Completely agreed! Want to express my pov here.
What is BB all about? physical strength, insulting , character assassination ? NO.
From what i've understood it's all about the strength of mind, mind games, showing your real side, perseverance entertainment, standing for right, expressing your pov on right and wrong matters , friendship, pure bonds even the fake bonds(for game sake) and only a little about physical strength ( when the task requires). WWE , KKK and roadies and other shows involve physical strength . People who want to show their physical strength should participate in them bcoz BB is not about that.
It was all fine when Siddarth was provoking, some ppl find it disgusting but frankly speaking it's alright if it's a part of his strategy.
Faking relationships like paras is doing is also fine is it's for game sake .
Even sana faking it with shukla because of sidnaaz popularity is also fine.
Asim provoking is also fine considering it's a part of his strategy.
Shefali and VG manipulating is fine for game sake afterall everyone has come to the show to win it.
All this that i mentioned are a part of strategies to get ahead in the show.
Now i want to mention what's not fine.
Physical violence, the first time siddharth hurt mahira, I gave him benefit of doubt considering it was all in the zest and heat of the moment and was totally unintentional. What was not fine was him smirking and making faces when mahira was bashed. What was not fine was him repeating this offence again with multiple other people. What was not fine was mocking a person about his per day. What was not fine was character assassinating mutiple ppl on national television (shefali,rashmi,himanshi). What was not fine was showing yourself to be superior and being authorative over everyone. What was not fine was laughing continuously seeing other ppl's misery . What was not fine was not standing up for your friends in their fights when they stood up with you(for eg. In paras asim fight ,sid didn't take any side, aarti paras fight again no stand , when all of them have stood up for him atleast once). Honestly speaking , he wouldn't look so bad as much as he is looking right now after doing all these things.
Provoking , everyone has done in the game at one point or another so if you consider it's wrong then they all should be called out on it. But favouring one person over others in this thing is pure hypocrisy.
Next in line , Paras . It's ok if you are trying to pretend being in love for game sake, but involving any other girl(shehnaaz) in the triangle knowing that she loves him in reality is not fine. Character shaming a girl who he considers as his bhabhi is not fine, involving your ex or current gf(akanksha puri) and showing her in negative light is not fine, being possessive for the girl you are pretending to be in love with is not fine.
Next in line, shehnaaz , TBH i never liked her because i always thought she was faking it but now have realised they all are a crazy lot and no one is right all the time so at this point of time she's looking sane to me.
Next in line, Asim , if I see it from game oov I don't think he's doing anything wrong in provoking anyone(considering all of them are doing it), still he goes overboard sometimes but I'll give him the benefit of doubt as I gave to siddharth. He's provoking , Yes but did he give any reaction from his side, No. What siddharth is doing is he is provoking and when in return anyone retaliates he gets provoked and gets violent which is not doing anything good for him in the game. Asim has been aggressive but has always apologised for his misbehaviour. He's not some demi god , he's a human . And apologising when you feel you're wrong makes you human. I've never seen him using words like tujhe thuk dia, toyboy, ms beautiful, cougar etc. All of them are wrong here but who isn't . No one is correct all the time. What matters is who is least flawed. In this situation it's sana, vishal, asim , madhurima (in this scenario to be specific).
Others supporting wrong(character shaming) like mahira , zariwala, gupta cannot be justified. They're also passively involved in what's going on.
And others who don't have the guts to stand up for anything be it right or wrong are also passively involved.
And at the end what is not fine is the makers glorifying violence and character and age shaming by not taking any action and that freaking biased attitude of theirs is what is getting on everyone's nerves. I mean how can they even be this hungry for trp. They think that audience likes all this but trust me , there is only a small fraction of sadistic audience who like watching this negativity but the rest of the sane ones who are just looking for some entertainment and a fun weekend will at the end condemn and boycott the show.
Edited by lifeiscool - 5 years ago