Repulsive and Regressive - Page 4

Sid beats Sana. Throws her down in such a way that she gets hurt. Stands over her body. Hit her in such a way that she gets hurt. Pulls her pushes her even grabs her neck. I never saw this kind of dhakka mukki to a gal be it daughter, sis , frnd, cousins ever in my life. Unless the guy is very abusive pati, papa, bro or frnd .

Don't blame Sid only. Vishal also do the same with Sana now. Only Paras and Asim are gentle with Sana. Rest just hits her pushes her. It is very shocking for me too see Sana is okay with all these. I mean what kind of life she had in her family or with her frnds? Does she think she is modern by letting guys do this with her?😲When u are getting hurt.........raise ur voice. This is nt a healthy relationship. Be it frnd, bro , cousin . daddy or unclejee.

About Arhaan kissing Rashmi.........Sid kisses Sana that way, Paras, Vishal, Bhau even Asim too. That was not forced. He was making her calm down as she was getting over hyper. Even Asim came and took her away from there when she was bursting on SHukla. THat was no romantic kiss or showing power over Rashmi. Just a way to calm her down. Arhaan looked happy too as his medicine is working. She is finally back to her previous roop. By that kiss he was giving shavashi to her.

Found nth awkward.

Originally posted by: jhalak7

Sid beats Sana. Throws her down in such a way that she gets hurt. Stands over her body. Hit her in such a way that she gets hurt. Pulls her pushes her even grabs her neck. I never saw this kind of dhakka mukki to a gal be it daughter, sis , frnd, cousins ever in my life. Unless the guy is very abusive pati, papa, bro or frnd .

Don't blame Sid only. Vishal also do the same with Sana now. Only Paras and Asim are gentle with Sana. Rest just hits her pushes her. It is very shocking for me too see Sana is okay with all these. I mean what kind of life she had in her family or with her frnds? Does she think she is modern by letting guys do this with her?😲When u are getting hurt.........raise ur voice. This is nt a healthy relationship. Be it frnd, bro , cousin . daddy or unclejee.

About Arhaan kissing Rashmi.........Sid kisses Sana that way, Paras, Vishal, Bhau even Asim too. That was not forced. He was making her calm down as she was getting over hyper. Even Asim came and took her away from there when she was bursting on SHukla. THat was no romantic kiss or showing power over Rashmi. Just a way to calm her down. Arhaan looked happy too as his medicine is working. She is finally back to her previous roop. By that kiss he was giving shavashi to her.

Found nth awkward.

Exactly my thought .. what kinda abuse shes undergone to think this is okay.

Originally posted by: BBfan24x7

See now this has become a group vs group thing, but hear me out.

I also feel like Asim is being a little too persistent with Himanshi, the way he keeps flirting and passing comments can make someone uncomfortable, BUT, she has made it very clear where they stand, and from what I've seen, it doesn't look like he's physically forcing himself on her. Everything seems to be within limit as of now and that has a lot to do with Himanshi openly calling him out during the weekend task few weeks ago.

I don't have favourites this time. Everyone is messing up in some way or the other and it's hard to stick by anyone 😆 I look at situations and the people in them for what they are and base my opinions on that.

Originally posted by: jhalak7

Sid beats Sana. Throws her down in such a way that she gets hurt. Stands over her body. Hit her in such a way that she gets hurt. Pulls her pushes her even grabs her neck. I never saw this kind of dhakka mukki to a gal be it daughter, sis , frnd, cousins ever in my life. Unless the guy is very abusive pati, papa, bro or frnd .

Don't blame Sid only. Vishal also do the same with Sana now. Only Paras and Asim are gentle with Sana. Rest just hits her pushes her. It is very shocking for me too see Sana is okay with all these. I mean what kind of life she had in her family or with her frnds? Does she think she is modern by letting guys do this with her?😲When u are getting hurt.........raise ur voice. This is nt a healthy relationship. Be it frnd, bro , cousin . daddy or unclejee.

About Arhaan kissing Rashmi.........Sid kisses Sana that way, Paras, Vishal, Bhau even Asim too. That was not forced. He was making her calm down as she was getting over hyper. Even Asim came and took her away from there when she was bursting on SHukla. THat was no romantic kiss or showing power over Rashmi. Just a way to calm her down. Arhaan looked happy too as his medicine is working. She is finally back to her previous roop. By that kiss he was giving shavashi to her.

Found nth awkward.

The other day she beat Sid bang on his crotch. Are you familiar with any women in your life who would do that? Should he press for assault? She keeps hitting his behind with her foot and vice- versa. They hug and cheek/forehead kiss each other casually often. Sana was hugging and kissing Kartik Aryan unexpectedly the other day as part of her adulation and fangirling. Was she assaulting these men? She hits Vishal too on his behind ‘in fun’. He pulls her hair too.

She, Sana, the woman decides the limits as to who she indulges with and who she allows to indulge with her. Sana is not comfortable at that with all either and she had the conversation with Shukla the other day that she would keep a certain distance from Bhau. You can now either understand her or project her as a wanton woman now since that’s her choice or preference that she exerts and add that to the list of the forum’s labels for her- your choice.

As for Rashmi’s case, I don’t intend to discuss any more of that here. It wasn’t my post nor was my presence prevalent on that thread. But I was putting up the thought within that lead post for representing the hypocrisies prevalent in this microcosm.

Originally posted by: Uma2010

I agree that if anybody’s getting hurt, you have to raise your voice, speak, scream, what have you. Done.

Many real relationships though have physical foreplay. Just because you haven’t seen it, doesn’t mean it doesn’t exist. I am familiar with it myself and have several friends who indulge in physical foreplay. This is not anything kinky I am talking about. People love to assume that this is BDSM and feel cool that they are mentioning the word here. I am not talking about BDSM. It’s as basic as running, pulling, tripping, jumping, pushing, rolling, what have you. It depends on partners as to what they like and what they don’t. Sana is a very tactile person and loves physical contact. Different people, different hues.

The other day she beat Sid bang on his crotch. Are you familiar with any women in your life who would do that? Should he press for assault? She keeps hitting his behind with her foot and vice- versa. They hug and cheek/forehead kiss each other casually often. Sana was hugging and kissing Kartik Aryan unexpectedly the other day as part of her adulation and fangirling. Was she assaulting these men? She hits Vishal too on his behind ‘in fun’. He pulls her hair too.

She, Sana, the woman decides the limits as to who she indulges with and who she allows to indulge with her. Sana is not comfortable at that with all and she had the conversation with Shukla the other day that she would keep a certain distance from Bhau. You can now either understand her or project her as a wanton woman now since that’s her choice or preference that she exerts and add that to the list of the forum’s labels for her- your choice.

As for Rashmi’s case, I don’t intend to discuss any more of that here. It wasn’t my post nor was my presence prevalent on that thread. But I was putting up the thought within that lead post for representing the hypocrisies prevalent in this microcosm.

i agree. i dont like sidnaz but i find them annoying and find them cringey, but their behaviour and style of affection doesnt disturb me one bit. some people have kinks, some just have a very rough way of showing affection. as long as its between adults and consensual- im okay with it. whatever floats ones boat.

I mean BB jaise show mein maybe we should leave aside our moral compass and that needs to be extended to both sid and sana, as well as Himanshi and Asim, Rashmi and Arhaan, Paras and Mahira as well. theyre all adults who can make their own choices and speak up when theyre not comfortable, so if and when they do- we can all support them till then lets not get so worked up over their behaviour.

Originally posted by: Chotimotipsycho

i agree. i dont like sidnaz but i find them annoying and find them cringey, but their behaviour and style of affection doesnt disturb me one bit. some people have kinks, some just have a very rough way of showing affection. as long as its between adults and consensual- im okay with it. whatever floats ones boat.

I mean BB jaise show mein maybe we should leave aside our moral compass and that needs to be extended to both sid and sana, as well as Himanshi and Asim, Rashmi and Arhaan, Paras and Mahira as well. theyre all adults who can make their own choices and speak up when theyre not comfortable, so if and when they do- we can all support them till then lets not get so worked up over their behaviour.

Completely agree. I appreciate that you don’t enjoy the couple at all and yet understand the larger conceptual point of view in terms of personal space sans our judgment.

Originally posted by: Uma2010

Completely agree. I appreciate that you don’t enjoy the couple at all and yet understand the larger conceptual point of view in terms of personal space sans our judgment.

yup. i do. i might not like something but that doesnt mean others cant like it. i dont also support Baap-Beti stuff for them or the age difference between them. none are issues for me. i dont like them as i dont like sana as a person based on whatever ive seen of her in the show. i find their relationship childish and immature mainly, and have no interest in BB showmances in general. so all showmances are cringe for me, even if its something featuring a favorite of mine.

Originally posted by: Chotimotipsycho

yup. i do. i might not like something but that doesnt mean others cant like it. i dont also support Baap-Beti stuff for them or the age difference between them. none are issues for me. i dont like them as i dont like sana as a person based on whatever ive seen of her in the show. i find their relationship childish and immature mainly, and have no interest in BB showmances in general. so all showmances are cringe for me, even if its something featuring a favorite of mine.

Originally posted by: jhalak7

Sid beats Sana. Throws her down in such a way that she gets hurt. Stands over her body. Hit her in such a way that she gets hurt. Pulls her pushes her even grabs her neck. I never saw this kind of dhakka mukki to a gal be it daughter, sis , frnd, cousins ever in my life. Unless the guy is very abusive pati, papa, bro or frnd .

Don't blame Sid only. Vishal also do the same with Sana now. Only Paras and Asim are gentle with Sana. Rest just hits her pushes her. It is very shocking for me too see Sana is okay with all these. I mean what kind of life she had in her family or with her frnds? Does she think she is modern by letting guys do this with her?😲When u are getting hurt.........raise ur voice. This is nt a healthy relationship. Be it frnd, bro , cousin . daddy or unclejee.

About Arhaan kissing Rashmi.........Sid kisses Sana that way, Paras, Vishal, Bhau even Asim too. That was not forced. He was making her calm down as she was getting over hyper. Even Asim came and took her away from there when she was bursting on SHukla. THat was no romantic kiss or showing power over Rashmi. Just a way to calm her down. Arhaan looked happy too as his medicine is working. She is finally back to her previous roop. By that kiss he was giving shavashi to her.

Found nth awkward.

What I find most disturbing is that when Sana speaks out n says it's hurting me, even then SS doesn't let go or stop manhandling her.

Originally posted by: Uma2010

And that is one of the biggest signs of emotional maturity. I perfectly get where you are coming from. I have friends here who are exactly at par with you on the couple and showmance and I respect that as well.

Cheers. Enjoy what you like.