Opinion: Kavita's weakness is that she is lacking basic social skills

Two examples of her 180 flips today:

- As soon as Eijaz revealed his secret, everybody respectfully gave him some space and time to collect himself. Kavita went to hug him (looking clearly reluctant), and it appeared to be a sweet gesture, especially considering her history with him. Then, he was walking out and for some reason she followed him up to the steps and screamed to him that he is strong??? He clearly wanted to be left alone for a minute.

- Then, later, when Aly mentioned the tel wala thing, Kavita instantly spoke up about the fact that she has seen Eijaz hugging people and has exchanged tel maalish with him before. She might have planned to bring this up to justify voting for Nikki, but to me it did genuinely seem like she had that thought after Aly mentioned the oil thing.

- Even in the Ruby/divorce thing - Rahul's instant skepticism made total sense to me since he has a rough history with them both. Yet he so smoothly came to terms with everything and was very visibly distraught and affected by hearing all the stories that he seemed to naturally understand the gravity of the situation over time. Meanwhile, Kavita was quick to jump on the skepticism by wondering out loud why a couple struggling to keep their marriage afloat would come to BB. A very fair, natural question all critically thinking intelligent people would wonder - but very inappropriate in the moment.

- Of course, by the end, she went and showed some very clearly fake (and unappreciated, it seemed) support to Rubina.

Considering these two things, and the boiled chicken mudda, it is starting to seem to me like Kavita genuinely lacks some basic conversational skills. It is natural for the human mind, which has developed to be skeptical, doubtful, and questioning for evolutionary reasons, to second-guess stories as one hears them. But Kavita takes no second thought and just shares her questions to everyone around her. She can't seem to be able to "read the room" as they say. Even the boiled chicken thing was similar - once she noticed that Eijaz's heavy-handed captaincy was annoying her and was getting some support, she went all out and said truly vile things to a man, trying to shame him for a simple kind gesture he requested at a time of stressful loneliness and isolation. She is such a loose cannon that she has no regard for the other housemates, their image, her own image, the cameras, nothing. Even the 'friends with benefits' thing was along these lines - dimag mein aya toh boldiya!

Not defending her at all, because tbh for a public figure there is no excuse not to work on her social skills, but maybe there is some leftover trauma from her past (could be connected to her incident) at the root of this? She mentioned she was brutally bullied in college, which is when most people learn basic adulting skills as they are finally out of their parent's shadow, so maybe she wasn't able to learn some basic conversational skills because she had no friends during that critical period? IDK man, its starting to seem weird to me that someone can be such a loose cannon again and again and yet seem quite sorted between incidents.

Thoughts?

Kavita is one horrible lady. It’s about trust if someone is comfortable with your touch that means he trusts you. Sometimes we get triggered and sometimes we don’t. You can’t plan a reaction. People who face these things don’t stop living they have to adapt. A teacher was inappropriate with her did she stop interacting with every man? No she didn’t but it stayed with her. Why can’t she see that it affects him but still he tries to live?

People who faced such brutality by monsters still have intercourse but it doesn’t mean that they were or are not effected by that anymore.

Kavita should have been honored to be regarded trustworthy but alas she doesn’t deserve it.

While I dislike Rahul and Jasmine

I have to say Kavita is the most horrible contestant this season

As much as I like her dabangg attitude, I am aghast at her cruelty. Her questions/remarks are to the point but she says them so inappropriately. She ruins everything, the entertainment for the viewers and her own image.

Maybe. Or - she’s simply a shitty person. She harps on “warmth” a lot - and it didn’t take a second for her to shit on that so-called warmth when she questioned someone’s child molestation induced trigger point. Even if you think that - you don’t say it there and like that, and certainly not after you were oh so “affected” by what happened to him.

So yeah - with her track record so far, I’m fresh out of any benefit of the doubt for Kavita.

Shes double minded and confused individual bas

I liked her once. Not anymore.

She has a foot in mouth syndrome. She says and does things which everyone could see are wrong, but she shuts everyone because of her loud voice.

She is phuski bomb. She is confused soul. First she gave hug to Eijaz and than just to choose nikki over eijaz she tried to portrayed that Eijaz does drama. She should show some sensitivity. Its all about trust.

she is an absolute fake

hope she is eliminated first

I hate her to the core 🤢she calls others fake but there is noone more fake than her in that house. She consoled n sweet talked the housemates & next minute bitching abt it behind their backs.

You don't believe the stories then don't show fake concern n sympathy too