint on women and the lack of respect for the opposite sex.

It shocks me how many women in the forum are not seeing the subliminal mental backwardness that Arya showed today. Its for people like him, that Indian men are frowned upon world over. As a man I am ashamed of his behavior. Even if Minisha was wrong, he should have kept his mouth shut, thats what a chivalrous man should do. More than Arya I am sad at the fact that here how casually people see gender bias, and fall for stereotypes...its truly SAD!!

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Ammarah Saiyed

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Posted: 11 years ago

Aarya has always kept Minisha's respect and she always kept bitching about him.. So if she stoops so low and betrays him like this what Aarya did is completely justified.. He just told the truth and nothing like ok its right to say this and wrong to say that.. He told everything honestly and frankly unlike Minisha who was thinking and speaking slowly.. Moreover Aarya said everything on her face so he is correct..

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I_Have_A_Spine

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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: Amy07
Aarya has always kept Minisha's respect and she always kept bitching about him.. So if she stoops so low and betrays him like this what Aarya did is completely justified.. He just told the truth and nothing like ok its right to say this and wrong to say that.. He told everything honestly and frankly unlike Minisha who was thinking and speaking slowly.. Moreover Aarya said everything on her face so he is correct..

No...that does not justify his action. If Minisha is bitching behind his back he should also do that to settle scores. What on earth justifies talking about their romantic past?????

In India men & women are never treated equally, its typical sexist way of putting a women down as people judge women here & not men. It saddens me that you dont see the shameful intention of Aarya. He could have said, they were friends so he was hurt, but chose to say girlfriend just to start the mud slinging. It shows his character or rather lack of it!

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-Firewhisky-

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Posted: 11 years ago

Both are at fault. As a staunch feminist, I absolutely condemn these "Respect women (only)" slogans which go around. I think this is one of the main reasons why feminism is losing support- it concentrates too much on giving women their respect and rights, completely ignoring the rights of men.

If a man should respect a woman, a woman should respect a man too. It's all about gender equality, no?

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angelpureness

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Posted: 11 years ago

Thank you... at last someone with a brain.

I am so disappointed with Salman... he not only warned Arya about the topic, hence giving him the opportunity to prepare himself, but he allowed it to deviate into who called who first and him disclosing him past. Though Salman did not expect Arya to disclose their previous relationship.

The issue was not who called who, but what was suggested.

I will give Salman a brownie point, coz in the end he did tell Arya, (paraphrasing) You planned it, it didn't happen.

My message to Arya, you have the insecure girlfriend so why do you want to hug and hold your ex girlfriend's hand on 'national television'!

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Neha

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Posted: 11 years ago

So basically irrespective of what Minissha does or says Arya should keep shut...just deny the claims [as if people would believe him] just bcoz Minissha is a woman she has self-respect while he has none. She has a family and future outside but he has none.

For every action thr is an equal and opposite reaction. Minissha started the whole issue, she had no business to start a discussion on something that happened outside the house yet she did. Portrayed him in bad light, practically assassinated his character forgetting that he has a family and a future outside the house as well. Forgetting that how her claims can cost him his reputation , his fans everything...An actor remains one till the time he has respect in the eyes of the masses [ nobody would sign an actor whuz image is bad in public eyes].

Minissha can say anything and get away with it but Arya can't. Admitting of being in a relationship or calling someone your ex...how is it offending or insulting ?? This is the 21st century...dating is not a crime nor is it a sin. If she is so embarrassed about being in a relationship with him thn why did she even date him in the 1st place.

Respect is something you need to earn just bcoz you belong to the F gender doesn't make you entitled to one..you need to earn it and thn maintain it. Even when he revealed things from their past he was being respectful not even once he portrayed her in a bad light. Clearing his stance and the reasons for his question doesn't make him any less.

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I_Have_A_Spine

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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: -Firewhisky-
Both are at fault. As a staunch feminist, I absolutely condemn these "Respect women (only)" slogans which go around. I think this is one of the main reasons why feminism is losing support- it concentrates too much on giving women their respect and rights, completely ignoring the rights of men.

If a man should respect a woman, a woman should respect a man too. It's all about gender equality, no?

When did Minisha disrespect Aarya??? I didnt see it on the show. What she told Deeps actually happened, even Aarya confessed. All she said was that Aarya is a Thali ka baingan, was that disrespectful? Same as talking about their past? Are you kidding me?

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I_Have_A_Spine

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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: neha2607
So basically irrespective of what Minissha does or says Arya should keep shut...just deny the claims [as if people would believe him] just bcoz Minissha is a woman she has self-respect while he has none. She has a family and future outside but he has none.
For every action thr is an equal and opposite reaction. Minissha started the whole issue, she had no business to start a discussion on something that happened outside the house yet she did. Portrayed him in bad light, practically assassinated his character forgetting that he has a family and a future outside the house as well. Forgetting that how her claims can cost him his reputation , his fans everything...An actor remains one till the time he has respect in the eyes of the masses [ nobody would sign an actor whuz image is bad in public eyes].
Minissha can say anything and get away with it but Arya can't. Admitting of being in a relationship or calling someone your ex...how is it offending or insulting ?? This is the 21st century...dating is not a crime nor is it a sin. If she is so embarrassed about being in a relationship with him thn why did she even date him in the 1st place.
Respect is something you need to earn just bcoz you belong to the F gender doesn't make you entitled to one..you need to earn it and thn maintain it. Even when he revealed things from their past he was being respectful not even once he portrayed her in a bad light. Clearing his stance and the reasons for his question doesn't make him any less.

Okay I agree with most of what you have stated. I agree Minisha was wrong to start it, but Aarya was wrong to mention their past out of context. Will you ever tell your friends about your BF/GF without asking them? Isnt that a basic human decency?

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rechup

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Posted: 11 years ago

whatever happened it was very wrong...both were wrong...for me minisha was more wrong...aryaz outburst was a reaction to her statements...but minisha did it in purpose without any provocation...

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angelpureness

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Posted: 11 years ago

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Originally posted by: rechup
whatever happened it was very wrong...both were wrong...for me minisha was more wrong...aryaz outburst was a reaction to her statements...but minisha did it in purpose without any provocation...

what outburst... he was already given the heads up in the confession room... he had ample of time to prepare himself