Shuklapur doesn't dare talk back to Shukla - Page 4

Originally posted by: arfanazneen

There is a difference between being angry and being disrespectful towards someone na. Be it for right reason or wrong reason.

I completely agree on this.....he talked badly to all three and that was wrong....snapping on people, even if they are your friends is not something i appreciate as a person. His aggressive nature is not good for the others around.....he has got that my way or high way waala attitude which isnt good to have.

Also, the way he speaks to her, shouts at her. He can never listen to other's opinion. He is self righteous. What Arti was saying was definitely not wrong. What Shahnaz was saying was not wrong. He dislikes the trio. He takes out his grudges through tasks(completely fine). But, he can't dictate or expect others to follow him na.

What arti was saying...i dint got....why she wants sid and asim in top....why not herself.????....and at the moment when sid was saying ki apni team ke bande uda do ....tab she was saying this. That was madness.....somebody is irritated and you start acting like mahan aatma who wants nothing.....is happy chahe joh bhi ho....gussa toh aa jayega hi kisi ko bhi.......but obviously sid ke level ka nahi. Sid is aggressive aur uski awaaz bahut upar jaati hain.....saamne waala banda andar se hil jaaye.....isiliye aarti jawab nahi de paati. No its not about grudges....its about team....if they are out....and it goes between this team....toh repercussions nahi aayenge is team par. Us team ke radar mein yeh log honge. Unke paas majority hoti toh woh bhi yahi karte. He can expect arti and shehnaz to play with him in his team......because yeh dono hamesha uske saath rahi hain.....if they want to play alag se .....woh bhi he takes.....but if they want him to play against people of his own team......toh why should sid do that......pahira wont ever target him, sana, and arti....unke radar par bhi opposite team jyaada rahegi....he knows that.

He says he wants his team to win. Kaunsi team? The team is only for him bcz. Shahnaz clearly disliked Pahira. Arti toh has not much to do with anyone except Shukla. Pahira are into eachother.

Haan exactly....the team is bonded by him.....everyone in the team is loyal to him....extremely loyal...does sana and arti have loyal people from other team for them as of now. Pahira ke saath shehnaz har waqt rehti hain.....even when she was upset from sid .....tab bhi she cried in front of pahira only....bas task ke waqt hi nafrat jaag jaati hain sana ki unke liye......chalo if sid agrees to what sana is saying.....ki pahira ke against jao....toh phir toh woh log bas teen hi reh jayenge.....opposite team wont play with them ......toh teen bhale ya paanch ???.....jeetna should be the ultimate target na. Arti and sana if wanna team up with sid....they obviously cant play with other team na......ya toh they play against sid.....joh ki woh khud nahi chahte....toh i really dont get ki kare toh kare kya yaha.

Only one is going to win the task, so obviously anyone would think about themselves. Why does he have to demean others, the way he did it to Aarti today. Tu sbke saat acha rehna chahti hai, baat mat kar bolne pe kyu baat kiya. I am sorry, but, that's her wish. Why does he ask everyone to shut their mouths & not use their brains? He is never called out on this.

I feel because they show him a problem and not a solution to it. They say shefali dhoka degi.....par woh dhoka phir 8 mein nahi degi ????.....if she will eliminate sana in top 5.....toh top 8 mein bhi toh kar sakti hain na....its simple sana and arti will need to choose ki sid ya rashmi team if they wanna play in teams.....kyonki sid going in rash/asim team is impossible at the moment. Rest i agree with you that he has got no right to shut others the way he does.....its pathetic the way he does it....ki bhad mein jao types. Gussa bahut upar.....the kind of statements....that all i agree with. Uska tarika bilkul galat hain.

It's also really sad, that the ladies of his group(Sana & Arti) let him treat them like that. Does he dare to speak with Mahira like that? No. Bcz she will give it back nicely. He apologized to Mahira before. He never apologises to Arti/Sana.

Nahi its not like that .....they do answer jab jyaada gusse mein hoti hain toh.....i have seen them answering him too......otherwise they go with philosophy ki agar ek gussa hain...toh doosra chup rahe.....taaki gussa khatam ho jaye.....i also usually follow the same thing.....that if someone who is my close is angry, i would be calm at the moment......and would let it go and later share my feelings.....gusse mein boli huyi baatein insan kabhi mean nahi karta hain.....but then sid ke level ka gussa nahi karta mera koi near or dear one......these girls are strong that they actually take uska gussa. Thing is sid is their best connection in house....they dont wanna loose him....ab kaise hain woh unka strong connection......kaise hain yeh dono bond itne strong that they dont give up on him.....chahe duniya idhar ki udhar ho jaaye.....woh big boss hamein dikhana jaroori nahi samajhta. Obviously agar koi kisi ko bilkul nahi chodna chahtha toh that person has some qualities too which these girls like in him. Kuch toh hoga na.....koi kyun kisi ko aise hi free mein chahega.....kisi ka itna gussa lega. Haan i agree with ki sid jab ladta hain toh phir appologize karna chahiye joh woh nahi karta hai.....these two should cut until he apologizes .....woh inhe karna chahiye......and yes i agree ki he is self righteous.....usse lagta hain ki woh hi sabse sahi baat karta hain. But yeh bhi sach hain ki mostly woh hi kar raha hota hain sahi baat from game point of view.

Aarti looked visibly scared of Shukla inside the bathroom. It was uncomfortable to watch.

Originally posted by: Bee93

The problem is uski team se the only person who deserves to go to Finale is Sana. This was a stupid move. Tu ya toh Sana ka pakka kar ki wo hi jayegi finale n let that be known to her n plan the game accordingly ya sabse weakest contestants ko nikaalo bahar pehle that is Pahira coz if they reach the finale, it'll mean one deserving person gets to not be in the top 5. Paras ka phir bhi kisi tarah maan lo but Mahira? No fu*king way. And going by his "strategies" till now, Shukla weakest bande ko hi bachata aya hai team team ke naam pe. What if they ended up making sure Mahira gets in? Even by mistake? I can't even imagine how disappointing that will be for viewers.

Originally posted by: EtherealRati

bhadak toh woh sab par hi jaata hain......the guy got no control over his anger but he was angry at a right reason today.....at times he is angry without good reasons.

It’s not about anger - gussa sab ko aata hain and it’s fine - for the most part. But it’s about how you talk to people. Shukla puts people down, repeatedly - and not just when he’s angry. Because he thinks they’re all brainless twits - joh uske hisaab se chalne chahiye. His way - always his way, or the highway.

He not only treats them as such, but the way he talks down to them is atrocious. Ratti bhar respect nahi hain dusron ke basic individuality tak ki, toh uski care yaan pyaar ka kya karenge woh? When one is so controlling - there is no room for respect. And there’s no friendship without it.

Originally posted by: SP2684

It’s not about anger - gussa sab ko aata hain and it’s fine - for the most part. But it’s about how you talk to people. Shukla puts people down, repeatedly - and not just when he’s angry. Because he thinks they’re all brainless twits - joh uske hisaab se chalne chahiye. His way - always his way, or the highway.

He not only treats them as such, but the way he talks down to them is atrocious. Ratti bhar respect nahi hain dusron ke basic individuality tak ki, toh uski care yaan pyaar ka kya karenge woh? When one is so controlling - there is no room for respect. And there’s no friendship without it.

If only everyone could take stand, his herogiri would have gone long time ago.

When has Sana answered back to Sid? She takes all his crap silently. Even today she told her brother do whatever he says.

Originally posted by: EtherealRati

i completely agree with each line you have put there but what i dont get is how is his bond so strong with sana or arti then. Why cant they just give up on him.....kuch toh acha bhi hoga that they stick around......they are in that house for 24 hours.....i am sure aise bahut cheeje hogi joh hamein nahi dikhai gayi which has built these bonds that strong that they dont break. Sana Arti dont leave him....chahe duniya idhar ki udhar ho jaaye.....aisa one sided relationships mein nahi hota.....hona possible hi nahi hain.

Oh I’m sure they like him. But it’s about priorities - and it’s a right shame IMO that neither of these two women prioritize being treated with respect. For me, it’s a deal breaker.

And besides - the bigger question in my view, is why is Shukla with them? Not because he thinks much of them or their capabilities - he thinks they’re brainless. He wants people he can control - puppets - and these two are happy to be such for him. Sana toh at least apne mann ki kar bhi leti hain kabhi kabhi, but it’s Aarti that really saddens me.

Originally posted by: Sabhayata

When has Sana answered back to Sid? She takes all his crap silently. Even today she told her brother do whatever he says.

With Sana it is very different. She is not scared of him. There have been many instances when she treated him like shit. It all depends on her mood. Seems both ways. Can't call Sana doormat as she has a mind of her own. At the end of the day she makes her own calls and plays what she wants. I agree partly with what you are saying as she keeps going back to him and allowed him to say some mean things.

Felt so bad for Arti but I think she is scared of him she knows he goes wild if go mad that's why she avoids fights arguments with him.

I think she likes n cares for him alot that's why she listens to his bakwas